Five sentences to help children quit mobile games

The first sentence: Mom knows that you don't want to play with your mobile phone all the time. Mom knows that it is not easy for you. Mom and dad know that sometimes you suffer a lot of grievances, and many children cry when they hear this. Therefore, children sometimes need to be released. ?

The second sentence: when the mobile game is designed, it is easy for people to live. The purpose of designing games is addictive, so you are obsessed with playing mobile games. Mom knows it's not your fault, no problem. It's not that you are incompetent to be obsessed with mobile phones and the internet. These things are inherently tempting, and human nature sometimes can't stand the temptation. You like mobile phones and games, which shows that you are curious about new things. As for the mobile phone, it is for us. Being able to go in shows that you are curious, and being able to come out shows that you are self-disciplined. In my mother's eyes, you have always been a child with lofty ideals, self-control, self-motivation and spontaneity. You are the person who can go in, you can come out, you are self-motivated and self-disciplined. If you have both curiosity and self-discipline, you will succeed. ?

? Why do you say that? Because many children are obsessed with mobile phones and online games, in fact, he will blame himself and deny himself. Therefore, we should tell him that it is not his fault or his incompetence. We all have to admit that there are many things in this world that will have great temptation to us, whether adults or children. It is an objective fact that human nature cannot overcome many external temptations.

The third sentence:? Mom and dad talk to you about this topic, not to stop you from playing with your mobile phone, nor to criticize you. You can continue to play in the future, but mom doesn't want to worry about you every day because of playing mobile phones. Mom also knows that you don't want to be scolded by your parents for playing mobile phones. Because you are called unhappy by your parents, we are actually very distressed. When you are tired, happy, depressed, happy, lonely and happy, it will be ok. However, at important times, we should remind ourselves of what we should do, so it makes sense to play. So mom and dad want to talk to you about how we can better manage mobile phones, management games.

? This is to tell the child that chatting with him is not to attack him, to criticize him, or to stop him from playing with his mobile phone, but to discuss with him how to play more reasonably. Only children who are willing to listen will be willing to chat with us.

? The fourth sentence:? What games do you like to play? Why do you like it? Do you want to quit the game? How do you need your parents to help you? At this time, we can make an agreement with our children. If he wants, we can make some rules. If he doesn't, no matter how you stipulate it, it's nonsense, so be sure to know what the child thinks. ?

The fifth sentence:? I know that you are a self-disciplined child and can manage yourself well. Before, my mother was worried and gave you the management of the mobile phone. It seems that my mother was wrong and worried. You can learn to manage your time and study hard.

? Is this sentence particularly powerful? Believe that children believe in the power of faith, the stronger their self-esteem, the higher their self-discipline.

The child may not be your child now, but he may become your child in the future, so we must continue to strengthen the child positively, and then the child will have the corresponding correct behavior, because the child's inner self-awareness comes from our parents' definition of him.