I confessed to a boy, and he texted me like this. Is it a refusal?

He is not confident.

First of all, he said that he didn't think he would attract girls, which was obviously not confident.

Then he began to wonder why you said you liked him. Then because of his lack of confidence, he still can't believe that you just like him. He gave himself the reason that you only admire him but don't like him, and then he even affirmed his previous thought, "I don't think I will attract girls, and it's nothing, and people are not good-looking."

Maybe it's because he was lovelorn before. That lovelorn made him lose his self-confidence, so he didn't believe that anyone would like him. Then your short message surprised him, and he didn't know whether you really liked him or not.

At this time, you have to reply to me to make sure that I really like you. Your positive tone will definitely bring him confidence, thus eliminating doubts, and he will not guess there.

However, your reply made him more determined. You said your brain was blocked, so let him pretend you didn't say it. This obviously gives people the feeling that you are joking. It is really impossible for him to be liked by girls.

Then he said, well, that is, you are willing to pretend that you have never said anything and admit your original thoughts. You're really kidding.

However, you actually replied to him that your brain was a little twitching, which made him think that you were just impulsive and your brain was short-circuited. Otherwise, you wouldn't have the courage to send such a message. If your brain is short-circuited, how can you play such a joke on him? This may be his idea, and then he will act as if nothing has happened, so of course he won't return your text messages. If he replies to your message and your brain is still in a state of convulsion, he will.

This is from his point of view. Outsiders see clearly. Think about your confession carefully, and it needs to be perfected.

I suggest that if there is an opportunity, you send him another short message, making it clear that you really really really like him. All this is not a joke, nor admiration, nor impulse. You just like him. Just say that I was too excited to express my confession that day, but I still didn't make it clear by texting. I hope he can understand your heart.

I'm sure he'll understand if you say so. I think you can finally be together. Come on!

Besides, he said that having a good rest meant telling you not to get too excited. Have a good rest and stop joking like this.