Save a woman's heart

1. Learn to listen. Men are not good at communication and expression. They can't be like emotional experts, and they won't chatter in front of girls. So, learn to listen. Certainly not a passive listening process. You should be sincere and try to think from each other's point of view. If a woman can make a man have the desire to talk in front of her, and can seriously listen to each other's hearts and have the ability to listen and encourage, you can really walk into each other's hearts, and this relationship will last longer. 2, empathy In fact, as far as breaking up is concerned, both sides are very painful, and the other party may be more uncomfortable than you. This may just be the angry words of the other party. The other side just wants to stay calm. If you refute at this time, seriously, it will only make the other side disgusted, and both sides will be more embarrassed and add fuel to the fire. In this case, angry words may come true! Therefore, you have to think from the other person's point of view, whether you are really wrong or not, sometimes the other person knows better than you! Think more about each other. Only when the other party feels your sincerity will the success rate of recovery be improved a lot. 3, know how to praise China there is an old saying called "opaque", so you must know how to praise to save a woman. In fact, we should learn to see the beauty in life and the good side of each other. You can tell her the advantages and highlights you usually notice. You don't flatter her, but you feel from your heart that she is a great woman. There is no woman who doesn't like to hear good things. Everyone wants their own advantages to be discovered by others. If you want to save women, you must seize this point and praise each other heartily, and you will have unexpected gains! Save a woman's heart II. Face the reality and reduce the sense of demand. The most important thing to save a person is to save her heart. If you show a strong sense of need in front of her after breaking up, such as sending her text messages constantly, begging her to come back to you and do too much care. This self-deprecating redemption will obviously not make her change her mind, but will make her more and more disgusted with you. Therefore, if you want to save her, you must immediately adjust your emotions. Give yourself a hint: lovelorn is no big deal! Then give the other party a cooling-off period, during which you want to understand the factors of your breakup and know how to improve yourself. Second, what problems will be caused by longing for each other? That is, the other person feels that you are always ready for her, and for you, she is at your fingertips. We all have a * * * nature, and we often don't cherish what is readily available. When she thinks you are ready, she can invite you to go at any time. When she wants you back, she can have you at any time without compromise. If you want her to come back to you, then first of all, you should reduce your sense of need, stop making her feel that you are ready-made, but become what she longs for, not so easy to get. When she wants what you can't have, she has to compromise. If you suddenly ignore her, don't contact her, and it is no longer available, she will think that you don't want to be with her, and she will wonder why you suddenly don't want to be with her. At this time, she will try her best to find problems on herself, and she will begin to wonder if she has done something wrong. This is because she will remember your kindness and start to want to have you. When she sees that you are likely to be with another woman, and she can't have you anymore, she will begin to yearn for being with you.