My husband sends text messages to bless women at six in the morning. Dating for two years without my knowledge. Are they normal?

This matter, from an objective point of view, if not personal. Nothing unusual.

Everyone's inner world has some places of their own. Even between husband and wife is no exception. This is a normal reaction of human nature. It has nothing to do with affair and betrayal.

Sometimes there are things that the other person doesn't know. There are two situations. One is that the other party doesn't need to know. It doesn't matter much. Second, the other party will have trouble if they don't know, for example, they don't understand and need to explain.

But your own husband, you know what he is like. Judge by your woman's intuition (intuition is often accurate).

However, as a woman, I have to remind you that no matter what doubts you have in your heart. We must treat this matter with caution. Don't blame your husband lightly. This can only have the opposite effect. Don't be direct qualitative. Observation and strategy. Find out the truth.

If he is a trustworthy person at ordinary times, talk to him about it lightly and let him know that you know this person exists. On the contrary, we should observe carefully. Think about it. If there is something wrong with your marriage, you should reflect on it and remedy it.

Every marriage comes together with a beautiful vision at that time.

Cherish it. Take care of your marriage, others can't.

Also, birthday messages really don't matter, maybe they just remind me. There may be business or other factors that need to maintain mutual friendship and so on.

If there is really abnormal communication you suspect, it is useless to fan the flames. My advice to you is to calmly find out the countermeasures and never make a move. Learn some psychology. Or ask for help from your good friends and family who really care about you. You should think twice before you make an important decision.

These days, you need wisdom if you want things to develop in the direction you want.