My wife sent an ambiguous message to another man, and I found out. At first, she did not recognize her. I didn't know her until I read her mobile QQ and SMS.

Your reaction is not generally severe, this kind of problem.

First, determine the extent of her (mental) or physical infidelity. This must be clarified, otherwise it will always be a bad feeling.

Then you can bear it, and you can make up.

If it's beyond your tolerance, then live in peace for another month. A month later, you still think it's time to break up.