The first grade is full of excitement

In the year of the epidemic in 2020, my family ushered in our baby’s first grade.

In the long-awaited new school year, when I sit in a bright and clean classroom for a parent-teacher meeting, a passion will ignite in my heart. I experience it personally as a parent of a student. Standardized implementation of modern teaching.

The strength of the country lies in the emphasis on education and the shaping of values ??from an early age, such as the core socialist values, the Four Etiquettes and Eight Etiquettes, the Three-Character Sutra, and comprehensive recitation. Suddenly, I noticed these slogans hanging on the street outside, on billboards, among flowers and trees.

It is said that the first month of first grade is very critical, and it is very important for the development of various good habits. I have already imagined various step-by-step system processes, but when I am really immersed in it, I feel really busy and overwhelmed.

The tight time is difficult to control, especially for a sales worker like me who has 24-hour online service and is on call. It is difficult to spend a lot of time with my children at night. He answered absentmindedly, still holding his phone to read the message. Slowly, I realized that it’s not a big deal if I don’t look at my phone for 2 hours.

Going to school in the morning is an exercise. Get up before 6:30 to cook, wait for the children to get up, wash and eat, go to school at the right time, and then check in at the company. I finally realized that the 5 minutes in the morning are really precious and can do so many things.

And the homework tutoring after school has gone through many hardships over the years. It is often complained about the painful time of raising blood pressure and having a heart attack. It is absolutely necessary to develop a calm mind in the face of dilly-dallying, procrastinating, and restless children. Your patience should be constantly recharged.

At a certain moment, I reminded myself that it is said that it is not good if you do not provide enough guidance in the early stage, and you must pay back what is due. Why do other people have to praise and encourage their children without conscience... …I am just an ordinary person, and my child is also an ordinary child. It’s fine if I can’t be a top student and be happy. Eyes full of bullfrogs, world full of anxiety. Then, keep working hard.

I spent some time studying the new first-grade books and asked people who had experienced them for their opinions. I didn’t rush into New Oriental, Xueersi, English classes, and thinking skills. She is still continuing her dancing, painting, piano, and writing...

In the end, these are the most important basic abilities and the cultivation of good habits.

1 Practice calligraphy.

2 reading.

3 English vocabulary.

4. Physical exercise.

5 hobbies.

Gradually I understood: It takes 30 minutes to write 10 or so words carefully. You ask your child to finish it in 5 minutes, and then quickly do other things that you think are "valuable". As everyone knows, the most valuable thing has been abandoned by you.

The first-grade learning tasks are simple and the homework is less. It is not for parents to work hard to add extracurricular homework. It is to use simple homework to cultivate and shape good study habits; it is for us to accompany our children and carefully write every One word, read every text well, memorize every English sentence pattern, perform every children's song well... Although these homework are very simple. However, if you take it seriously, it won't be done in less than 1 or 2 hours. So, you think it's too easy, so you rush through it in 20 minutes, and quickly finish your extracurricular tasks and do questions that you think are more difficult and more "valuable". But you don’t know that the attitude of training children to be patient, tenacious, follow procedures, and be refined to the extreme has not been cultivated in place.

In first grade, you are still at an age where you can have fun and have fun. Don’t worry too much. You can easily cope with various challenges and difficulties. Parents are your strong backing. I seem to be making rapid progress in the past month or so.