How to send messages to my husband after the cold war

Quarrel is an inevitable thing in life, and many couples will take the cold war to ease their relationship after quarreling. However, after the quarrel, many couples choose to hide information or ignore each other directly in order to avoid contradictions and problems. In the process of cold treatment, the most important thing is to transmit information, but many couples do not realize that the other party does not love themselves when doing so, so it is easy to cause misunderstandings and misunderstandings when transmitting information. If you want to continue sending messages at this time, you will find that you have already begun to regret it. In fact, the best way is to send the information first, so that the other party can understand that you are opposite you, not next to him, and then slowly restore calm. If the other person doesn't want to communicate with you, then you should use communication skills to ease the contradictions and problems between them.

First of all, apologize to each other.

Many couples just don't realize their mistakes when they quarrel. So they kept silent. But whoever makes a mistake. Especially women, when they are angry, if they don't realize their mistakes, they will only make your relationship worse and worse. So we must apologize to each other at this time. Only when the other party knows that your feelings can be better restored to their original state after their own mistakes.

Second, don't just say "break up"

Two people usually have a cold war after a quarrel, but this situation is not the worst. If you take the cold war as a means to leave each other voluntarily, your harm will be even greater, because once you leave each other, you will be dissatisfied with you. So it will hurt this woman more. Therefore, in the cold war, we must not say "break up" directly. But a proper apology. This can not only eliminate contradictions, but also make this woman completely lose this man. At this point, we can put the sentence "I don't love" in front. This can not only eliminate the barriers between each other, but also make this woman give up this man completely.

Third, give him space first, let him know that you are by his side, and slowly let him have a step down.

If you still don't want to communicate with him, then the contradiction between the two people is already deep. At this time, you should let him have a step first. If he still doesn't want to speak his mind voluntarily, or he is weak or irritable in front of you, then don't give him a step directly. You should slowly express your views on this matter and what you want to solve the problem or save the other party, instead of embarrassing the other party directly. If the other person can change, then he will definitely be more willing to communicate with you. At the same time, you should also understand that the cold war method is not as simple as solving contradictions. To solve the problem, you only need to have a step between the two sides.