How to strike up a conversation with a girl who is not very familiar? Experienced teaching. When things are done, there will be rewards!

1. When I was studying by myself last night, I often sat next to some girls I really wanted to know, but I didn't know how to speak. Do you have any good ideas?

A: It is estimated that it is difficult. For a shy boy like you, it is even more difficult than going to heaven. Like one of my former male classmates, when he saw a girl studying by herself, he went over and sat next to her, and then began to ask for her phone number, but the girl agreed. Hey, hey, great.

Observe what books she is reading first, and then know what major she is reading according to the observation results.

If you are in the same major, pick up your own book and ask a question.

If it is a different major, it is even better to ask. Ask her for professional knowledge that she doesn't understand, killing two birds with one stone.

Ask yourself questions you really don't understand, be sincere and polite, or you will be easily seen.

It would be great if that girl wanted to meet you, too. . . 、

But if you don't want to talk to you, you're finished. Never flatter. .

Just make her notice you. Smile or something. . - -||

Never say too many compliments, for no reason, people think you are. . . Have ulterior motives.

Treat her like a boy. It is better to let nature take its course.

Personally, I think: in this case, keep a natural attitude and behave generously, and pay attention to respect each other no matter who they are. Because they are unfamiliar, if they don't want to keep quiet, they will basically ask and answer at the beginning, paying attention to the tone, way and content of the questions. Natural tone; Euphemism; The content should avoid sensitive topics (if the other party raises it, pay attention to the other party's point of view and pay attention to your own way of answering), and it is best to give priority to leisure and entertainment.

It is recommended to start with hobbies! Find * * * similarities, there will be * * * the same topic, there will be more communication opportunities, and you will become more and more familiar and no longer unfamiliar! ! !

2. I go to work by subway every day, and the time is not fixed, but at nine o'clock and nine o'clock, I find that as long as I take the bus XX times a day, I can always meet her on the X car.

Seeing her for the first time, it felt good.

After that, I met n times. Every time the crowd is crowded, the distance is 2~3 meters.

Get off at the same station and change to another line. . Not so crowded, I found that she would pay more attention to me.

I really want to go up and recognize her, but I don't know how.

A: All the above methods can be used.

But it is also difficult and takes a lot of time.

Generally, this situation can be fixed and cannot be known.

The simplest and most primitive way to send notes is very good.

Worth considering!

Girls are generally prepared for your sudden attack, and it is also very troublesome to receive calls.

The key point is that there are still bottlenecks to continue to develop after talking about it.

But secretly leave a note with a few simple words and your phone number on it. If you like, you may send a short message.

It would be easy if she would pay attention to you, too. The next time you see her, you can give her a friendly and polite nod to see if she responds. If she returns the favor, you can start with "Hello" next time.

Three elements of picking up girls: boldness, carefulness and thick skin.

Secret 1 # Avoid routine # Women like to change animals, so

Never show a fixed posture and attitude in front of women. Like dating in a familiar place

You can try to change your clothes, such as changing a pair of glasses or wearing a hat, if you let the other person have an accident.

The feeling of surprise is probably because of this small change that she has quickly become inaccessible.

Much closer.

Tip 2 # Praise each other with body language at the right time # Women's body language is quite rich, except

I want you to listen to her language, and she wants you to respond to her. Among foreigners

Among them, the Italian nation can be regarded as the most sought after nation. They often spread their hands and use exaggeration.

Pursue the way to achieve the purpose of pursuit. In the face of women, simply speaking seems to have

Try to use your gestures. Perhaps the more exaggerated gestures, the easier it is to win your heart.

Tip 3 # Don't sit face to face, but sit side by side horizontally to enhance feelings # Sit face to face.

It is the easiest for people to grasp the intention of pursuing, but lose the opportunity to pursue success, and really do nothing.

It is easy to expose shortcomings. You might as well sit side by side with her, especially on her right.

In this form, you will get incredible help to pursue success.

Secret 4 # likes the same food and interests, but you can get close to it as you like # in order to get close to your goal.

Woman, you have to collect some information about her, so that your dietary interests are the same, because in food.

If they have the same interests, women will think that they are highly homogeneous in other aspects, so,

The fruit of success is not far away.

Secret 5 # The relationship between friends and lovers # Modern women don't like to be overburdened.

Relationship, so the relationship of "above friends and below lovers" is women's favorite relationship between men and women. therefore

You don't have to use "love" to close the distance from the beginning. For a woman who is easy to refuse you, this method should be

It's better this way. But remember to create more opportunities to get close. Send flowers once a week.

Women are always more attracted to the second-generation men and the college boys who are responsible for picking up and dropping off every day, because there is another one.

This is caused by more contact opportunities.

Secret 6 # A book can also be used as a means of pursuit # I deliberately threw my handkerchief to the right person before, yes.

The way many men and women begin to fall in love. In modern times, you can bring a handkerchief, a key ring or a watch.

Use, sometimes it will have unexpected effects. If you drop some books, you will have the opportunity to communicate; you

You can learn what the woman is interested in from the lost book, and then pursue it. In fact, in the handkerchief.

It's not stupid to embroider your name on it.

Tip 7 # Nothing, take a step back # With this pursuit, at first you can

Saying "Let's go to the seaside next time ..." may of course be rejected. If rejected, switch again.

The locations are cinemas and parks. After being rejected, it is necessary to induce the other party to have the idea of "this is ok".

This method of retreat is very effective, try it!

Secret 8 # Give her dreams in communication # Some people think that women are stupid and easily deceived by men.

In fact, a woman will think "even if she is cheated, she will be very happy" when facing the prince charming in her heart.

In order to meet Prince Charming who may only appear once in his life, he is willing to be deceived, so it is really

Can't say that women are stupid. After understanding a woman's state of mind, the most important thing in dealing with a woman is to give her a gift.

Some dreams. At the beginning, her attitude and every promise could not be changed. Simply put, it is in

Give her dreams when you contact. If you keep her dream, your relationship will be deeper.

Secret nine # makes her laugh # can often produce many subtle effects in the use of words. although

You are not good at pursuing women. If you can make her laugh, you will get good results. Much more cultivated in peacetime.

Some sense of humor, practicing telling funny or dirty jokes, and even strange jokes can arouse women's interest.

Sexy smile.

Secrets 10 # Create opportunities-Women are easily attracted to men they meet by chance # Secrets of women

It's very important to us. Compared with other people's introductions or men you know in the workplace, occasionally,

Men you know are more attractive to women. If the accidental opportunity happens again, then women will be deeply involved.

Believe in fate. I will be moved by this accident. Remember that anyone can be in the first place.

Arrange the second meeting after the second meeting. For example, you can check in detail: 1, where the company is located; Step 2 commute

Route and time; 3. Is there any place you often go, etc. The following are some key issues

However, I don't ask the other person directly, but I know from my usual conversation or ask his friends. such as

If you can take some time to get information, it will be much easier to make a second accident.

Secret 1 1 # Say "change for you" # Up to now, most people are interested in themselves.

People you like often say "like you" and "love you", but if you say "change for you"

If you change, even lying will have a good effect. You are beautiful seems to be more touching.

It's not easy to remember, but "I changed for you" is easy to move. Try it when you touch it.

Try to use this kind of words, it will certainly cause some surprised reactions and affectionate eyes.

Secret 12 # One of the ways to approach a woman is to seize the opportunity to have the same experience as her.

Create opportunities for two people to experience the same thing and dance in the ballroom sweating; Two people eat a bowl together.

Instant noodles and so on can create the same experience. In this experience, they often make their hearts incredible.

Closer.

Secret 13 # Show what surprises women when meeting # Abroad, you can often see some men.

The gentleman leaned out of the window and stared at the woman on the path. Everything was exaggerated and direct.

The pursuit of women's actions. Magic is also one of the most important props. Even if you use small skills to make eyes.

One hundred yuan is missing, or a handkerchief is floating in the air, and so on. If it can be used to pursue women, metropolis

Got something.

Skill 14 # Attracting women with change # The principle you should pay attention to is to let women cause it.

Attention. There are four things that can attract a woman's attention: clothing, hairstyle, fragrance and carrying things. this

Four items are items that may attract attention before greeting each other. Therefore, it is necessary to appear here during the pursuit.

Do something special on four products. A woman can stay with her for the man she likes,

And it can give some sudden surprises, even if this man does nothing in the future, he will do it.

She thinks about him every day. Don't forget to attract women with some changes!

Secret 15 # Know a woman's family environment # This is an important part of getting close to a woman, because a woman

Family environment can be said to be the benchmark for her to choose a male partner. Women who lost their fathers earlier are more fascinated.

Love older men; Women with only sisters at home are more attracted to older men; home

A woman with only her brother will definitely have feelings for a young man. Understand women's family environment

Then you can know what role you should play and how to get along with each other.

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Seventeen laws of chasing girls

& lt The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you >

After touching women, they can enhance their intimacy (physical contact is to narrow the distance with women)

However, the best way of distance, how to touch women without trace requires superb skills), if

It would be perfect if you had a chance to touch her knees or hands. But if you're number one,

Don't do this on a date. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose juxtaposition.

If you choose a face-to-face seat, you won't have it.

The chance to get in touch with each other.

For a woman's figure, the left side is the right side, but for a left-handed woman.

Is the right side) is a non-daily area, easy to feel itchy, and women come from the left side of the breast.

It is more sensitive. Therefore, it's best to keep women on your left, if you follow them with your left hand.

If a woman hugs her in the left rear, she will throw herself into your arms and look forward to further progress.

Come on, good result.

& lt the difference between a popular man and an unpopular man >

Popular men always keep a respectful distance from undesirable women, while those who admire them

Woman, there is a way to put her by your side. Women are bound to produce attractive men.

Curiosity (curiosity is the fatal wound of a woman) can be used in interesting conversations.

It can also be used for fresh intelligence information. If you are unpopular, even if the other person is.

Curiosity, but seeing you, I can only try my best to avoid it. Unpopular men are always lonely around me.

I hope to be in an active atmosphere at all times. If I want to be a popular person, I must do so.

Self-confidence (self-confidence and not arrogance are the only way to chase your girlfriend, remember! ), as well as good interpersonal relationships,

Believe this, and the good girl will belong to you.

& lt from friends to lovers >

I finally got a chance to ask her out, but I didn't know what gift to bring. This is the best occasion.

Take a flower, so that you can pin it on her chest (giving gifts is a science, but if you want to put flowers

It is unwise to stick it on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman, and then it naturally forms a kiss with the other person.

Opportunity. As for dining, you may have to be cautious for the first time, but after the second time, it will be fine.

Choose food for two people to enhance their intimacy. If you and she can eat a lot of food.

Lucy, then your relationship is not just a friend, but a couple.

& lt Give yourself a chance to step into her inner world >

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people worry that their relationship will not go on.

The first step, in fact, if these people don't care too much, they will often let the opportunity to improve their mood come quietly.

Slip away. Among women, boys who want to help women with their coats are highly valued, because when they take them off.

At the moment of condom use, if there are men present, it is easy for women to have the illusion of lovers.

When planning a ride, if you can say: put things that are easy to forget on my side, that is to tell her about yourself.

The distance between them has narrowed, but if these behaviors are not used properly, they will be self-defeating.

& lt create an accident >

Mystery is very important to women. Compared with the introduction or understanding of others in the workplace.

Men, casual men are more attractive to women, if this accidental situation happens again and again.

In other words, that woman will be convinced of the existence of fate. But can she create a second chance? , its

Actually, everyone can do it. If you want to meet a girl anyway, you can't.

You can look at her commuting route and other related matters in detail to create a second chance.

It is much easier to accept a woman's eyes and become a successful man. Women always pay attention to the true face of men.

Purpose exists in essence, so when you know that a man's true face is not your type, most of them will borrow it.

The machine escaped. It's better to make some changes if it can meet her preferences. A good memory is

Feminine characteristics, a sentence that some men forget, but women remember clearly, so you must

Remember everything you said to her.

& lt What kind of gift does she want? & gt

In giving gifts, if your girlfriend likes small things, you can give a ring, watch or

Flowers or something. If she likes big items, you can send big dolls or large ones.

A bouquet can win her heart. Generally speaking, people who like small things are mostly mature people.

Because these items can be placed within their own control, most of them will not do whatever they want.

Action. Most women who like big dolls are a little childish, so when she is happy, she may

I will haunt my boyfriend. But it's also possible that I'm tired of hugging dolls and I don't want to hug you anymore.

Although a woman who likes small things will make you pay more, it seems easier to cultivate long-term love.

& lt Shortcut for Kissing >

There is a principle when kissing a woman, that is, to press her against the wall. Women can rely on it.

The reason why I can't hide against the wall is to find the steps (-yes! ! If you want to kiss a girl, give her a step.

Similar to "strong kiss", it is very easy to succeed! ). Circumstances that cannot be avoided, psychologically

History is a very important factor. Before you want to be an expert in sex hunting, you must be familiar with all kinds of discerning women.

The technique of sexual psychology can win the final victory. Finally, when choosing a bar or restaurant, you'd better choose.

Step by step, because it will give you more excuses to get close to her. If you can hold her hand.

Words, it will make her peel off a layer of defense, leaving only a kiss in front of her.

& lt If you give in to women's words or attitudes too much, you are sure to fail >

Women are cute and scary animals. The main difference between women and men lies in two characteristics.

Face character, seemingly soft, but inside can be said to be a bitch. Not good at chasing women.

It is easy for a man with sexual desire to give in to this horror. Men who are not used to facing such women are right.

A woman's words or smiles will give in and become indecisive.

& lt How to pursue a more intellectual and emotional girl? & gt

Women can be roughly divided into two types, one is a man who can put himself above others.

When infatuated, the other person is infatuated with a man who always belittles himself. They are not good at understanding women.

Men always beautify women, so they can't put forward objective opinions directly.

On the contrary, if a man is good at interacting with women, he can not blush even if he says something unpleasant.

Out of breath, there are often some good opportunities around.

& lt Sometimes you might as well spoil her >

Of course, it is best for men and women to have the same personality. There are often two people in the world who are called "born"

These people have a lot in common except before they met. When they live together,

There are also many similarities. In fact, if men and women can complement each other, it is also a good combination.

In the group of female bosses, in order to prove their income, they often show their toughness.

Show others that if your date is this kind, you might as well find an opportunity to turn to Sasha.

Coke. For a woman with strong self-esteem, the easier it is to catch her heart. This kind of girl is in harmony with herself.

Do roughly the same, the most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so you might as well play a role sometimes.

Slave of love, when you get along with these women, you just need to remember never to disagree with her.

This principle will make it unexpectedly easy to pursue them and will be an ideal object.

& lt show your gentleness and thoughtfulness >

Do this gentle behavior, and don't be too deliberate. You should seize the opportunity and use a very calm state.

Do it. If you can show a kind smile to dogs and kittens, or show love to flowers and plants.

Pity is very important. At this time, she will think that you have such feelings for these little things.

There is no doubt about a woman's feelings. She will make sure that you are a very gentle person.

Dude. Then you're halfway there.

& lt The sea and sunset are the best combination to seduce women >

Women have longed for water since ancient times (yes, the best place for dating is the sunset by the sea! ! )。

In most romantic songs, it seems that there is no Japanese middle school as the background, and there is no one who doesn't.

Will be immersed in sadness because of the sunset by the sea, and a relationship must be immersed in sadness first.

Only when you feel a person's loneliness can you feel the taste of emotion. If women are interested in this feeling.

If Jing agrees, she will agree to this relationship.

& lt Give her dreams in communication >

Some people think that girls are easy to be cheated, but is this really the case? Actually, all the girls are here.

When I treat the prince charming in my mind, I will have the idea of being willing even if I am cheated. So in front of them,

When a well-dressed man appears, these girls are likely to gamble their luck according to their own wishes.

So the most important thing is that you should give each other some dreams. At first, your attitude towards her was relatively close.

Promise can't be changed. To be clear, it is to give her a dream. If she keeps it.

Your relationship will be deeper if you like.

If your girlfriend yawns lightly on a date, it is not that she is tired, but that she is tired.

Hint that she is tired of you (be careful and to the point, you know.

Whether a woman is impatient with you is the key), or when she signals you to pay attention to your watch a little.

Wait, that means she already wants to go home. If her thoughts were stronger, she might express them.

Xiu Xiu, if you always look around, she probably won't have you in her heart.

If a woman is with the man she loves, she often doesn't care about the surrounding environment, such as

It is not too much to say that these women are self-centered, but if women

Turn your eyes to other things, and you should be ready to end this relationship at any time.

If a woman says "men are disgusting", many women like to add (disgusting) after a sentence.

But in this usage, there are two different meanings that deserve attention.

When it comes to performance, it often happens to men and women who are very close, if not very close.

Words, the other party may give you a contemptuous look in silence, so if a woman is willing to talk to you.

If you speak, your intimacy will increase in comparison. In order to increase your intimacy,

You should show her your manhood as soon as possible, but if men make women feel unwilling.

When it is clean, it is likely to discourage women.

& lt Observe women by talking & gt；;

What kind of person is she? If she is a person who can talk continuously,

It's easy to wonder what's going on in her head. Humans always want others to see it.

When you look at yourself, both men and women will always arrange their appearance just right, but it is only their appearance.

It is not complete enough, so let others know more about themselves through dialogue. sound

Women who are changing rapidly will show their inner excitement and whisper to each other with their voices.

Intonation is also a type that can make people enjoy themselves, but it is like the neighing of sound.

Women, you should pay special attention, she may be jealous, on the contrary, women with low sound quality may

More masculine.

& lt Women who often listen to walkman are more self-centered & gt；;

Recently, you can often see some women wearing walkman on the bus. In fact, these women use headphones.

In fact, some women who are bound by hearing let themselves escape from music in order to avoid loneliness.

And immersed in the music world. But some women are willing to take off their headphones for men, but this

You must be very alert, because this is a self-centered person.

& lt Women are usually attracted by [first impressions].

It has been reported that women should be careful about their first impression of (-), and many people have died.

At this point! ! ) Men with beards have a higher opinion than men without beards. Appearance, posture, clothing.

Clothing is an important factor in determining the first impression, so if these first impressions are not brought into play,

This is not good. Usually, the first impression of appearance is deeply embedded in the other person's heart.

Therefore, the first impression is very important. If a man can make an attitude towards clothes at ordinary times.

If you pay attention, you will win in love.

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Pursuing five compulsory measures for girls

The first trick: know yourself and know yourself. Know yourself first: What is my personality? What are my interests?

What is my outlook on life? What about values? Then recognize the object: what personality is the object of pursuit? she

What are your interests? What is her outlook on life? What about values? Re-recognize the enemy: what is her pursuit?

Seeker. Which one stands out? What are his characteristics? Overall measurement, after several thoughts, find yourself.

We should carry forward his advantages, find out his weaknesses, be careful not to make mistakes, and know ourselves and know ourselves, so as to win every battle.

The second trick: nothing ventured, nothing gained, be brave and cautious, and go forward bravely: after recognizing the enemy and ourselves, you must

Don't worry, be bold, actively launch an offensive, love her, and take the first step bravely. Rose perfume, telephone card

A phone call every day, a rose, don't forget to send a small gift on your birthday, such as a faint fragrance.

Our perfume, a small card, is a hundred times warmer.

The third measure: father and son love brothers, friends and brothers. Girls can be said to be a combination of weakness and greatness. she

Sometimes I will be like a little girl and need to be cared for; Sometimes like a little mother, she is good at taking care of others. use

This trait, the boy constantly plays the kind father to care for her, and occasionally plays the little baby to let her play the mother.

Sexual glory; Sometimes you play the role of a mentor friend, and sometimes you play the role of a big brother. You must be on the way to love.

Smooth as a whistle.

The fourth measure: combine hard and soft, be kind and gentle, be obedient to girls from beginning to end, not necessarily good.

The cleverest way is to combine rigidity with softness. Sometimes gentle, sometimes a little overbearing; Sometimes spoil her,

Sometimes a small authoritative image is established, and the flexible use of the two will win every battle.

The fifth measure: the encirclement is sparse and not leaking. Although the object of your pursuit is her, please remember that you must.

Power is in her, influence is in her home! So be sure to go to her house often and follow her grandparents and dad.

Mom and dad, uncles and aunts, down to brothers and sisters, and even her domestic puppy pet, all show you all aspects.

Skillful skills, a customs clearance, as the saying goes, "eat the population soft, take the manpower short", must help in front of her.

Your kind words make her feel that she will regret losing you for life.

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The best and safest strategy to approach women with finger acupuncture is to "keep quiet".