How to share a room with a girl?

After seeing this problem about sharing, I found that renting a house with my good friends is the most troublesome thing. If I were given another chance to choose, I would definitely not choose to share a room with my good friend. It's really too much trouble, and you will encounter all kinds of problems. In the end, my friendship will be exhausted.

When I just graduated from college, I chose to rent a house because I was going to practice in a new company and my work place was far from the school. At that time, a good friend of mine also wanted to rent a house, and then we shared it happily. Because we had no money at that time, we found an older community. Although the house is very shabby, it is cheaper. Then the two of us started packing and moving in. At first, we were very happy together, and often went out shopping together, just like two little sisters.

But after a long time, I found that our living habits are really different. She usually likes to listen to music with the stereo on when she gets up. I am woken up every day, which is acceptable. What I really can't accept is that when washing clothes, she always says that she should wash them first, which takes up a lot of space and won't let me move. I am really angry.

When cooking, she obviously cooks, but she always eats my cooking and uses my materials. The key is not to give me money. I am also a poor student who just graduated. How can I stand her eating? So we quarreled. Later, because of too many contradictions, I had to live separately, and the house moved out when it expired. At that time, we had become very indifferent, and I felt that our friendship was almost worn out.

Of course, this is just my experience. In fact, sharing a room with a good friend is not as difficult as I thought. People grow up in different environments, and their personalities and living habits are also very different. If you want to share a house together, you just need to get to know each other clearly. If you live in harmony, there is no problem sharing a house.

Matters needing attention in sharing a room with friends

Cleaning should be divided into two parts. The division of cleaning is very clear. First, clean your bedroom and put all your valuables together. Keep the house spotless. Only when the division of labor is clear and military orders are accepted, the slogan "You do more, I do less" will not appear. Only when both sides try their best can they get along sincerely and be moved.

* * * Same as maintenance. About this family, big and small things should be said, discussed together, * * * to maintain this family, and learn to bear it together in the face of things. For example, repairing things, adding items, and paying for utilities must be discussed. * * * will bear the same responsibility as maintenance.