As the old saying goes, courtesy pays off. For those who don't reciprocate, how to kindly remind her to reciprocate?

Title: Friendly Tips: The Art of Mutual Benefit.

Lead: Etiquette is a very important social way in our daily life. As the old saying goes, "reciprocity" means that when we receive a gift or kindness from others, we should return it. However, sometimes we meet people who don't reciprocate. At this time, how should we kindly remind her to return the gift? This article will give you some advice.

First, choose the right time and way.

1. Private communication: If you feel embarrassed to directly remind the other party to return the gift, you can choose to communicate with the other party privately. Find a suitable occasion, express your thoughts in a relaxed tone, and let the other party feel your sincerity.

2. Use a third party: If you are embarrassed to remind the other party directly, you can ask a friend or relative like you to help convey your meaning. This will not only avoid embarrassment, but also let the other party understand your intention.

Second, use appropriate words to express it.

1. Thank you: When reminding the other party to return the gift, you should first thank the other party. Let the other person know that you cherish her gift or kindness, so that she will be more willing to respond to you.

2. Raise expectations: After expressing gratitude, you can raise expectations appropriately. For example, "I received your gift and really liked it." I also prepared a small gift for you. I hope you like it. " This expression is both polite and sincere.

Third, pay attention to discretion and attitude.

1. Politeness: Remind the other party to be polite when returning the gift. Don't get angry or blame the other party for not returning the gift, which will only make the other party feel disgusted.

2. Moderate persistence: When reminding the other party to reciprocate, you should moderately adhere to your position. If the other party refuses to return the gift, you can remind her again, but be careful not to be too tough to hurt the other party's feelings.

Fourth, adjust the mentality and understand each other.

1. Empathy: remind the other party to learn empathy when returning the gift. Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes. Maybe she was really in trouble, or she forgot to return the gift.

2. Tolerance and forbearance: If the other party has no willingness to reciprocate, learn tolerance and forbearance. After all, gifts are just a way to express one's mind, and sincere friendship is the most important thing.

Conclusion: In our daily life, reciprocity is a virtue. However, we will also meet some people who don't reciprocate. In this case, we should learn to choose the right time and way, express our thoughts with the right words, pay attention to the sense of proportion and attitude, and adjust our mentality to understand each other. Only in this way can we safeguard our own rights and interests while maintaining the beauty of friendship.

In this fast-paced society, people tend to ignore some details, which leads to the gradual indifference of the tradition of reciprocity. Therefore, we should always remind ourselves to pay attention to these details, so that the flower of friendship can bloom more beautifully in our lives. At the same time, we should also educate the next generation, inherit this beautiful tradition, and make our society more harmonious and beautiful.