The husband received a divorce text message from the consumer.

Did you chop your hands last night?

Anyway, I worked all day, washed and went to sleep.

"Double Eleven" is an ordinary day for married women, just like beginning of winter and Changxia, even less meaningful than the solstice in winter.

Mature people's views on their own consumption are never influenced by merchants. They buy when necessary and don't buy when unnecessary. You do your double eleven, I cover my money, that's the simple truth. I don't think that if you don't buy the Double Eleven, you will lose, but if you buy it, you will earn.

Of course, there are also some people who think that Double Eleven is everyone's carnival day and like to pay for the pleasure and satisfaction at the moment of success. She must be very happy when she receives the express delivery.

Once, I saw a post saying that a man froze his bank card in order to stop his wife's double eleven. As a result, his wife couldn't pay, and he jumped with anger.

Perhaps there are not many such examples, but it also illustrates a problem. Men don't particularly tolerate his wife, buy buy. They even think that his wife is too extravagant to buy in buy buy.

In the past, I had a colleague named Doudou, who liked shopping so much that I saw her wearing a new skirt after half a month. At that time, she was still working, with income and no children. She liked spending, so there was no big problem.

The problem is that after giving birth to the child, she resigned and went home because the child was left unattended. Without income, she relies on her husband's salary to support her family. Originally, the current environment is not good, and 30-year-old men are not as aggressive and hardworking as they are, and may be eliminated by the company at any time.

But under the pressure of the workplace, Doudou couldn't understand her husband at all, but she still didn't get rid of the habit of wanton consumption after marriage.

Children's clothes, shoes, socks, toys, what they need and what they don't need, they buy at will. Every time her husband reminds her not to buy so much, she is always reluctant to go back. These are what children need to grow up. You didn't look after the children. Do you think it's weird?

Well, the husband thinks that since these are all children's things, why did you buy so many yourself?

Doudou thinks how tired I am with my children at home. Shouldn't I treat myself?

The husband thinks it is necessary to treat him, but it is not necessary to buy him often.

The two men disagreed and quarreled.

Take the Double Eleven as an example. Doudou will already add clothes to the shopping cart, waiting for payment on this day.

The next day, the husband received a credit card payment message, 1600 yuan. The husband asked Doudou how he spent so much money in one day.

Doug said: "I took a fancy to a skirt, only 1000 yuan, and the rest are for children."

The husband stamped his feet with anger: "You actually bought a skirt for 1000. Do you want to be so extravagant? " What are the conditions in our family? My monthly income is less than 1 10,000, with a monthly mortgage of 6,000 yuan and a board fee of 2,000 yuan. There's not much left. It costs more than 1000 at a time. Can you fail again? "

Doudou was scolded by her husband and couldn't help crying. No one can understand the grievances in her heart.

Before giving birth to a child, she was free to spend money and buy whatever she wanted as long as she had a salary. Now, in order to take care of the children, even the husband has to make irresponsible remarks about buying skirts.

This is not a question of money at all, but whether the husband has seen his wife's efforts and made allowance for her.

Doudou is very sad. He wants a divorce. Living alone is always more free than being bound by family.

My husband also feels wronged and has no manners at all. If he wants to leave, he will leave. I'll see if you're really that handsome after you leave.

Of course, this is just angry words.

Divorce is not that easy.

It is easy to fall in love, but difficult to get married.

Marriage is a long journey for husband and wife to practice together. Only by mutual understanding and support can we grow old together.

Doudou went back to her mother's house with her children, trying to show her husband some color, or she wouldn't come back.

Although Doudou's husband loves money, he still cares about his family and is unwilling to be separated from his wife and children. He just doesn't want his wife to spend too much when he is incompetent and has limited income.

When his wife lost her temper, she still went to her mother-in-law's house to pick her up.

I showed Doudou the money in his bank account, and the deposit was less than 20 thousand. Think about it, a family of three is supported by only one man, and the children are still young. In case of any accident at home, the money will be left at home in case of emergency. Therefore, if you can save, save, watch the food and eat, and don't spend too much.

If the monthly income is 30,000 to 40,000, not to mention a 1,000 skirt, even 2,000 to 3,000 is not a big problem, but if the monthly income is less than 10,000, it is a bit excessive to spend 1,000 on a skirt.

Doudou finally understood her husband's painstaking efforts and promised not to spend at will.

If you don't take care of yourself, you won't know that rice is expensive, and if you don't go to work, you won't know that money is hard to earn.

Whether a man loves a woman or not depends not only on the extent to which he spends money for you. When he supports a family alone, his wife and children are in his heart, which is the greatest love.

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