My girlfriend and mother are sick, so they don't pay much attention to me when they go back, and they don't return my messages. Is it a prelude to breaking up?

Your hunch should be correct. It depends. Your girlfriend's mother is ill, but you are indifferent. There is no indication that your behavior has caused opposition from your girlfriend and her family, so she ignores you now. If you want to continue dating, apologize quickly and she may forgive you.

Note: When breaking up, some girls will say the words of breaking up indirectly, but some girls will hint at boys more implicitly. Some of her actions may be saying "I want to break up with you". So boys should pay attention to some activities to stabilize girls and see if she wants to break up with you.

First, I don't care about you. When a girl is in love, she must love you wholeheartedly. She will pay attention to your every move and influence her with a smile. If you treat her well, she will treat you better. You are a little indifferent to her, but she will still show her enthusiasm for you, all because she loves you.

But if one day a girl doesn't take the initiative to contact you and doesn't care about you, then she should have lost her enthusiasm for you and may want to break up with you.

Second, don't take good care of the gift you gave her. When you are in love, if a boy gives a gift to a girl, even if it is small and cheap, the girl will cherish it, because it is a gift from you, which contains your full love.

However, once a girl easily gets rid of the gift you gave him, puts it in a mess, gives it away, or even throws it away, it can be completely clarified that this girl doesn't want to see you again. It's not that she doesn't like this gift, but that she doesn't like you.