Always perfunctory will drift away. Why did Shen say that?

Shen said to me? No one is stupid, always perfunctory, and will gradually drift away; No one is stupid, no one is taken seriously, and everyone is getting weaker and weaker. This is actually the way people get along with each other. Any kind of relationship actually needs to be maintained. Without maintenance, the relationship will naturally fade and the distance will naturally be far away.

One: every relationship needs careful maintenance, and the relationship between people also needs careful maintenance and repair. If there is a lack of communication, or if one party takes the initiative and the other party perfunctory, this relationship will become farther and farther away and weaker. Do you remember those people who told you everything when they were studying? In a trance, are you like strangers as soon as you graduate? Some people say that because of different circles, they are drifting away. Actually, it's not all. Different circles are just the reason why we impose this alienation. The most fundamental thing is that we have not maintained this relationship. Even if the circle is different, you can meet and get together, occasionally make a phone call, talk about each other's dreams and talk about each other's recent situation. Even if you don't have time, you can send a blessing message on holidays. The maintenance of each relationship is actually very simple, but whether you value this relationship or not.

Two: Every relationship needs to be sincere to others, and it must be sincere to others, so that the relationship can last longer. If people get along with each other, full of intrigue and intrigue, always weigh the pros and cons, consider gains and losses, care about petty profits, be afraid of their own losses and others' gains, then this relationship is unhealthy and will only become more and more unfamiliar. People's hearts are mutual. Only by treating others sincerely and caring for them can we make real friends and gain real friendship.

Three: Every relationship needs to get along with people at the beginning, which is inseparable from maintenance. But sometimes, because of the human society, it is easy for us to deviate from our initial heart and become a relationship with money. In this way, relationships can easily become corrupt and mercenary. Even if the relationship continues, it is no longer a relationship, but a chain of interests. Once the benefits stop, this chain will collapse immediately. In the communication between people, we should keep our initial heart, treat each other with a normal heart, and make the communication warm and natural. This is the best state of a relationship.