I don't like how to refuse after a blind date and help you refuse a blind date.

Rejecting blind date is not only a knowledge, but also a skill.

If two people are unsuccessful in blind date, if they adopt appropriate refusal methods, they will not only refuse each other's desire to continue to get along, but also safeguard each other's dignity;

If the refusal method is simple or even unreasonable, it may hurt the other person's self-esteem and may bring unnecessary trouble to yourself.

So how to refuse blind date?

First, the euphemism refusal method Euphemism refusal is a method of euphemistic refusal to continue to get along with each other while praising each other.

When two people are in contact, they feel that the other person is far from their own mate selection criteria and don't want to get along with each other.

After patiently listening to each other, gently tell each other:

Your qualifications are excellent, and I have many shortcomings myself. I need to keep trying.

You will find an excellent person. I wish you an early harvest of love.

Second, the way to ask someone to refuse is to ask someone to take a message, not to refuse to continue to get along.

If you are embarrassed or unable to refuse for other reasons, you can find a matchmaker, a friend, or someone who can talk to you.

In this way, we can avoid the embarrassing situation of meeting again.

Third, the effective contact refusal method is a method to refuse to continue to get along with them through effective contact methods such as telephone, WeChat and QQ.

You can call the other party directly and strategically refuse the other party's request to continue to get along;

You can also tell each other through effective contact methods such as WeChat or QQ that you don't get along well and don't want to continue to get along.

Fourth, the way to refuse the question is beyond the tolerance of the other party, and the requirement of "passing the customs" is put forward to let the other party retreat.

When chatting on a date, ask a question that is beyond the other person's ability while knowing the other person's salary, income and economic situation. You tell each other:

I ask the other party to have a car, a house and a certain deposit. Can you satisfy me?

As soon as the other party listens, they ask so many requests and questions when they meet for the first time, and immediately understand that you don't want to get along with them.

5. Exaggerate "Shortcomings" Rejection is a way to deliberately exaggerate one's own "shortcomings" and make the other party feel disgusted and stop getting along.

After chatting, the other party suggested that the next time we meet for dinner, you promised to bring friends of the opposite sex to dinner.

As soon as the other party hears that you have a confidant of the opposite sex, it will immediately think that you may be "different" in some ways, and the other party will stay away.

Sixth, the chat topic rejection method is a method that is inconsistent with the other party's chat topic, which makes the other party bored and stops getting along.

When two people chat, you don't follow each other's topic, but he says he talks about you, and the two people can't always talk together.

In addition, the topic you are talking about is completely cold and boring that the other party is not interested in or can't reach.

When the other person looks at your attitude and method of chatting, he will understand your intentions and thoughts.

Seven, lied to be forced to refuse the method is to lie that you have an object, and you are forced to blind date, thus rejecting the blind date.

When chatting, you tell the other person that you are seeing someone, but your parents don't agree to continue to get along for the time being. You have a good relationship with your partner and will not be separated.

This time I came on a blind date because of my parents' thoughts, not my own intentions. I was forced to come on a blind date and apologize to each other.

As soon as you say it, the other person will hear what you mean.

8. The method of refusing to leave halfway is a way to leave halfway and refuse the blind date on the pretext that you have something to do.

The other party is chatting with you happily. You called you on the pretext of something, and now you leave halfway.

At the same time, tell the other party that I think the conditions are not suitable, wish the other party find a more suitable object, and politely refuse to continue to associate.

There are many ways to refuse a blind date, which varies from person to person.

No matter what method is used to refuse the blind date, it should be based on equality and mutual respect, and avoid being simple and rude or even damaging the dignity of the other party.