What should parents pay attention to when they meet a man for the first time? Boys must watch it.

Look at the precautions of the man's parents.

First of all, the gift list reference

1, fruit:

The principle is not to buy those that are too ordinary, but to buy delicious food, not too heavy. Fruit is the safest choice for the first meeting, that is, when you are not sure what to buy, or this meeting is family-style, then buying fruit will not be amazing, but it will never be rude.

2. Health products:

This gift is also a good choice for elders. Generally, you can buy health care products such as calcium tablets, vitamins or protein powder as first meeting gifts, which can be used by both men and women, or you can simply and practically send your grandparents to each other.

3. Gourmet: In this case, it is best to think of a specific festival, such as the Mid-Autumn Festival, and send a moon cake or something.

4. Specialty: This is a very pleasing gift, such as buying some pearl powder, seaside specialty and local specialty cake. If you can get it generously, you can say that this is the specialty for the other party to try.

5. Others: For example, you can buy skin care products, clothes, bags and perfume for your mother. Buy tea, handicrafts, alcohol and tobacco for the other father.

6. If there are young people, you can consider giving gifts suitable for their age or giving red envelopes to ducks! Remember that the total price of all gifts should be about 10% of your monthly salary.

Second, pay attention when meeting.

Girls' articles?

1. Never go to see your parents empty-handed. This is due courtesy.

2. Take the initiative to say hello when you enter the door (at this time, you can also say good to your boyfriend in advance and let him show you the way). Don't look around, give the gift to your uncle and aunt, or put it on the ground first.

3. Take off your shoes and put them aside.

4. Always smile. You'd better use honorifics when you speak. We are all polite girls.

When chatting, look into the eyes of the person you are talking to and give some appropriate responses. Don't always listen stupidly. When the elders ask questions, you should also look into your eyes and answer them. Don't be coy, just give a generous answer, but don't say anything stupid. Think in your head that the answer is wrong.

6, the best state is to have questions and answers, don't treat yourself as an outsider, speak and do things in a measured way, remember, this is not your home.

7. Don't play with your mobile phone, don't watch TV directly, and make your uncle and aunt want to talk to you. You are too absorbed to talk to you.

Third, make up when meeting

Need to communicate with your boyfriend in advance. Everyone knows that you should be decent and generous, and light makeup is enough. But specifically, the suggestion is that you can choose your style according to your personal temperament, and you can also learn about your parents' attitude towards girls' makeup with your boyfriend.

1, makeup is mainly light makeup, don't face the sky.

2. Clothing can consider dress+high heels, which is more suitable and more popular with elders. The color should be mainly warm, not too bright or too dull. Pay attention to your skin color and show yourself. Never show your back, waist or thighs. These older generations are unacceptable.

3. Don't dye strange hair colors. If there are already two kinds of hair colors, you can dye a brown hair color in advance. You can cover or tie your hair, but don't mess it up.

4. Don't wear exaggerated ornaments or expensive bags. Simple and perfect.

5, perfume should pay attention to the use of faint fragrance, it is best not to spray, some elders can not accept this taste.

6, see a few days before, you can apply more masks, eat less greasy food, and ensure a good skin condition. Go to bed early the night before, but don't wear two big black eyes.

Fourth, details after the meeting.

Girls' supplies

1. Thanks to the boyfriend's family. Go home and be safe with your boyfriend. If you add the WeChat of your uncle and aunt, you can also express your gratitude for their safety. You can also praise the delicious food cooked by your uncle and aunt.

2, good interpersonal relationships, usually on holidays, chat with uncles and aunts and express blessings.

You can ask your boyfriend's parents and family about your attitude, and you can communicate with your boyfriend if you have any questions.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) post-meeting details

The boy's article

1, boys should praise their girlfriends more and make their parents and family like her more and more subtly.

2. If your girlfriend does something wrong, or makes your parents and family uncomfortable, you must communicate with your family in time, indicating that you don't want to hide the misunderstanding in your heart, which will be difficult to resolve in the future.

Sixth, look at the preparations before.

Girls' supplies

1, asking about the boyfriend's family structure: Usually children live together, who will be present at this meeting, and whether parents and elders have reorganized, so as to prepare gifts and avoid embarrassing things.

2. Ask about your boyfriend's family: for example, do you have any beliefs? Is it necessary to pay attention to people and things that you can't mention in case you run into each other's minefield? Awkward.

3. Ask your boyfriend's family preferences: this can facilitate gift giving and find a suitable topic to chat with.

Seven, look at the preparation before?

Boyfriend needs preparation?

1. Seriously introduce your girlfriend's habits to your parents, so that they can get to know her to some extent.

2, to express the importance of his girlfriend, so that parents pay attention in advance, which will also make his girlfriend more at ease and relaxed.

3. Communicate your girlfriend's personality with your family in advance. Too quiet will make parents talk, too naughty, make parents tolerant and lose face.

4. If you usually speak dialects at home, remind your parents to speak more Mandarin.