Long-distance relationship, boyfriend doesn't answer text messages or phone calls, but Tik Tok is online. What should I do?

Hello, let me talk about my personal opinion. The message is not returned, and the phone is not answered, which means that your boyfriend has planned to give up your relationship. Analyze why he doesn't answer the phone before answering what you should do.

There are several reasons why boys don't return your messages:

1), boys don't pay much attention to you and love you, so they don't pay much attention to your news and don't want to reply.

Boys who value you and love you will always reply to your message. Even if he can't talk to you for a while, when he sees your news, he will often simply reply to you: I'm ... I'll talk to you later.

Some boys fall in love. When he loves each other deeply, boys will even worry that his girlfriend will not take the initiative to ask him for something, instead of hating his girlfriend for being too clingy, not to mention seeing his girlfriend's information not coming back.

2) Some boys think that girls are too wordy when chatting, and the topic of chatting is not nutritious, so these boys are unwilling to chat too much with girls on WeChat, because he thinks chatting with girls on WeChat is really boring.

This point, different boys, in fact, is different.

Some boys will be very happy and even enjoy chatting with girls often on WeChat, while some boys will not be interested in chatting with girls on WeChat, and some boys will be bored or even refused.

Note that different boys have different attitudes and degrees about chatting with girls on WeChat.

But this does not mean that boys will not be affected or even changed.

For example, I didn't like to send text messages or reply to girls since I was a child. Later, during my long-distance relationship with my girlfriend in college, we didn't talk about texting. Later, I gradually realized that I went my own way, which actually hurt my girlfriend's feelings and feelings.

Then we will agree on the time and frequency of telephone chat.

After I realized my own problems, compared with before, although I didn't chat with my girlfriend by SMS much, the frequency and time of our telephone conversation obviously became much more.

Not only that, we will write a personal letter to each other and mail it to each other every month, and we will buy some gifts from time to time and mail them to each other.

We will try our best to find opportunities to visit each other every semester.

So my long-distance relationship with my college girlfriend is actually very good, and it feels very sweet.

3) Boys are busy with other things (even boys may put their time and energy on other people), and they care more about and attach importance to the things at hand (or other people in front of them) than replying to your messages and chatting with you.

More commonly:

Boys are playing games (this matter can't be distracted, sometimes I don't even see your news);

Boys are eating, drinking and bragging with their buddies. When a boy receives your message, you often ask him what he is doing. If a boy says he is drinking outside, some girls will be very unhappy about it, and even get to the bottom of it and ask who that boy is. Or some girls will pester boys to chat with her. When boys and buddies are together, some boys will habitually chat with their girlfriends, while others will be more exclusive);

Boys are dating other girls ... (this needs no explanation);

First, put it down completely

1, completely block his information, don't answer the phone, don't invite him. If necessary, change your mobile phone;

2. Don't touch any information about him. Everything you are together is sealed. If necessary, destroy them all;

7 days before this breakup, let your most trusted friends or family accompany you, cry heartily, let them share your pain, and supervise you to make excessive behavior.

Second, if you can't let go

1. Go find him. No matter what the result is, I will meet you and put it down. Even if the result is irreversible, at least I won't leave any regrets for myself.

2. No contact for the time being. Since he won't answer your phone for a while, he might as well let the other person calm down for a while. Stop pestering, only by knowing the distance can we keep our feelings better.

3. Find friends who are the same as each other. If he doesn't answer your message, he won't answer your phone. You can try to contact his friends and ask them for help. Express your meaning through an intermediary. The misunderstanding between you is easy to solve.