My personal coaching career

My first girlfriend and I have been dating since college. I'm in the PE department and she's in the music department. We have no background, but we are both ambitious and determined to make a career on our own in the future. After graduation, in order to earn the first pot of money for starting a business, I worked as a coach in the gym, she played the piano in the bar, and the two of them desperately saved money.

Two years later, we patched things together, borrowed money from relatives to make up 500 thousand, rented a mid-range place and opened our own gym. After the equipment and decoration are finished, there is not much money left. I am the general manager and coach, and she is the proprietress and pianist. After careful calculation, we think that this is a new industry with little competition, and it is not a problem to recover the investment in a few years. Who knows this business is not easy to do? Soon after we opened our business, several gyms were opened nearby. In order to survive, the price had to be reduced, and it was difficult to maintain after one year, so we had to close the door. I went back to my old gym as a coach, and she went to another bar to play the piano. Life has returned to its original place. Different from before, we are heavily in debt, and working to make a living has become working to pay off debts. Our relationship has also become cold and tense.

Be a "personal trainer" for female members

Coming back as a coach caught the attention of a female member. Her name is Yao Ping. She is in her forties. She is not beautiful, but she is good at maintenance. She looks much younger than her age. She seemed very interested in my short-term resignation and took the initiative to chat me up and ask questions. I was depressed at that time, and sometimes I would tell her a few words about my feelings. My relationship with her soon became close.

One day, she said she would introduce a friend as a member and invited me to a coffee shop. I didn't know she was the only one until I met her. She lowered her head, stirred the coffee in the cup for a long time, and then looked up and said to me: She wants to invite me to be a "personal trainer" with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan, on condition that she goes to her house to "teach". She said the house was quiet and no one bothered me. Her words were deliberately euphemistic, but I still understood what she meant. I said give me three days to think about it, and she agreed.

For the next three nights, I went to the bar where my girlfriend played the piano to drink. I found a middle-aged bald man always sitting at the nearest table, listening attentively to her playing the piano. According to the waiter, that's a generous boss.

My girlfriend hasn't been back to our place for a long time. Seeing me listening to her play the piano for several days in a row, she didn't show surprise, but was cold.

I finally made up my mind and promised the middle-aged woman. I think, after all, I can basically pay off the money owed to the bank and my girlfriend's family within two years, and I can give myself and my girlfriend a chance to live. I was still a little sad on the day when I officially broke up with my girlfriend, but my girlfriend soon said that she owed100000 to her family and didn't need to pay it back. There is a relaxed feeling between words.

Know her with empty feelings

Yao Ping still comes to the gym to do aerobics, but according to the agreement, I will go to her mansion once a week to "coach" her. Yao Ping died at the age of thirty-five, inherited a large amount of property, remarried at the age of forty, and divorced at the age of forty-four, which also eroded some property. Now she is 47 years old, owns three big companies and has no children.

Apart from the responsibilities and obligations in the agreement, we have no unnecessary communication, let alone the emotional level. I don't care about her huge property, and she never restricts my freedom outside of "work". This life passed smoothly for a year, and when it expired, she gave me 200,000 yuan as promised, and I immediately paid off some debts. The following year, Yao Ping wanted to renew my contract, but I didn't refuse. I still have the dream of starting a business. I told myself that I must get through these years and pay off my debts, so that I can get closer to my ideal.

Unexpectedly, I met another female member six months later. Her name is Jin Yang. She is only in her twenties. She looks beautiful and has a tall figure. She selected me from the list of coaches for individual tutoring. I gave her some strength training according to her condition. After a while, she was very fit, healthy and very happy. She used to be a little cold and arrogant, but now she always talks to me.

I got to know her. Her boyfriend went to America. He talked with her for two years, and they are getting married. As a result, her parents were arrested for economic crimes. He went to America, where his sister has been studying. His parents transferred her a large sum of cash in the name of paying tuition, which was enough for their brother and sister to live.

My boyfriend's family changed, and my feelings suddenly became empty. "I don't know what I will do with him. Hang it like this first. " She said to me. In fact, her family is good, and she is used to living a luxurious life with her boyfriend, and she is not used to ordinary life. "I don't want to fall in love for the time being," she said. "I just want to enjoy life now." Indeed, her usual life is eating, drinking, shopping, swimming and beauty. I don't know why, but looking at her shiny face, I think she is actually quite pitiful.

Soon, she will call my mobile phone number and send me a text message asking me to go to her home for counseling. Of course, I know from experience what is going on. But I was attracted by her and didn't refuse in the end.

She gave me a brown paper bag when we parted.

I started going to Jin Yang's house once a week. Unlike Yao Ping's appointment on Tuesday, Jin Yang and I always make an appointment temporarily. If my appointment with Yao Ping conflicts, I will tell Jin Yang that I have something to do. Jin Yang told me frankly: Don't fall in love with me. Our time together is very short, the shortest is one month, and the longest is no more than two years.

I also remind myself in my mind that being with Jin Yang is only a physical relationship. But as the days passed, I liked her more and more. I found that she is actually a very sensitive girl, but she also has a tough side. I can accept anything except her material desires.

As my feelings for her grew deeper and deeper, Yao Ping and I began to feel pain together. I found Yao Ping and proposed to cancel the contract, and the amount of liquidated damages was paid by her. To my surprise, she is generous, or maybe she is tired of me. She said that one year is coming, it doesn't matter if there are a few days less, and you don't have to pay, just give you 1.5 million.

When I saw Jin Yang again, I thought she was particularly cute. I really hope I can keep her. After that, I often invited her to dinner, accompanied her shopping, and was especially considerate to her. Maybe in my heart, I have regarded her as my girlfriend.

However, six months later, Jin Yang and I broke up.

It turns out that she has been keeping in touch with her ex-boyfriend and has been meeting online. Her boyfriend has arranged everything and asked her to go to America to reunite with him. Now her visa has been completed. When she said this, my head was numb, stupid and unresponsive. Seeing me like this, she seemed a little guilty, but she soon turned to blame. She said: I warned you not to fall in love with me. She kept squeezing my arm when I said it, and I didn't seem to feel any pain. When I got home, I just looked at her pinched red and purple arm and suddenly found it hurt.

Last month, when she left, I foolishly went to the airport to see her off. Unexpectedly, when she left, she handed me a big, thick brown paper bag. I can tell what it is at a glance. If there are not many people around, I will definitely throw it in her face. I said grumpily, what do you mean? She bowed her head sadly, blushed for a while, and said intermittently, I know you still have the loan outstanding.

After seeing her off, I was seriously ill, asked my boss for leave and stayed at home for a few days. I saw Yao Ping again after work. I casually asked her how she was now, and she told me very reserved that I was fine and turned and walked away. Took two steps and looked back at me. I don't know what she means. Does this imply that I can contact her again?

After my relationship with Jin Yang, I have no interest in entering that life again. Even now, when I think about what Jin Yang thinks of me, I can't help feeling sick. Because I was immersed in several women all day and didn't want to work, the identity of the original gym star fitness consultant was gradually replaced. The boss has hit me half jokingly. He said to me: you are in a daze all day, and the most suitable place for you should be a bed, a place suitable for dreaming! I used to think that I could take a shortcut, pay off my debts as soon as possible and realize my dream. Now I find this road seems to be a fork in the road. If this continues, it will only get farther and farther away from the ideal.

So, no matter what Yao Ping means by looking back at me, I won't contact her again. Jaco said that he is working very hard now, and he is confident that he can pay off his debts as soon as possible. He said he took a detour, but he won't go again. Speaking of this privacy, one is to bid farewell to yesterday, and the other is to teach young people a lesson. After telling the story, I watched him come out from behind the newspaper, not jumping like a young man, but also taking one step at a time, not frivolous. I can't help secretly expecting him to walk all the way! )