Are there any good words or methods to prevent these relatives from getting married during the Spring Festival?

First, formulate coping strategies for urging marriage during the Spring Festival

1, get to know the situation: first, get to know the current situation of marriage promotion, including which family members will ask you to get married during the Spring Festival recently, including the reasons why you are unmarried now, and the attitude of family members towards your marriage.

2, frank dialogue: talk frankly with relatives, tell them your position and reasons for urging marriage, and ask them to respect your choice.

3. Don't force: After understanding the situation of urging marriage, if your family doesn't respect your position, don't force a decision. If you are urged, you can calmly explain your thoughts. If relatives still can't accept it, you can refuse their request. For example, you can emphasize that you are "not ready to get married" now.

4. Seek support: When you are urged to get married by your relatives, you can seek support from other family members to help you reduce the pressure of urging marriage and shift the topic of urging marriage to other aspects.

5. Choose a topic: By choosing some small white topics, we can change the gathering atmosphere of the family, make everyone chat more naturally and freely, and let the topic of urging marriage go aside.

Second, build self-confidence through self-positioning.

1. Self-orientation: Look at yourself, confidently express your position on marriage, and clarify your thoughts and life goals on marriage, so that when you face relatives to urge marriage, you will focus on your goals and the realization characteristics of priority settings;

2. Self-expression: When you are urged to get married by relatives, you should express yourself confidently, express your thoughts clearly, and listen to the opinions of other family members patiently, but everyone's final choice still depends on themselves;

3. Self-protection: Be sure to stick to your own position, bravely affirm your choice, refuse to urge your family to marry, and don't hesitate to disagree; After the relatives fall into a roar, they should find a stable mentality again, insist on refusing to urge marriage, and protect themselves from any negative influence;

4. self-development: don't let yourself be overwhelmed by the pressure of family members to urge marriage. Have the courage to face up to your own ideas, stick to your own principles, keep a learning attitude in your busy work, keep your skills updated, focus on your own development, and enrich yourself in your future life.

Third, use external resources to help yourself.

1, looking for spiritual support: you can seek spiritual support by reading books and developing hobbies, and by improving your mentality, sticking to your own position, bravely expressing yourself and reducing the pressure of urging marriage;