How to reject suitors in a friendly way

First, reduce contact frequency. When pursuers pursue you, they usually contact you with their mobile phones or invite you to dinner or play. There is a big loophole in this pursuit, that is, the initiative is all in your hands. Although subjectively, the pursuer takes the initiative to find you, in fact, he is passive. Because you didn't take the initiative to find him, he came to you passively. Since the initiative is in your hands, everything is up to you. Mastering the initiative does not mean that you can directly delete his contact information, which is very easy to offend people and too direct. In this case, the best way is to make him back down. If he sends a message to contact you, don't call back after seeing it, and wait for a few hours to reply. Don't say much after the reply, try to say something about the topic terminator, so that the message of contacting him by mobile phone will not exceed 10. Second, try to avoid boys chasing girls. Sometimes I prefer to ask girls out to play, so I am very interested in asking you out. All you have to do is date him once, just have dinner or something, and then the second time he asks you out, you say you can't go because you have something to do. The second time, the third time and the fourth time, it is said that in the repeated refusals, the pursued person poured a pot of cold water, and he himself understood what it meant, so he wouldn't bother anymore. 3. Talk to him about the boy you like. As mentioned above, pursuers generally respect the girls they like. You should take advantage of this advantage. If you meet a suitor, talk to him about the person you like intentionally or unintentionally and ask him how to make you have a better relationship with the person you like. It's best to take out your problems with the person you like now and let him analyze them, so that the seeker will take the initiative to quit your world. Fourth, it is not a fool to let a girlfriend reject a suitor. I have a high IQ. Everyone you like is in his analysis. In this case, the logical ability of the pursuer will soar. Girls are generally no match for each other, so you must not face the suitor alone. If you don't like him, you must bring your best friend. When you don't like it, you can let your best friend reject the suitor, not yourself. Although the suitor didn't get your personal rejection, he has seen his best friend many times, so letting his best friend refuse can also make the suitor quit himself. How to reject a suitor in a friendly way II. Decline politely and send a good friend card to the other party. This kind of refusal is euphemistic, not only won't hurt the other party, but also can play the role of refusal. Sometimes, in the face of people who pursue us, we politely refuse a suitable way, because they like us, we don't like it and won't hurt them. Just politely refuse. Don't be ambiguous. Some people don't like pursuers, but they like to enjoy the feeling of being pursued. This kind of behavior is not good and must be put an end to. Ambiguous words can easily make the other party think that we are interested in him, and it is easy to misunderstand, and it will be embarrassing when we finally tear our faces. So, don't neither refuse nor accept, it will always be us who get hurt. Whether the accepted gift is returned. It depends on the suitor. If the other person is generous, you don't need it. If the other person is narrow-minded, you'd better return it. Don't be caught by the other party and speak ill of you behind your back. If the value of the gift is too high, return it. After all, it's for the person you like. If we refuse, we don't want any gifts from him. Don't treat people as spare tires. Since you don't like it, refuse it decisively. Don't take each other's love and care for us for granted. Don't try to use him as a spare tire. You know, no one wants to be a spare tire, and it will even hurt our behavior after being discovered. Therefore, in love, we must resolutely refuse people we don't like. Ask friends for help. If you really don't know how to refuse a suitor, please ask your friend to help you convey your meaning, thus avoiding the embarrassment that we are embarrassed to say. It's still a good way to refuse suitors through the help of friends. Through online media. Now the network communication is so developed, if you are embarrassed to refuse in person, you can make your meaning clear directly through WeChat, SMS, telephone and other means. It is easy to refuse through these methods, and many words are easy to say. Simple and quick. Tough attitude. When we meet someone who has clearly rejected each other, but still haunts us. This kind of person must not give any chance. It is too aggressive to refuse, but don't let him have any illusions. Don't have any contact with him after refusing, even if the other party keeps sending messages, don't take a reason. Treat such people with a tough attitude. How to reject a suitor in a friendly way? The first trick: politely refuse. You can tell each other that you are good and excellent, but unfortunately, I have someone else. Or, you are great, but I love sleepwalking, and I have a bad temper, and I may have domestic violence at any time. Hearing this, the other party was basically scared away. Of course, it is also possible to meet pursuers who don't understand the hints or are persistent. Continue to look at the following steps. The second measure: draw a clear line resolutely and try to avoid meeting each other. If you really can't avoid it, try to keep your distance, so as not to make the other person misunderstand that you still like each other. Resolutely drawing a clear line will help dispel each other's illusions. As long as the other person is not a person with low emotional intelligence, it is estimated that he fully understands your attitude. The third trick: don't accept each other's gifts. Many people don't like each other, but they are ambiguous and don't refuse each other's gifts. It's easy for the other person to think that you just haven't thought about it yet and there is hope, so they will continue to chase you, but they will be self-defeating. Smart people will never accept each other's gifts, lest they get the wrong idea. The fourth trick: Answer through a friend If you think it is not good to refuse the other person in person, you can also find a mutual friend (if any) or one of them's friends to answer for you. This can be regarded as giving the other party enough face and not making the other party too embarrassed and hurtful. However, it should be noted that in order to protect the privacy of the other party, the client must keep his word and express your meaning to the other party completely. The fifth measure: using WeChat and other means, there are many ways to communicate about love, such as QQ, WeChat, SMS and email. I really don't want to refuse in person, and I can't find a friend to answer my opinion. You can also use modern communication means such as WeChat to clearly and politely tell each other what you mean. If the other party's attitude is firm, if it doesn't work, it will be black, and the attitude must be decisive. Through the above five ways, in most cases, the other party will give in rationally. If the other party continues to pester, they can only call the police or ask for help.