How to get rid of a person who loves a little twisted?

How to get rid of a person who loves a little twisted?

1, don't care about his "pity". If the other person keeps pretending to be pathetic, gain your sympathy. At this time, you should be careful not to be soft-hearted. Don't break up with him just because you were lovers before, but you still have this sympathy for him. We can accept a normal breakup, but he always pesters you and treats you like this, then we will be ruthless.

2. Reject any invitation from him. If he is always pestering you, you will be pestered by him, and meeting again for dinner will give each other an illusion. In other words, you haven't completely given up on him, and he can continue to talk with you. If you have not forgotten him, there is nothing to say, but if you refuse, he will pester you and refuse directly.

Don't try to convince him yourself, it will boost his morale. Your ex-boyfriend pestered and threatened you. Never try to convince your ex-boyfriend, never naively believe your previous feelings. Because when an ex-boyfriend can make threatening behavior, looking for you only satisfies his abnormal psychology, and his feelings no longer exist. The more you try to convince him, it will only make him feel that you still care about him, and he will use your kindness to boost his morale.

4. Don't accept his gift. After breaking up, in order to avoid other contradictions, I want to return everything. Like an expensive ring or something. After returning things, both parties will feel emotionally debt-free. Good reunion. And if the other person doesn't give up and wants to pester you with gifts, you should refuse at that time and never give the first chance.

Try not to have direct contact with him to avoid being hurt. Generally, a man who pesters you with threats must have psychological problems. In this state of mind, it is easy to make excessive behavior. So don't have direct contact with your ex-boyfriend to avoid accidental injury.

Step 6 ask for help. In the face of this situation, after all, because I had a relationship with my ex-boyfriend, I was easily distracted and hurt when considering some problems. If you are threatened by the entanglement of your ex-boyfriend, you must seek help in time. It's best to tell parents, relatives and friends about this situation and solve these things with their help. Ex-boyfriends may flinch when they see no hope.