I'm going to give up! ! ! I really have nothing to say! ! ! It was she who said we were friends! ! ! But he never responded to text messages! ! ! ridiculous! ! !

How boys chase girls, it’s too easy. After reading this article, you will become an expert.

Don’t say anything before it’s time. Some boys have only dated someone a few times and then they propose to establish a "further" relationship. This will most likely spoil the relationship. The wonderful thing about love is that everything is left unsaid. If you make it clear and the words are clear, it is not beautiful. If someone is willing to come out to talk to you alone, it means that the girl has a good impression of you. But sometimes even they can't explain this kind of good feeling clearly, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty. Then don't blame others for staying away from you. Look around you at all the love affairs that have died before they even begin. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the heat.

Put away your fists to attack better. What should I do if a girl rejects me? Some people say that we should pursue and persevere. Not really. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it will be difficult for you to bear the white eyes of girls and the mocking looks of your peers. It would be better to cease all activities and retreat temporarily. This not only protects your dignity but also leaves a way out, creating opportunities for a future counterattack. Just let her make her way through the crowd. Only when you go to her again when she is badly injured will she realize that you are the one who loves her the most. Even if you really can't let go, you should pay attention to your methods when you want to find her. Don't make her think you are annoying. And this is often difficult to do.

Don’t be too explicit. Learn to care for her quietly and treat her with your honesty and kindness. Only then can you get her attention among the crowd of boys croaking around her. Remember, only special you will attract her special attention.

No entry unless required. A boy who always runs to a girl's dormitory will not arouse much favor from the girl. Some student union cadres often go to the girls' dormitory under the pretext of work, and then stay there without leaving. As a result, they bring a lot of inconvenience to others, and the effect is counterproductive. The fundamental reason for this result is that it is too explicit.

Strategically despise..., tactically attach importance to.... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together, etc. You'd better look at these things with a normal attitude and don't carry baggage and worry about gains and losses. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she said inadvertently. Some boys are prone to being sentimental, and this is why. But you should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, you should pay attention to the sense of propriety in your first conversation. It is best not to involve love. You might as well talk about your childhood. It would be bad if you go straight to the point! Girls must be wary of you like a wolf.

It’s best to flatter less often. If you compliment her on her beauty, if she is really beautiful, then you are just the 700th person who compliments her on her beauty, and the one who will impress her most deeply is probably the first person who complimented her in this way; if she is ordinary-looking, you will No one can tell what kind of results complimenting her will produce. If she finds out you don't mean what you say, you're dead. Remember, you can only coax a girl after she becomes your girlfriend. Starting to coax her before you even catch her is a sign of failure to grasp the heat.

Be less chauvinistic. A boy finally invited the girl he had admired for a long time to dinner, which cost him half a month's living expenses. Later, when he went to pay the bill, he found that the girl had already paid for him, and he wanted to pay her back. The girl doesn't want to. He felt that the girl had taken away his face and was very angry. The girl was so angry that she cried. Originally, the fact that the girl paid the bill for him meant that she had a crush on him, but instead of trying to please him, he lost his temper. No wonder he wanted to become a bachelor. Almost no girl will have a good impression of boys who don't respect women, remember! Remember!

Unite the majority. Almost every girl has one or two most intimate girlfriends. When other roads are unavailable, they are your successful path to victory. You can use them to know whether a girl is interested in you, and you can also use them to convey your meaning. This is much better than if you just say it. But don't ignore this new force. I have seen boys succeed through this method more than once.

Finally, I would like to remind everyone that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; the way others fail may be your failure. I am only mentioning some principled things here, and they must not be applied mechanically. If this ruins your good deeds, don't come to me.

If a girl doesn't like you, not even the Jade Emperor can do anything about it. As the ancients said: Subduing the enemy's troops without fighting is the best strategy.

1. What kind of first impression should be left on MM (when you first come into contact with MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let MM see your Motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people cannot be considered "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you have to make M

M think you are a motivated person. heart person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future and that you are dissatisfied

You are satisfied with the status quo and you have a long-term future. plan, in short, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are lazy and hope they can find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and responsibility. Heart comes.

It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

3. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should be ridiculous.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don’t appear to care about anything, as that would be too dull.

4. Look more mature

Men who are calm and unhurried in situations are fatally attractive to girls.

2. How to have further contact with MM (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be anxious, not to make things so clear, let People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all children of ordinary people (

Unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), goodwill needs to be achieved as understanding continues to increase

So the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be feeling psychological pressure

If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you start out with the attitude that you are determined to win, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". You hope to become a "good friend" with good taste

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You can also ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - why did she reject you if you didn't pursue her?

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This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that I will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other.

You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl's wife is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmate).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don’t have the ambition of “I won’t marry you unless you want me”. It’s not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As mentioned earlier, don’t make things immediately turn into “you are chasing someone else”, and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls.

It all depends on your creativity.

You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient

reasons to invite the other person to do something with you. .

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things and give them to others. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls.

As the saying goes, "No reward for no work". If you give people things like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will Find a way not to associate with you so that you don't always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together, girls Of course it can be seen that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people together instead of turning it into something to take home.

3. What exactly is a “girlfriend”?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise

When you start dating a girl, you change from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to To a "very, very good friend who talks about everything

", you "accidentally" pulled her hand on a sunny afternoon; "Moon on the Willow Head", you suddenly struck< /p>

Kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Regardless of whether she admits it or not, she already thinks that you are her boyfriend.

I know that the wisest person didn’t even ask “Will you be my girlfriend” until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious and said, “Why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend? ”

So, don’t rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As mentioned before, confession is actually just a formality. The correct sequence should be: Only when she has actually become your girlfriend can you confess your love to others, and it will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this issue and always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then does whatever they want. I can only say

He is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Is there ever a time when you “have no choice but to express your feelings”?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.

The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the situation in Go when the situation is severe and the lagging side

is forced to release the "winner's hand" , if you win, you win, if you lose, you can only say that "unlucky people are born".

4. Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions" appearing on forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love

" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even reflects a kind of responsibility.

Men who say "love" casually are irresponsible.

4. Civilized love cannot be forced.

1. Not every girl can be pursued.

There will always be many people chasing good girls. No. Maybe everyone's wish comes true, but there will always be losers. For example, even if you

study hard and master the most advanced principles of chasing girls, you still can't catch up with anyone in TWINS.

Think about it from another angle. A rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school, no matter how nice she is to you, earns 600 per month to buy you a gift of

700 (overdraft). I am willing If she "acts like a cow or a horse" for you, you won't fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.

So love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.

2. Chasing girls is a serious social activity.

Don’t annoy others and leave a way out for yourself. Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Some girls are indeed snobbish (a minority)

If you are not convinced, you can work hard and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time", and never mislead others or yourself.

Finally, don’t appear cynical in front of MM. Being cynical sometimes means “you are a failure.”