What is the first sentence to take a step back?

Endure a calm moment and take a step back.

Nonsense, divorced from reality

There is no doubt that a person should stick to the principles in his heart and be noble in his heart. He should not compromise easily or even betray his conscience because he gives in to pressure or covets the enjoyment of material interests. However, when one's fame or material interests are damaged, or when one's personal interests conflict with others, it is not cowardice, but a manifestation of great tolerance.

"Take a step back and broaden the horizon." People often use this sentence to comfort others or themselves-be tolerant. "Tolerance will broaden your horizons?" Looking through the Modern Chinese Dictionary, we get the explanation of the word tolerance: "Be open, don't care, don't pursue it." Empty! Since then, there has been another doubt in the young mind.

The Mituo Temple in Xiangshan, Wuning, Jiangxi Province, saw the smiling, chubby Maitreya Buddha with a big belly, and saw the meaningful couplets on both sides of him: "Laugh when you open your mouth, laugh at the past and laugh at everything; A big belly can accommodate you and the world. "

At this time, I suddenly realized that tolerance is a kind of cheerful and open-minded; Tolerance is a profound accomplishment; Tolerance is a noble character. Tolerance is the breadth of the mind, beyond the century, beyond the universe, beyond people's imagination.

"A gentleman is virtuous and can tolerate black, while knowing can tolerate fools, but broad and shallow, refined and miscellaneous." This is Xunzi's incisive introduction. I think a gentleman is a gentleman because of tolerance! It is precisely because of this kind of tolerance that Cao Cao will set fire to the loyalty tables of those soldiers and forgive their mistakes; Li Shimin will reuse Wei Zhi, the old minister of the Prince, and forget the past; Min Zikai will kneel down to plead for his stepmother and will not pursue grievances.

Tolerance is really simple, but how many people can put it into action in reality? When someone makes an unintentional mistake, say "it doesn't matter"; When others offend interests, say "I don't mind"; When others disagree, say, "It's nothing." Although everyone can say these words, how many people can plant them deeply in their hearts?

Our thoughts and actions are imposed on others, and we must live under the same sky. If human beings want to be harmonious, they must learn to be tolerant. For example, the Buddha in Mituo Temple opened his mind and accepted everything in the world with a smile. At this time, the heart is thicker than the ground and wider than the sky. Oh, it turns out that forgiving others is liberating yourself.

Tolerance, like a clear spring, douses the fire of resentment; Like a breeze blowing away jealousy; Like a bonfire, warm and indifferent heart. When you take a step back, you will see the endless sky and the endless sea. Let's enjoy this refreshing retreat.