I have a girlfriend who I have known for a long time. At first, we had a good chat. Why are you so cold to me these days?

You may have hurt her by being rude in some places; Teach you a little mature experience;

[1] First of all, get acquainted. At least let her know you. You should leave a good impression on her and not abandon you. At least I have something to tell you. Someone told me.

2. Contact information, qq, telephone. After 1, she won't refuse your contact information, because at least she doesn't dislike you.

Ok, make friends with her now. Remember, it is foolish to confess directly step by step! Meet, say hello and chat on qq. But not too much, be sure to pay attention to the frequency, don't send it every day! 1, twice a week is enough. At the same time, you should judge your position in her mind by the number of words in SMS, qq, etc. and the speed of reply. If you text her, she will be in trouble. ...

4. If you judge that she doesn't like you or is boring. It is not bad to be a good friend. Don't get involved, but respect others. If I like you a little, you should increase the frequency of chatting, not too fierce! Don't always ask others to go out and play alone, others are under pressure. Pay more attention to her, but not too much. Never confess, that's the stupidest. If she doesn't want to fall in love, you can't even be friends once you confess, because it's too embarrassing. Seize the opportunity.

When the time is right, it depends on your judgment. On the move!

Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer. When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

Wish you success!