The object said I was bored to death, and I talked to him too much these two days. What should I do? What if I talk to him and he doesn't bother me? Can everyone help me?

In the early days of love, I felt bored all day, but after a long time, I didn't expect to be annoyed by my girlfriend, and said that I would break up, which made many boys very confused. How to fall in love? My girlfriend hates me. How can I turn things around and save her?

My girlfriend hates me for a reason. Let's analyze the reasons why I hate you and how to save it:

First, care too much.

In love, both boys and girls will put pressure on each other if they stick to each other all day. I don't think anyone can stand being bombarded by all kinds of news calls as soon as they are separated. If your girlfriend bothers you for this reason, I suggest you give each other space and yourself space.

Second, malicious comments.

Some people, whether good or bad, always like to comment on each other with malicious comments, euphemistically calling it a blow to improve, which encourages the other party to always remember to improve. Although we say that we are prepared for danger in times of peace, it is ok to attack occasionally. But if getting along with you is negative, what happy time does your girlfriend have with you? Light enough to annoy you. When two people get along, positive comments are necessary.

Third, unconditional obedience.

If you think that everything in love goes with your girlfriend, everything is unconditionally obeyed by girls, and you still think that you are good to your girlfriend, then your girlfriend will think that you are annoying and groundless. Because women like to have such boyfriends, but they want their boyfriends to be manly and conquer her.

Fourth, peep into girls' private space.

Don't be really close when you are in love. You know, even if you get married, you are two independent individuals, both of whom have their own private space. Maybe you think it's okay to peek at your boyfriend's personal space. Why can't a girlfriend watch it without doing anything? If you do this, sooner or later, your girlfriend will think that you don't respect her, bother you, and even break up.

Fifth, try to change each other.

People always want their lovers to change because of them, which is the fatal wound of eternal love. Although people know that people who have been changed are always reluctant, they are unwilling to give up changing others' ideas. Everyone can't change overnight. Your urging for change will not only make you change, but will annoy your girlfriend.

Step 6 be dishonest

If two people in love lose trust, it is difficult to build trust, and they always like to be suspicious. If your dishonesty is exposed once, your girlfriend will be suspicious again and again. If you fall in love with such suspicion, you will feel bored, and so will your girlfriend.

The most fundamental way to solve your girlfriend's annoyance is to analyze why she finds you annoying, so that you can know where the problem is and have a direction to change, otherwise it will only go further and further.

As the saying goes, "it is easier to heal a broken heart than to heal it." What you did before has broken his heart. A girl has a strong subconscious mind to protect herself. Even if you are kind to him now, she still feels the original scar in her heart ~ and quarreling is the most harmful poison. Every quarrel will only bring her more harm. Do you think you can heal quickly without a good wound?

First of all, you must be calm. How can you cure her if you can't let go? Like you said, quarrels are all about trifles. Since it's a trivial matter, don't take it to heart. Small things can hurt big feelings and are not worth it. Try not to quarrel. What can't be solved calmly? Think things over first, and calm down first. If you don't make any noise, tell him calmly, can he still argue with you?

If you didn't adjust your mind at that time, you can keep calm and keep doing it without talking, right? Calm will gradually make the mentality more peaceful, and when both of them are calm, it may be better to solve it ~