How to judge whether the other party is the legendary love rat?

I met love rat when I was in love before. I'm really glad I wasn't with him, so I met him now. If a boy is poor, you can actually see it from his words and deeds, as well as in life and work.

In fact, judging whether a person is love rat, I believe many people have a destiny in their hearts. The general performance of love rat is as follows:

One: people who are used to calculating vested interests.

Some men will show selfishness when they fall in love and don't want to sacrifice their personal interests for their parents and family. This heartless man seems to be defending the interests of his small family, but in essence he regards personal interests as the burden of marriage and her family as the burden of life. So he always shows indifference to her parents' family in daily life, and even shows economy to her family.

Two: a man who lacks a clear life goal.

From a man's manners and pursuit of career, we can reveal whether a man has a clear life plan and whether family happiness is included in his life plan. Therefore, when a woman is in love, don't care too much about whether a man can always be with her. You know, men who can always stay at home with their wives are often mediocre people, because historical experience has proved that without men's brilliant careers, it is impossible to have a happy life in a small family.

Three: people who like to kick down the ladder and don't talk about benevolence and morality.

The most important quality of a man is to attach importance to friendship and loyalty. In the process of finding a partner, if you don't see him trying his best to help your friend after entering his circle of friends, or if you see him loyal enough to be a buddy, or even a man who only thinks about his friend when he has something to do and ignores his friend when he has nothing to do, a man with this character is often the kind of despicable person who burns down the bridge. Maybe he married you because he took a fancy to your family property or other things that could be used by him.

Four: men who are not filial to their parents and elders.

In men's bones, filial piety is usually much more important than their own career, but most of them will struggle in the pain of "loyalty and filial piety can't be satisfactory". Even if you can't be filial under your parents' knees, most of them will consider letting their parents live a carefree life economically. However, if you notice that he is not enthusiastic or even indifferent to his parents when you are in love, you must never be happy and don't expect him to be better to your parents. You know, how can a person who is not filial to his parents be filial to other people's parents?

Five: people who are mentally or physically unfaithful to their wives.

It doesn't matter if a man is poor, and it doesn't matter if a man doesn't have his own career. However, if a man is unfaithful to his wife and marriage, it is absolutely intolerable. Although men will carefully control their philandering when they are in love, clues can still be found in men who are really philandering, such as whether people in his circle of friends prefer to go to romantic places for leisure, such as whether any of his friends are caught whoring, and so on. "Those who are pro-Zhu Zhechi are pro-ink", which is absolutely reasonable.

So in life, if you meet such a boy, please pay attention. They won't give you much happiness. It always makes you sad.