Send a message to a girl but she won’t reply?

What should I do if I send a message to a girl and she doesn’t reply? As a man, many times you want to chat with her, but every time you text a woman, the topic will end quickly, or the woman will not reply. Therefore, every time you want to talk to a girl in the future, you will be afraid that the girl will not reply to your message, which suppresses your desire to chat. This situation is similar to avoidance behavior. Of course not correct. So what should I do if I send a message to a girl and she doesn’t reply?

1. Overcome your own psychological problems

I know that many people are afraid of socializing with girls, and they are even at home alone. They are worried because they can’t speak, can’t find topics, and can’t find topics to talk about. I can chat, read a lot of techniques, and learned a lot of chicken soup, but I still can't overcome this problem.

First of all, there is no one who can’t find a topic, and there is no one who can’t talk. There are also many times when you talk endlessly with someone, and you have the urge to express yourself many times. Besides, every aspect of life is a topic. .

It’s just that I don’t have the courage to look for topics, and it’s not that I can’t find them. Why don’t I have the courage? Because I’m afraid that my topic will be boring, nutritious, and unflattering.

So the core to solve this problem is to learn the skills of finding topics. The first step is to solve the fear of not being liked!

When chatting with a girl, the girl ignores you, or directly blocks you. This is because the girl is not interested in you. In the final analysis, it is caused by your own lack of attraction. I used to do the same In this way, I didn't know how to chat with girls, so I was still single at the age of 28. Later, my friend asked me to read a secret book on how to seduce girls ~ Jiang Han Bi Lian Technique. The information in it was really informative, so I followed the methods in it. Girl, I managed to get two girls in one week easily. All single brothers should read it. "Jiang Han's Love Skill" has an electronic version online. Once you learn it, you can practice it directly and you will see results in minutes.

2. What to do specifically.

1. First of all, it takes time to solve this problem. Practice slowly, and you must gain changes in the way you do things differently from the past.

2. Accept that you can’t talk now and can’t find a topic. This is not good. It does not mean that you are a bad person. You have other good and valuable things that others will not do because of. This leaves you.

3. The most important thing about an interesting chat is not the speaking skills, but that the speaker has feelings about the topic and it will be interesting to express what you really feel. Someone once said, "Only by being able to mobilize yourself can you mobilize others."

4. Don’t dare to show feelings and really want to say things. Girls find it boring and don’t like it. Try to take a risk. First, say what you want to say in front of familiar people and people you trust. After you become proficient, you can then say it in front of strangers. You can experience some different feelings from before.

5. Continue practicing according to item 4, and you will eventually get a talking self. Now that you know "what you should say and what you shouldn't say", etc., you can speak more freely because there is no fear limiting you.

5. No matter how good you feel, there are still people who are not interested. There are more than a hundred people, all kinds of people, this is not your problem.

6. Even if you hate the women you talk to, it doesn’t matter. There are other things about you that girls like. If you try your best and girls don't like you, that's okay. There is no shortage of women in the world.

7. When socializing, feel your heart and say what you want to say. If you don’t want to say anything, you can remain silent. If you are afraid of not being liked if you remain silent, please refer to the above.

8. The most essential reason for fearing being disliked by others is that you admit your own shortcomings, that is, you have a low sense of value. This requires you to slowly improve your self-confidence, and first do the things in front of you that will positively improve yourself.

The above is about what to do if you send a message to a girl and she doesn’t reply. I hope it will be helpful to everyone.