What if mom doesn't call me?

If you want your mother to call you, but she doesn't, you can consider the following suggestions:

1. Call her on your own initiative: You can call your mother on your own initiative and tell her that you want to communicate with her more. This can be a casual conversation with no special topic, aiming at establishing contact and communication.

2. Make a plan: If you and your mother live in different cities or countries, you can make a plan for telephone contact. For example, call each other at a specific time one or two days a week. This will ensure that the connection between you will not be interrupted.

3. Send a text message or email: If you are embarrassed to call your mother directly, or it is inconvenient for your mother to answer the phone when she is busy, you can choose to send a text message or email. This can also help you convey your feelings and ask for more attention and contact.

4. Understand and respect her busyness: Mom may not call you often because of work, family or other reasons. Try to understand and respect her busy life and let her know that you still care about her, even if you can't talk often.

5. Be patient: It takes time to change one's habits. Even if you want your mother to call you more often, you need to give her some time to get used to the idea.

Most importantly, communicate frankly with your mother and let her know your feelings and needs. At the same time, we should respect her decision and schedule.