How can I break up?

Breaking up quickly and decisively is actually very simple, but it is also cruel. However, since long-term pain is better than short-term pain, it is a good choice to cut off love as soon as possible.

The first way is to tell the other person what you really think in person, express your wishes clearly, and leave no room for rejection. If the other person can accept nature is the best, if the other person can't accept it for a while, or even has a tendency to recover, you can criticize the other person's shortcomings and your dissatisfaction more mercilessly. If the other person is willing to change for himself, or promises not to do it again in the future, you must reject him directly and never show your hesitation, unwillingness or reluctance. Because only if your attitude is firm enough and your tone is stiff enough, the other party will know that your mind has been made up, and you can give up faster.

The second way is not to come forward directly, but to tell through the intermediary, and tell the intermediary that the other party does not have to chase. This middleman must be someone familiar to both sides and have a certain friendship with both sides. If possible, this middleman had better witness their feelings and be familiar with their temperament. When told that they have broken up, the told party will definitely feel confused and unfair. At this time, the middleman must play his role. The middleman should try his best to appease the party who broke up, let him understand the inevitability of breaking up, and let him give up the idea of pestering the other party again.

The third way is that the party who wants to break up brings his new object or his temporary fake object to the other party and directly tells the other party that he has fallen in love with someone else, so there is no need to pester him too much. I believe that when the other person sees that his other half no longer loves himself and has a new relationship, he will be hit hard and be in a state of sadness or shock, so he will not be entangled again. This method is very direct and decisive, but we should also pay attention to each other's emotions when using it, otherwise it will easily lead to unexpected consequences.

The fourth method is the most convenient and easy to do. That is to use some media, such as telephone, SMS, QQ, WeChat, and email, to express your feelings and break up with each other. After that, don't hesitate to cut off all contact with each other directly. If conditions permit, I suggest that it is best to change all kinds of contact information, so that the other party can't contact themselves and let time dilute all this.

It's better to meet once than never. I don't think meeting is the only way to solve the problem, but it is also feasible to break contact. Even if the other person may be angry and annoying at first, after a long time, when the other person calms down or finds his true love and starts a new relationship, in retrospect, all this has become the past.