There is a disabled person in my family who cooks for him every day to see his pity. He lives on disability allowance every month?

Yes, I strongly suggest that you find a relevant professional relief agency for this disabled person. Because China people always attach great importance to feelings first, but feelings are limited, and one party will think that the other party is right to make unlimited efforts. It will also condone each other's infinite desire to obtain. The best way is to give yourself some living space for understanding. He is an adult himself, and everyone else has their own family and production life. There is no obligation to pay for him indefinitely. I came to help her only out of sympathy.