In a relationship, why do girls care so much about WeChat and timely reply to information?

In fact, all relationships are copies of mother-child relationships. In this process, if you are very eager for the other party's timely reply, if the other party does not reply in time, it will cause you great panic, and panic will turn into anger. After you send a message to the other party, you expect the other party to reply in seconds. If you don't reply for a long time, there will be a kind of worry and loss in your heart, and it will even gradually turn into an anger. What did you miss?

That shows that in your relationship with your mother, childhood companionship and timely care, well, including the establishment of a sense of security, have become insufficient. Then when you grow up, you will enter intimate relationship, and you will put what is missing in the mother-child relationship into intimate relationship. Intimacy will make up for the trauma of your childhood, so many girls must be satisfied in time in intimate relationship, and there is no way to wait. At the same time, this kind of worry and fear is also unconscious.

One is that it will destroy your intimate relationship, because it will bring great pressure to each other, because you will always be angry. The second will also give narcissists a loophole. They will take advantage of your lack in this respect to control you mentally, or punish you and control you in a cold war way. Some people still long for intimacy. I think this is human nature, because people are the product of a relationship, and everyone is eager to be intimate, needed and valued in the relationship.

I'm telling you this. In fact, if you don't rely too much on others and let others be responsible for your emotions and happiness in your intimate relationship, then you won't bring too much pressure to this person. He will stay with you for a long time, and he will be more relaxed and happy if he is not tired for a long time. On the other hand, when he and you feel this way in this relationship, he will be more attracted to this relationship.