What do you think of this kind of mother who divorced and remarried her daughter and bought a house for her brother with a bride price?

Watching the TV series "Everything is OK", the person Xiao Tao dislikes the most is Su Mu. Obviously, there are only three children, and the youngest daughter Su Mingyu should be the most favored, but Su Mu is not interested in this only daughter, just because she is a daughter.

In Sue's family, two sons are the most popular, Su Mingzhe is a real schoolmaster, and Su Ming, who is born with a good mouth, will amuse Sue's mother the most. Su Mingyu had to give up her two brothers at an early age, giving them delicious food and doing housework first. Worst of all, for Su Mingzhe to go abroad, Su Mu sold a room, married Su Mingcheng and sold another room. Su Mingyu didn't even have a place to live, so she ran away from home in a rage.

In Su Mu's eyes, only the son is family. Daughter, just an outsider, has the greatest compassion and has no right to speak at all.

Sue's mother seriously values sons over daughters and is also a "brother's helper". Although life was tight, she had to squeeze out money to help her younger brother's family, so that when Sue's mother died, they came to us.

There are many women in reality, and my grandmother is one of them.

After the mother gave birth to her sister, grandma was unhappy, but because it was her first child, according to the custom of her hometown, she would also send some small silver ornaments, such as a small wishful hat with a small silver lock around her neck, which meant good luck and peace.

My sister got sick ten months ago and got the wrong injection from a common disease. It's gone. Later, when my mother gave birth to me, my grandmother cried and said that my mother would not give birth to a boy, and the roots of my family were destroyed by my mother. Naturally, those little silverware don't belong to me.

After having a younger brother, grandma was very happy. She held a banquet in the village to celebrate and sent a full set of silver ornaments. Then, the mother gave birth to a younger sister. Because the children are too close, there are basically more than one in a year. My mother works in Luliang Mountain Arsenal. Discipline is strict and material conditions are scarce. My mother had no choice but to give my brother and me to my grandmother.

Grandma refused, and suggested that her mother take her little sister and give the rest of the milk to her brother. It was my father who resolutely stopped me. My grandmother didn't insist and adopted my brother. When grandma was seriously ill, she stayed in bed all day, and everyone ignored her except my brother. She hid a lot of delicious food in the quilt, hoping that she could give it to her brother when he came.

On the wall of our hometown, there is a big slogan "All boys and girls are born the same", but this slogan is just a decoration, and many people still have a deep-rooted preference for boys. Some people pay lip service, but actually they prefer boys in their hearts. The so-called duplicity is nothing more than that.

What Xiao Tao wants to say is that those girls who are unfortunately born in a patriarchal family should not be kidnapped by their parents' morality and think that they are superman and invincible in their parents' home. For their parents and siblings, they will sacrifice themselves, their families and children, and also save their married families from the quagmire.

You are just an ordinary woman. You have tried your best to help your mother's family within your ability. Don't be so stupid as that brainless woman who is poisoned by the idea of son preference and doesn't know it. Don't be that poor and hateful woman again. In the end, she found that she had nothing and became a tool and a cash cow at home.

I say this because Xiao Tao met such a netizen named Rouge yesterday. She sent me a long message telling her story. Later, she felt that her marriage was almost ruined by her mother. Fortunately, she realized the problem in time and did not destroy the second family and children.

Rouge As long as I can remember, my mother has been lying in bed, either pregnant or having a baby. Now she can still remember the gloomy atmosphere at home.

After Rouge's mother gave birth to her, grandma was a little disappointed, but she comforted Rouge. It's okay. It's nice to have a girl for the first time. When she was young, she could help her family with housework, and when she was older, she could help her brother.

Rouge's mother was grateful for her mother-in-law's generosity and held back her strength to have a son. But I don't know what happened, and then she was pregnant with three children in succession, either miscarried or was born unable to support her. According to Rouge's mother, they are all boys, which is very regrettable.

After being pregnant with her younger brother, Rouge's mother stayed in bed for ten months and finally gave birth to a son. Father Rouge was so excited that tears came to his eyes. Heaven has eyes. My family finally has a queen!

As you can imagine, my brother has been an emperor at home since he was a child. Rouge began to feel that her younger brother took away her parents' love, but ignored her younger brother a little, in exchange for her parents' beating and scolding. Only by being kind to her younger brother can she get a little care from her parents. Later, she got used to being nice to her brother. My brother grew up on her back and took her everywhere. Sometimes, she would think to herself that her younger brother is the person who is less than one meter six.

Many times parents are still good at rouge, as long as they don't conflict with their younger brothers' interests. Rouge I remember once, my brother wanted to eat tender corn. Rouge's mother ordered her to break up in other places. It was already night, it was already dark, and it was raining, but Rouge dared not say no to her mother, so she had to bite the bullet and rush into the rain.

There is still a long way from home, and it will be dark when Rouge runs away. The field was dark, as if there were countless shadows coming at her. Rouge quickly broke some corn and ran home. I don't know how many falls she had. My mother scolded her for not knowing how to choose when she went home like this. The corn is a little old and doesn't taste good.

There are many such things, and rouge automatically ignores them. She still feels that her parents are kind to her because she loves her brother and is a good daughter who is filial to her parents.

Rouge also wants to get into a good university and leave her parents. However, Rouge was forced to drop out of school because his younger brother didn't study well and had to go to a private school. My parents don't have enough money to sell cold rice noodles, and rouge won't give her a penny for her tuition when she is admitted to college.

Rouge cried for a while, then gave up the college entrance examination and went out to work. Rouge works as a waiter and cashier in a supermarket. Later, when she got a haircut, her boss took her away, saying that she didn't do beauty, which was a pity for her watery appearance and white and smooth skin.

Rouge was persuaded to go to the hairdresser's for beauty treatment. Sure enough, she is a living advertisement. Without much promotion, many people automatically pay to become members. Rouge soon became the most profitable there. With more money brought home, Rouge became the most filial child in parents' mouths, and everyone praised her, and Rouge also enjoyed such praise.

A member elder sister also enthusiastically introduced her to the children of relatives. Let's call this boy Mr. Wen. He is five years old and graduated from college. He wears a pair of glasses and looks very gentle.

Mr. Wen fell in love with rouge at first sight and launched a crazy pursuit. Rouge likes Mr. Wen, but she has been afraid to accept him. She was afraid that her mother would make excessive demands. The more nervous rouge is, the more Mr. Wen tries his best. I don't know how Rouge's mother knew about Teacher Wen's existence. She sent him a message and agreed to marry Rouge, as long as she gave him 200,000 as a bride price.

You know, the county seat at that time was generally 80 thousand. But Mr. Wen agreed, and he borrowed it and raised 200 thousand. In this way, Rouge accepted Mr. Wen under the lobbying of her mother and got married smoothly.

I didn't bring back the 200 thousand bride price of rouge, and it was all left to my brother to marry. Rouge felt guilty and said that she would find a way to pay him back. Although Mr. Wen said he didn't care, his family didn't say anything. However, Rouge kept her promise. She dared not have children after marriage, and tried her best to attract customers in the beauty salon. In less than a year, I saved 50 thousand yuan.

At this time, Rouge got pregnant unexpectedly. Seeing Mr. Wen ecstatic, Rouge gave up the idea of aborting the child, raised the baby with peace of mind and gave birth to a boy. She also stayed at home and became a full-time mother.

During this period, rouge was also a secret supplement to her family. My brother is getting worse and worse. He is handsome and supported by his parents and sister. He is like a playboy, changing girlfriends frequently. Something happens from time to time, and I need money from my family.

Rouge's parents couldn't get 60 by their son, so they were white-haired and bent down too early. Rouge's heart ached, thinking of sending her son to kindergarten when he was two years old, and then coming out to earn some money.

But seeing his son's second birthday soon, his younger brother committed a crime and was locked up for fighting with others. Mother Rouge came to Rouge to cry and begged her to save her brother anyway.

Rouge said that she didn't have a bride price of 200,000. Mother Rouge sobbed and said that she was asked a little today and a little tomorrow.

Rouge was angry with her brother and parents and said that she had no money. She wanted to buy a house, but she also posted it at her parents' house. There is nothing she can do. Rouge's mother wiped her tears and said that she had ideas, but she wanted to divorce and remarry. We call him Mr. Wu. In the neighboring city, he is ten years older than Rouge. His wife died of illness and he had no children. The important thing is that he still has money in his hand. He had seen the photos of Rouge, and as long as she agreed, he gave 300,000 yuan as a bride price, and he didn't mind her divorce (of course, Mr. Wu didn't know that Rouge was not divorced at that time). ...

Rouge didn't agree, and Rouge's mother hit the wall. She cried all night, but still asked Mr. Wen for a divorce.

Rouge dragged on with Mr. Wen for two months, and finally agreed not to have a son and go out clean. It is false to say that it is not uncomfortable. After a series of tears, rouge has only two deep eyes left.

I feel sorry for Mr. Wu. I soon married Rouge and loved him more. With this 300 thousand, my home is quiet for the time being. During this period, Rouge became pregnant again and gave birth to a son. Rouge also came back to life under the care of Teacher Wu, immersed in the joy of being a mother again.

Unexpectedly, when the child was one year old, the mother cried for rouge. Daughter, if you divorce and remarry, you should buy a house for your brother. ...

And said that this brother is serious, so he asked her for the last time. ...

Mom, I was divorced once. Did you find a good home for me this time? The other party must remember that it is an old man who can promise me a bride price for a house. ...

Didn't you just say beg me for the last time? Do you think I'm happy again? Your son is a son, so my two sons should leave their mother when they were young? Just because I have an unworthy brother, you have the heart to divorce and remarry again and again?

I've had enough of this life, and I won't give my family another penny. Call me unfilial. I finally understand that you and my dad only have one younger brother, and I am your tool for making money.

If I am old and useless, will you still help me? Can you give me a penny? ...

Rouge, out of anger, poured all the grievances of these years to her mother with a snot and tears. And my mother didn't push her any more, so she left despondently.

Rouge said that when her mother advised her to divorce and remarry, she suddenly felt like opening the window. It turns out that she is the legendary "brother helper". Over the years, she lived for her family and her brother.

As long as my brother needs it, my mother will make sacrifices when she gives the order. Over the years, my parents and younger brother have been lying on her like leeches, sucking her blood!

The same is "everything is fine". Su Mu has been supporting his brother's family. She died of a sudden illness. What did my brother's family do? They just weren't used to no one to support them, and they really flashed for a while. After all, if you can get something for nothing, who wants to make money hard? Only then did I know that Sue's mother and brother's family came to Sue's house for money.

Look at these younger brothers who have been raised by their sisters. No loss at all. In their eyes, my sister is just a place to get money, and family ties are completely irrelevant. This is the tragedy of human nature. Fortunately, Rouge woke up in time, otherwise, she might be worse than Su Mu.

It's not terrible for a girl to be born in a patriarchal family. What is terrible is that they are assimilated by this concept and become one of them.

As human beings, men are not nobler than women, and self-reliance is the basis of survival in this world. Don't be a vampire, suck the blood of your parents and sisters, it looks cheap, but it actually becomes waste.

Xiao Tao also advised those women not to be victims of son preference and not to help their younger brothers. Love yourself, run your own small family, and reap your own family happiness is the right way.