How to behave gracefully

Behavior affects others' judgment of their personal image. How to behave gracefully? The following is an article I collected for you about how to behave gracefully. I hope I can help you!

How should a person behave?

People's temperament is very important, and people's temperament can determine many things. People with great manners are pleasing to the eye, and people with great manners can get twice the result with half the effort. However, it is not easy to be a person who reveals extraordinary generosity in his behavior, but it is not impossible in my opinion.

First of all, from the heart, one needs to have confidence. Don't flinch. Self-confidence can make you a radiant person. People with self-confidence are not too unlucky, and laughter is the best way to cultivate themselves. Smile at yourself in the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are the best, so that you can take your time.

I have a friend who is the goddess of temperament in our mind. She always faces everything with a smile and is full of confidence, but in fact, God is fair to everyone, not that she has never suffered, but I think she has experienced a lot of pain. But it is the kind of person who can laugh and tell the pain he has experienced. In fact, everyone who comes into contact with her will gradually be influenced by her. The pain of life is not pain, but you can still influence another person in an atmospheric way, as if life has never crushed you.

Secondly, reading is a good way to cultivate temperament. If you want to take your time and express yourself in an atmosphere, you can read many books, because you are full of poems and books, and your capacity can determine your capacity. I don't know why the coldness written in the book has such great power, that is, it can influence another person from the inside out, and the ideological aspect will be completely rectified, thus affecting a person's behavior.

Two years after graduation, my high school classmate held a party, and I was most impressed by that classmate. I used to hate her meanness and meanness. She was never positive and optimistic. I think what she brings me is negative energy. She tells me every day how poor her family is and what she does is to make money. Knowing this party, she said that she chose literature by mistake, so she read a lot of books and her whole mind changed. It's hard to tell how many times she has performed.

Finally, from the appearance, there is still a lot to pay attention to. A clean image can help people build a good first impression. You don't need to wear gorgeous and moving clothes, but you must be simple and generous. When you get along with friends, you should pay attention to restraining your inner thoughts. Everyone may not be that rich, but your words and deeds are enough to make people feel your atmosphere, so you won't cause others to gossip about you behind your back.

I think everyone wants to be a polite person, because when you get along with such people, there will be an extra freedom and happiness in getting along with others, and if you feel good, you will be praised by others. The method is not difficult. I believe you can do it if you want.

How to behave gracefully

First of all, calm down.

(1) Don't show your emotions casually.

(2) Don't tell everyone about your difficulties and experiences.

(3) Before consulting others, think for yourself, but don't speak first.

(4) Don't nag about your dissatisfaction every chance you get.

(5) Important decisions should be discussed by others as far as possible, and it is best to release them the next day.

(6) Don't panic when talking or walking.

Self-confidence is good, but don't ignore anyone's ideas.

(8) People are different. Don't look like you're dragging. Don't forget to be polite to people and things. You are no better than anyone.

Two: Be careful.

(1) Always think about the causal relationship of things happening around you.

(2) For the problem that can't be done in place, we should explore its root causes.

(3) To put forward suggestions for improving or optimizing the methods of doing things.

(4) Everything is in an orderly way.

(5) Always find a few faults or shortcomings that others can't see.

(6) You should make up for the deficiency anytime and anywhere.

Three: courage

(1) Don't use words that lack confidence.

(2) Don't always go back on your word and easily overturn what has been decided.

(3) People should not be indecisive when arguing.

(4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic about the sunshine.

(5) Do everything with your heart, because someone is watching you.

(6) When things don't go well, take a breath, find a breakthrough again, and end it cleanly.

Four: magnanimity

(1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.

(2) Don't haggle over trifles and mistakes of others.

(3) Be generous in money and learn three ways (money, law and fearlessness).

(4) Don't have arrogance of power and prejudice of knowledge.

(5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.

Five: Integrity

(1) Don't say what you can't do, just do it.

(2) Don't always talk about empty slogans or slogans.

(3) Stop all "immoral" means.

(4) It's not good to be smart!

Sixth: Take responsibility.

(1) When reviewing any mistakes, you should start to reflect on yourself or your own people.

(2) After the incident, review the fault first, and then make contributions.

(3) The plan should be planned as a whole to plan for the future.

(4) the loss caused by the courage to take responsibility.

Seven: Connotation

(1) Learn all aspects of knowledge and observe things around you with an open mind. Broad vision.

(2) Know yourself and cultivate your own aesthetics.

(3) Laugh at life. Laziness is unacceptable. Cultivate healthy living habits.

(4) Don't do anything blindly. Have a goal.

(5) Not only pay attention to inner beauty, but also external beauty is very important.

(6) Don't play with boring things in front of the computer all day.

(7) Make rational judgments and learn to control emotions.

These are the first conditions for temperament cultivation.

How to cultivate your own temperament

Recognize yourself

Women must first give themselves an accurate positioning and see themselves clearly. Don't overestimate or underestimate yourself. When you are not sure, ask yourself carefully: "What do I need? Can I do it? " The first one to answer you must be the truest voice in your heart. Ask yourself, be honest, and don't deceive yourself. You will often get the most satisfactory answer.

Stay away from right and wrong

As the saying goes, "three women's lives", the gossip in the world often exists because of women. Watch your mouth, do your job, and don't go into the muddy water of rumors. Of course, don't tell others your privacy easily. It's best to remain mysterious and stay away from other people's guesses. Maybe you will be more attractive and attractive.

Dominate oneself

When women encounter setbacks, they are most likely to find support and escape from reality. This weakness seems to be a woman's nature. However, life is equal, and everyone will encounter setbacks and blows in life. Dependence for a long time will be boring. Therefore, instead of relying on others, it is better to stand up by yourself. Strength and cowardice are a mirror. You decide the value of your life, and the winner in life is the one who dominates yourself.

economic independence

Women must be independent if they want to gain respect. Have your own assets and money-making channels, and don't be a vassal of others. In the traditional concept, it is natural for men to raise women. In fact, women who rely on men to support themselves have no self-esteem. Teach you to be a winner in life! On the other hand, it is not too difficult for a woman to earn money by her own labor as long as her limbs are sound. What's more, disabled people like Zhang Haidi can gain public respect. Looking around the world, there is always a job that suits your strengths. On this basis, learn how to manage money and constantly enrich the "personal bank", then you will have the backbone of life.

Elegant manners

Although careless and all hands are regarded as cute and spontaneous by some people, a mature woman should be more feminine, that is, elegant in manners and appropriate in speech. If you are still young and allowed to be "cute", that is understandable; But if you want to show your quality and connotation, you need to pay attention to your image. The emphasis here is on decent elegance. Being too reserved and melodramatic will be counterproductive and appear artificial.

Make friends with friends.

Learn from good people and dance with witches. When making friends, a smart woman should clearly judge whether you are making bad friends or good friends. A mentor in life is conducive to your continuous progress, encouragement and courage. Those who encourage you to fall should keep a wide distance from others. You don't have to make friends with gangs, you don't have to have sex with booze.

Control emotion

It is said that men are rational, women are emotional, and women's tears and sentimentality seem to make her look exquisite. In fact, women need reason more than men. A free and relaxed woman has an atmospheric beauty. "Sister Lin" has no market in modern society. Even if you are emotional again, you should keep it in your heart. It is not appropriate to tell the whole story.

Positive and optimistic

Always pay attention to your life, whether you are running on the normal track? If we regard decadence and degeneration as avantgarde and fashion, we should prevent ourselves from falling into the abyss of spirit and reality. Make a plan and goal for yourself and make progress step by step within your power. Don't comfort yourself with excuses and reasons. Actually, it's just laziness Don't expect to escape responsibility by being simple and naive, you must make your own decisions for your life.

How to be an elegant person?

Personal etiquette is expressed through every move. Then let's learn about the "main content of personal etiquette" first, so as to fundamentally improve our self-cultivation.

Manner refers to a person's posture, manners and demeanor, that is, a person's expression, behavior and movements, including a person's body language. It reflects a person's personality, psychology, feelings, self-cultivation and temperament.

Do you know what personal etiquette includes? Let's look at "personal basic behavior etiquette".

Even if a person has outstanding beauty and fashionable clothes, if there is no corresponding behavioral beauty, it will destroy his image. Our posture and behavior should reflect appropriate beauty and elegant behavioral beauty.

Standing, sitting and walking are all necessary. Honest but not reckless, lively but not frivolous, nervous but not flustered at work, relaxed but not lazy at rest, polite but not inferior when contacting guests.

A person's temperament, manners and etiquette should not be dressed up by high-grade clothes, let alone be supported by people, but should be naturally reflected in words and deeds.

Let's take a look at this article "The Beauty of Mind in Personal Etiquette" first. Only this spiritual beauty from the inside out can make our behavior more beautiful.

So what can I do to become an elegant person? Let's take a look at them one by one.

1. Stand firmly

It is the posture when people stand, which is the easiest to show their physical characteristics. Standing posture in social occasions requires "standing with a frame" and pays attention to the beauty and elegance of standing posture.

Women should be graceful, quiet and elegant; Men should be strong, upright, steady and generous.

Want to know the correct standing posture? Take a look at this article "Standing and Squatting in Personal Etiquette", which will benefit you a lot.

The correct standing posture should be

Correct, solemn and steady. When standing, from the front, people should take their noses as points and be perpendicular to the ground. The human body is symmetrical on both sides of the vertical line, and its expression is natural and clear.

2. Sitting posture pays attention to a sense of stability

Sitting posture is the most important human posture in interpersonal communication, which reflects very rich information. Beautiful sitting posture is correct, elegant, natural and generous.

At this time, you need to know the "basic essentials of sitting etiquette", which can help you correct your sitting posture. By reading this article, we know:

When sitting down, you should go to the front of the seat and turn around, then step back with your right foot, then sit down gently and steadily and close your right foot.

After sitting, the upper body naturally sits up straight, the shoulders are flat and relaxed, the waist is straight, and the chest is raised. Put your hands on your knees or cross your hands with a fist on your legs, or put your arms slightly bent and palms down on the table. Legs naturally bend, feet flat on the ground, male knees slightly apart, female knees must be close together, feet parallel, hips sitting in the center of the chair (men can sit in the chair with their backs gently attached to the back of the chair). Eyes up, lips slightly closed, chin slightly closed, smile.

When you stand up, step back with your right foot, then stand up straight and retract your right foot.

3. walking posture Spirit Exhibition

Walking is the main activity in people's life. From the way a person walks, we can see whether his spirit is enterprising or frustrated and lazy, and whether he is popular or not. It can best reflect a person's mental outlook. In life, no matter how well dressed, some people will feel inferior if their walking posture is not beautiful. And some people, despite their simple clothing style, are different from others with their beautiful walking posture.

This article "Basic essentials and precautions of walking posture etiquette" can help you to have more perfect walking posture etiquette.

The standard walking posture requires that the upper body should be straight, the shoulders should be steady, the eyes should be straight, the jaw should be miniature, and the face should be smiling. Arms straight and relaxed, fingers naturally bent. When swinging, take the shoulder joint as the axis, and the upper arm drives the forearm to swing back and forth naturally; Lean forward slightly, lift your hips and bend your thighs to drive your calves forward.

4. Squatting posture should be elegant and generous

When squatting, be sure not to bend over and push your hips back; Don't spread your legs apart, spread your legs in a balanced way, and show your underwear when you squat, which will not affect your physical beauty.

Therefore, when you want to pick up something that has fallen to the ground or take something low, you can't just bend your upper body and hips. Instead, you should go to the side of what you want to pick up or take, and then pick it up with the correct squatting posture.

5. Look natural and decent.

When meeting, whether you meet a familiar person or a person you meet for the first time, whether you meet by chance or make an appointment, you should first look at each other with sincere and focused eyes for a while, smile and show joy and enthusiasm. For people who meet for the first time, you should also nod your head slightly in a friendly way to show respect and courtesy.

I hope this article "Etiquette Common Sense of Personal Etiquette Expression" can help you adjust your facial manners.

6. Try to be soft and cheerful.