Bao Ma mistakenly sent a message to the parent group. It was too late to withdraw it, but unexpectedly it was echoed by other parents.

After their children enter school, parents will be dragged into the parent group by teachers. The existence of the parent group is to facilitate communication between teachers and parents, which also allows teachers' information to be received by parents in a timely manner.

Of course, parents should also pay attention to their words and deeds after joining the group, so as not to cause trouble to other parents, and not to increase the workload of teachers. The parent group is not a place for parents to complain. Parents should have a sense of propriety.

Case:

I saw such a sharing on the forum before. Lan Lan, the mother, is a full-time housewife. She quit her job after her child was born and focuses on taking care of her child. Now that her child is three years old and can go to kindergarten, Lan Lan feels that she can finally breathe a sigh of relief.

So among the many kindergartens, Lan Lan chose the one she was most satisfied with. Although the tuition is a bit expensive, Lanlan feels that she is willing to spend money as long as it is good for her children.

But not long after the child entered the kindergarten, Lan Lan discovered that the child's clothes were always torn.

Either there is a hole here, or it is scratched there. Lan Lan was puzzled by this, so she carefully observed it for a few days and found that the child's clothes were always getting damaged every now and then. From this, Lan Lan concluded that the child must have been bullied by his peers in the kindergarten.

Lan Lan felt sorry for her child, so she complained to her best friend that she had spent a very expensive kindergarten admission fee, but she did not expect that the teacher was irresponsible. It was even said that the child was bullied, but the teacher did not notice it. Lanlan's measures were very tough, and her dissatisfaction with the teacher could be seen in her long paragraph.

After sending the message, Lan Lan went to prepare supper for her child. When Lan Lan came back, she found that her message was not sent to her best friend, but was sent to her child's class group by mistake.

Lan Lan wanted to withdraw the message, but found that it was too late, and there were many other parents echoing under her message, saying that their children had also had their clothes damaged.

Parents were also furious, accusing the teacher of not doing enough. So it didn’t take long for the teacher to silence everyone. The child's kindergarten teacher called Lanlan the next day, hoping that Lanlan could transfer her child to another kindergarten.

The reason given by the teacher was that Lanlan’s statement had affected the reputation of the kindergarten. Lan Lan was very disgusted with the teacher's attitude and believed that although she expressed too fiercely, the teacher did not supervise her properly. After a dispute, Lanlan went through the transfer procedures for the child.

Analysis:

Obviously it is not possible to be a parent or teacher. Resolving problems through positive communication can easily intensify conflicts. It was originally a misunderstanding that Bao Ma sent the wrong message, but unexpectedly it ended up being very unpleasant.

How should parents communicate with teachers?

(1) Maintain an equal attitude in communication

The status of parents and teachers should be equal, especially when it comes to educating children. Parents should not feel that they can spend money. Instructing teachers, teachers should not think that just because they are more professional, they can look down on parents. An equal exchange of opinions can help solve children's problems.

(2) Pay attention to the choice of communication methods

For issues that are not of principle, parents try to choose a more tactful communication method. After all, an overly forceful posture can easily arouse the teacher's excitement, which is not conducive to the subsequent handling of the problem.

Tactful communication can make it easier for teachers to accept, and it can also help parents have a more realistic understanding of their children's living conditions in school.

(3) Know how to tolerate each other

Parents are already dizzy raising one child, but teachers have to manage an entire class of children. Obviously the teachers have to bear There is a lot more pressure than parents.

Therefore, when parents are dissatisfied with a teacher’s education, parents should provide appropriate understanding and tolerance. Being too serious may hinder their children’s normal learning and life.

I have to say that it requires great wisdom for parents to communicate with teachers after their children enter school. It is obviously not suitable for parents to communicate with teachers by pointing fingers too strongly.

Being humble and courteous is more conducive to the exchange of ideas. What do you think you would like to share about the communication methods between parents and teachers?

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