An Analysis of Characters' Behavioral Styles in Lost in Russia

the spring festival in p>22 will be unforgettable. The viewing rate of CCTV Spring Festival Evening reached a new high, and the programs without rehearsal were well received after broadcast. "novel coronavirus" and "Wuhan" got hot search, and also became hot spots in family after dinner. New Year's blockbuster changed the usual box office competition and realized free online broadcast, which comforted our restless hearts.

I had nothing to do. I watched the New Year movie Lost in Russia. After reading it, I asked my daughter-in-law if she was good-looking. "Good-looking".

"where is the beauty?"

"the characters are real".

"I think so".

go to bed and sleep. Xu Yiwan, played by Xú Zhēng, is still hanging around. Just get up and think. What impression did he leave on me? Slowly, the four letters "D I S C" popped up and lingered ... < P > Well, since it lingered, let's take it out and give it a freeze.

refresh the basic knowledge of DISC first.

DISC is people's behavior style. According to the concern about things or people, direct or indirect, people's behavior styles are divided into four types. Commander d, I? Influencer, s supporter, c? Thinker.

Everyone has four behavior styles of DISC4, but one or two of them are more obvious. People's behavior style can be adjusted and changed.

The behavior styles of the main characters

Now let's look at the behavior styles of the characters in Lost in Russia.

Xu Yiwan (Xú Zhēng). The appearance is to repair the desk lamp. The conversation with his wife is direct and indirect. Even such an important matter as divorce is handled without emotion. Knowing that his wife was going to new york for bidding, he quickly set off for the United States with his assistant. Ivan is clear-cut, decisive and strong in action. He also speaks faster and pays little attention to people's feelings, which is a typical behavior style of type D people.

The film entered an embarrassing state from Ivan's search for a passport.

When he entered his mother's house, Ivan was very angry when he saw an iron lock outside the password lock. I'm still angry to see my mother on the train. Why should I put a big iron lock on it? Since then, Pandora's box has been opened.

The stories that happened repeatedly on the train are actually the result of the collision of two people with different behavior styles.

there are three details that make people laugh and cry, and they are reasonable.

the first paragraph. Ivan asked his mother, who let you take the train? Why didn't you tell me? His mother said, I told you, look for yourself. The result is the WeChat voice sent by her mother.

For a person with D characteristics, what he wants is a direct result, and he has no patience to turn on the voice and listen slowly.

The second paragraph is a conversation with my mother after meeting a Russian beauty. In the face of his mother's accusation and reminder, Ivan refused to admit his mistake, and directly got up with his mother, and he was grumpy.

the third paragraph. I don't like my mother's words, and I chose an extreme behavior. The distance from my mother should be 1 meters away. Back to the private room, I didn't forget to kick the bed with the door, and my mood was very unstable. Even so, I didn't forget to talk to his assistant Guo Tie, asking for winning the bid for free, providing technical support for free, ruining his wife's business at all costs, and never being soft. People with D characteristics are more brave in the Vietnam War, and they should be excited when fighting back, so they will become more combative and quick-witted.

Assistant Guo Tie (Guo Jingfei).

Guo Tie's clothes at the airport are particularly exaggerated. I have put my pillow around my neck before I got on the plane. He exaggerates and has a rich expression. The most typical feature is that the mouth is particularly sweet, and my brother and sister-in-law are barking endlessly. I don't do my work seriously, so I have to ask someone to give me directions. He pays special attention to people's feelings. Zhang Lu (Ivan's wife) has filed for divorce. He doesn't want to go to court again. He persuades Ivan that his sister-in-law has been very kind and hopes to live in peace. This is a concrete reaction of I characteristics.

people with I characteristics are sensitive to interpersonal communication and like to express their feelings. When Guo Tie saw Zhang Lu with his lawyer, he became suspicious and doubted the relationship between them. Seeing a lawyer is also glaring and unfair.

for people with I characteristics, emotional expression is the first. Guo stuck it on the spot and dialed the telephone of the train platform, getting carried away with excitement. Am I awesome? Am I amazing? I am a genius, praise me. He simply forgot why he dialed the phone.

There is another character in the film that is also I-specific, that is, the flight attendant (Jia Bing), who is humorous and exaggerated. His existence is to connect one story with another and become a whole.

here comes the point. Now let's talk about the role of mother Lu Xiaohua (Huang Meiying) in detail.

It's hard for me to make a quick decision about this character's behavior style. She's too complicated and changeable, and it's hard to figure out. Even I'm beginning to wonder if she has obvious behavior tendency.

my knowledge has influenced my judgment. Anyway, at the risk of being labeled as a gibberish, I still want to make a bold analysis.

Lu Xiaohua is a thinker. She pays attention to things, and her actions are slow. She is rigorous in thinking and good at data analysis. She is a person with obvious C characteristics.

From Beijing to Moscow, the train takes 6 days and 6 nights. Six days and six nights can be said for anyone. What Lu Xiaohua said is 6 days and 6 nights, that is, 126 hours, and the train ticket is 29.36 yuan per hour.

when the mobile phone falls into the water, it takes 36 hours to turn it off. When Ivan wanted to take out his mobile phone to make a phone call, she said it was 1 hours and 26 minutes short. Oh, my god, it's a miracle. The two children in the upper bunk were stunned.

When the conflict between mother and child escalated again and again and the two sides were deadlocked, she even measured the distance of 1 meters with steps. Seeing this, I am crazy. Real wizards.

Lu Xiaohua made a detailed plan through careful thinking, and brought enough necessary articles, such as washing utensils, small tomatoes, white rabbit toffee ... (Haha, white rabbit toffee is suspected of advertising, but I won't say it here). No matter how messy the items are, she can accurately take out what she wants.

In the film, Lu Xiaohua mentioned many times that it could not be staged, which is also consistent with the characteristics of C's behavior style.

people with C characteristics think twice before acting, and often make decisions before acting suspiciously and cautiously. This is a performance of pursuing perfection, fearing mistakes and planning everywhere. But no matter how precise the plan is, it can't escape the spell of Murphy's Law. The more you worry, the easier it is to happen. She was worried that she would miss the performance, and sure enough, she just couldn't catch it.

another trait of type c people is persistence. The so-called perseverance. This is a choice after making a major decision. Decision-making is a difficult point for type C people, and it can be said that it is also a pain point. However, once the decision is completed, it will not be easily changed. Despite self-doubt, it will work hard. It is not an exaggeration to use the word opinionated.

because of persistence, there is an embarrassing story. In order not to leave regrets in life, Lu Xiaohua is going to Moscow Red Star Grand Theatre to realize her unfinished dream in her youth.

There is also a character in the film, Zhang Lu (Yolanda), the wife of Ivan, who is also a character with obvious C characteristics. She talks about procedures, likes to reason with others, has a cold expression, likes to send text messages and communicate in writing. She argued hard and showed no mercy. Even when Ivan refused to sign the divorce agreement, she could calmly say, Do you think I will be controlled by an agreement? We can interpret it this way, and Zhang Lu has already done a good job in post-divorce prevention.

A D-type person can't beat a C-type person in the comprehensiveness of the problem. Ivan asked the assistant, what is the chance of winning a lawsuit with Zhang Lu? The assistant said that the chance of winning is . Look at how calm and wily C is.

the change of behavior style

the mother left the station silently alone, and her son Ivan felt the mother's grief and indignation. It shouldn't be. How can you treat your mother like this? How can you teach your mother a lesson from your father's death? You know, the biggest fear of C trait is being criticized in person. How can she accept such a blow to her? So she adopted the strategy of retreating. Escape from the carriage to a place where no one is there.

The movie begins here, and the behavior style of the characters begins to reverse.

Ivan learned from a painful experience, found his own shortcomings and took the initiative to ask for changes. First of all, he changed to I. He quickly apologized, seriously understood his mother's feelings, and became amiable in his speech. At the end of the theater, he took the initiative to plead with the staff, saying that it is not easy to travel a long way, so give it a chance. He took the initiative to talk to his wife about his feelings and reflect on his emotional process.

then Ivan began to change to C .. The rigor of thinking about problems has gradually increased, and it is no longer so overbearing and so strong.

Lu Xiaohua's behavior has also changed. From C to S, I began to enjoy a stable and peaceful old age.

In addition, two marriages in the film are doomed to be the end of tragedy.

One is the marriage of mother Lu Xiaohua. I got married because of the impulse of love, but there were many contradictions because of the poor adjustment of behavior style, which made a noise all my life.

The second paragraph is Ivan's marriage. Ivan's D-style, Zhang Lu's C-style, two people pay attention to things and ignore the emotional maintenance. Ivan hoped that Zhang Lu would live according to his requirements, but Zhang Lu would rather have the elegant demeanor of live high, and the two did not give way to each other. As a result, everyone knew.

During his trip to Russia, Ivan finally realized how to get along with his relatives. He sighed to the world: We have been quarreling all the time, but our starting point is love for each other, but this kind of love is to hope that each other can live as they want. Everyone is an independent individual, and each individual should be complete. Love is not to control and take, but to accept and respect.

Well, judging from the characters' behavior style, Lost in Russia is a film worth collecting.