Fall in love with the boy who makes you feel safe.

First, "Sex and the City" saw the third season, savoring the four female hosts, all lovely. Charlotte, naive as a girl, believes in love and looks forward to marriage; Miranda, with strong ability, is brave and heroic to her friends; Samantha is so honest that she never hides her nature; Beautiful and talented Kelly. They all have beautiful appearance and unhappy love.

However, TV plays are not real, based on reality and higher than reality. Miranda, who can sleep with a man and graduate from Harvard Medical School, is not common, because Kelly, a man, a feeling that occupies all the emotions in her heart, is the representative of our common girls.

Mr. Da is handsome and prominent in social status, and Kelly was chosen in the vast sea of people. For Mr. Da, Kelly fell in love at first sight, so they started dating.

Most girls are like this. Maybe you have threatened to be a celibate, maybe you have experienced ups and downs in love, and even claimed that you should never trust love again. But no matter how much you swear, how much others believe. Once you have a lover, just like a chemical reaction, the nature of a woman is immediately revealed. Just like Kelly in the play, this columnist who combines wisdom and beauty is still the same.

Like a well-off couple's life, on a lazy and leisurely morning, Mr. Da and Kelly woke up from their sleep together. Open your sleepy eyes, and the other person's eyes are full of his own appearance. Then get up and have breakfast. The heroine skillfully picked up a piece of toast from the refrigerator and sent it to the hero's mouth. At that moment, the hero's eyes were full of satisfaction in addition to his deep affection for the past. This handsome guy who hangs out in social circles seems to be enjoying stable happiness. At this moment, the feeling of home filled the heroine's heart.

So Kelly had the idea of holding hands with this man and growing old with his son. It seems that the gentleman who loves Kelly unreservedly is not playing by common sense.

Tell Kelly that he is an unmarried man. Mr. Da doesn't want to spend the night at Kelly's house, nor does he want to introduce Kelly as his girlfriend in public. Even what Kelly deliberately left at Mr. Big's house, Mr. Big asked Kelly to take it home.

Mr. Big still has breakfast with Kelly, and he still hasn't given Kelly any promises she wants.

Kelly still loves Mr. Big wholeheartedly, and she still questions the seemingly incomplete love from Mr. Big.

But Kelly can accept everything. She would rather believe that this is Mr. Da's hobby and accept these unequal treatments than leave Mr. Da.

Second, just like you and me in real life, sometimes in a relationship, you know that person won't make you happy and can't give you the actual love you want, but you just don't have the courage to make a clean break with the past.

Sophomore just started school, and after breaking up with a boy he didn't like very much, his best friend Dacheng was particularly eager to fall in love. Any pair of things can arouse her desire to fall in love.

In a fellowship with the school next door, Dacheng was attracted by a handsome boy and fell in love with that boy at first sight. Next, the boys began to go out regularly, either eating and watching movies together or running and playing basketball with the boys. Maybe the boy is really good-looking, or maybe he wants to fall in love too much. This Jiangnan woman has lost her previous reserve and reserve, and is almost on call. Every time she asks out, she has to dress up. Eyes full of expectation, obviously waiting for the boy's sentence "Can you be my girlfriend?" .

Soon they were together, and the long-distance lover changed from being elated before falling in love to being disheartened now.

From the love breakfast that boys used to eat every day, they don't eat a big breakfast for almost a week now, let alone send it downstairs. I used to call good night every day, but now I don't take the initiative to send messages to Dacheng for two days.

Perhaps this is a common problem for boys. They are diligent when chasing, and extremely cold after chasing. But for the heart that has been captured, there are naturally mixed feelings.

When he didn't receive a small gift at the beginning of the holiday, Dacheng regarded it as his carelessness; If you don't make an appointment for a week, you will feel that you are an engineering student after all and are in the laboratory every day. In front of us, Cheng is full of worries every day, analyzing whether that boy really loves her, but when he is around that boy, Cheng becomes a happy little girl in flowery clothes.

Later, during the May Day holiday, I didn't receive the boy's greetings for a whole week. The trip finally broke out. After two months of trying to maintain their good image, the day of quarreling came. Quarrel belongs to quarrel, and explanation belongs to explanation, just like before falling in love. I believe. The boy's sentence I really love you, I have forgotten the painstaking persuasion of my girlfriends.

Dacheng, like Kelly, has a heart to heart with boys. When boys are around, Dacheng enjoys the time together. When the boy is not around, Dacheng stares at his mobile phone, thinking about what the boy is doing and when to ask her out.

At this point in the story, Dacheng may not look like the kind of girl we like. As we all know, Dacheng is beautiful and smart, and there are never many boys around him. I used to spend most of my weekends in the library, so I won the first-class scholarship easily without destroying it. Hard work and serious progress is the label of great progress, but such a girl full of positive energy seems to be a different person now.

In the words of the Great Wall, "I am riding a tiger now, knowing that I have done something wrong and I can't control myself."

Third, however, it is such a gentleman who, shortly after leaving Kelly, announced that he was a bachelor and told Kelly the fact that he was going to get married. A big stick and a bolt from the blue are not enough to express Kelly's feelings. Perhaps the only comfort is that Kelly has a new lover around her.

Is Mr. Big like Kelly's predecessor? Not exactly. When I was on vacation with my best friend, I saw Mr. Da, and Kelly, who was still laughing, suddenly lost control. When I watch a play with Charlotte, I see Mr. Big's face through the telescope. Even my favorite show, I must leave the theater at once.

When Kelly convinced himself to forget the old relationship and start to devote himself to the new one, Mr. Big broke into Kelly's life again defenseless. If Kelly has no illusions about Mr. Big, then from the moment when Mr. Big walked beside Kelly for the first time after marriage, rational Kelly should put out the flame of old love.

The fact is, after several phone calls and several meetings, Kelly was tamed by this man again. On the one hand, I feel guilty for my new boyfriend Aidan, on the other hand, I enjoy sex with Mr. Da.

How conflicted Kelly is, how she can't forget Mr. Big.

When I saw these plots, I seemed to feel the depression on Kelly. The audience knows that if Kelly is decisive enough and doesn't associate with her husband, then Kelly's life will still be warm and beautiful. However, Kelly can't. From the moment we met, Mr. Da lived in her heart.

Mr. Da has never been affirmed by Kelly's girlfriends group, which is naturally something that Mr. Da disdains. This time, it is more difficult for Kelly to rekindle her old love with her married husband.

As far as girlfriends are concerned, Kelly once loved a boyfriend who didn't love her so much. This time, Kelly is still willing to appear in Mr. Da's life as a third party after experiencing this man's abandonment. I used to be humble, but now I have no dignity.

She knew that the appearance of Mr. Big was a disaster for her. She can also make up her mind to completely move her circle away from such a man who makes him feel insecure. Maybe I really love that man, maybe girls are naturally indecisive. She can only let Mr. Big run amok in his world. It's like Dacheng questioning boys' love while expecting boys' dating invitations.

Fourth, in the era when "non-mainstream" is still prevalent, there is a saying that "when you fall in love, you lose." The slightly melodramatic sentences that were popular at that time were never important in my heart. However, after nearly three years of cheating with ex, I suddenly understood, just like that sentence is not meaningless, it has been waiting for you to understand.

I also used that sentence to fight with ex, to express my feelings, and even to tell myself that I can't love someone wholeheartedly anymore. I'll think it's really a mockery, too. Words you don't like have become your current state.

Later, when there were relatives around, he was willing to introduce me to all his good friends. He can't wait for me to meet his parents. Good morning messages and good night messages bore me. I don't have to worry about him leaving me at all I know that he will be in my life when I wake up every day. At that time, I began to believe that falling in love with someone is always a happy thing. He makes me feel radiant and particularly cute.

I began to understand that love never wins or loses. If you feel that if you fall in love with someone, you will lose it. In fact, you are in love with someone who can't give you a sense of security. If you know that his love for you will never be enough. That will not only make you lose your old style and the light you deserve, but also make you become something you don't like.

5. I wonder if Kelly will continue to be so out of touch with Mr. Big in the next plot. I hope that boy can make Dacheng feel safe early. If not, then I wish our girls can be brave and leave the boy who makes you feel insecure.

Yin Jie and Zhou Xiaolin are an enviable couple in the first issue of The Reader. Their touching love made me cry. In addition, Zhu Shenghao's love poem at the end, "We have been in love for a lifetime, but it is still too short", is even more incisive and makes people lament how hot love can be. So you see, true love is simple and warm, without doubt or perfunctory. Our girl, you should believe that we will all be like Zhou Xiaolin and Tasha Tudor in China. There will be a boy who will devote his life to building a back garden for you, a boy who will let you braid two little girls forever, and a boy who will hold your hand for a lifetime.

Introduction: Sports girl who likes running and spinning. I love the gym, love books, and occasionally be cynical and melodramatic. I write words that leave my heart and do practical things. I am willing to share my bits and pieces with strangers. The road ahead is still very long. Let's grow up beautifully together.