Girls should pay attention to their own safety in life and society.

Girls should pay attention to the following self-security issues in life and society:

I. Sexual harassment

Ways to protect yourself:

1. Stay alert and stay healthy.

In real life, some girls fully show their beauty, but at the same time, their clothes are too exposed, wearing dresses or miniskirts with bare breasts and backs; Some girls wear strange clothes and behave frivolously; Some girls like to listen to compliments, flattery and compliments, and it is easy to fall in love with handsome guys, rich people and celebrities at first sight. Or deliberately show off your youthful charm. Such a girl can easily arouse the sexual stimulation of men and eventually become the object of sexual harassment. If girls can respect themselves, they can effectively prevent themselves from becoming the object of sexual harassment and falling into the predicament of sexual harassment. ?

2. Make a clear attitude and tell each other.

When a girl is sexually harassed for the first time, she should clearly show her attitude to the other party. This attitude can be expressed by silence and outright refusal, or by a pre-announced request for the other party to behave. Some girls have been sexually harassed repeatedly, one of the reasons is that they are ambiguous and noncommittal about sexual harassment from the outside world, and some will touch their hair and face and say something between men and women. It is regarded as that teachers and elders like themselves, but they are proud of it, which objectively strengthens each other's sexual harassment psychology. What I want to tell girls here is that girls should not be too shy about sexual harassment, but should respond to harassers with great courage, strong tone and righteous spirit, to deter aggressors and prevent sexual harassment. ?

3. alienate the relationship and reduce contact.

When girls find that someone is up to no good and has sexual harassment, they should take the initiative to avoid it, try to alienate him and reduce contact and communication. You can also hint at your aversion to people who attempt sexual harassment, express your refusal clearly and firmly, and tell the other person that you are tired of his words and deeds. If he goes his own way, the consequences will be serious and it will be bad for him. Doing so can not only show your attitude, but also reduce and prevent unnecessary troubles. If it is really necessary to continue communication because of the relationship between teachers, students, relatives and friends, we should also try our best to increase the transparency and openness of communication in public. ?

4. aboveboard, not greedy for small profits.

Girls' own personal psychological and behavioral defects will lead them to become victims. Therefore, girls must respect themselves, always pay attention to their own image, and pay attention to eliminating psychological and behavioral defects. The most important thing is to eliminate the mentality of being greedy for petty gain, especially in ideological style, and not to seek personal gain by hue. For example, don't accept invitations from the opposite sex easily outside, and don't accept gifts from others casually. ?

5. Dare to ask for help and cut off contacts.

Harassed girls should report to their parents, teachers or organizations in time, rely on external education and mutual help, rely on the strength of relatives and friends to protect themselves and stop sexual harassment in time. At the same time, you can also ask other classmates and colleagues for help, so that everyone can take care of each other, supervise each other and protect themselves. Perhaps some parents are worried that their daughters will be sexually assaulted in the future under this specific environment and affiliation, and they can also take methods such as transfer and relocation to sever contact with each other and fundamentally prevent sexual assault. ?

6. outsmart yourself and protect yourself.

Girls should be alert to the harassment of adult men with bad conduct, and once they find anything unusual, they can report it to relevant departments and personnel in time. When you are away from home, especially in a strange environment, if you are accosted by a strange man, don't pay attention. Pay attention to those malicious stalkers and take evasive measures if necessary. For some people who are inevitably in contact, if they find sexual harassment attempts, they should take various measures to resist them. If sexual harassment reaches a certain level and the girl is helpless or unbearable, she should take the initiative to report the case to the public security organ and punish the illegal and criminal acts according to law.

Second, take the network to get a car.

For many people, traveling by car is convenient and fast. Security measures such as real-name registration and trip tracking have increased the safety factor for the network car. However, recent cases of harassment, sexual assault and killing of female passengers by online car drivers still occur from time to time.

(1) Try not to take a taxi alone to a remote place with few people, especially at night, be sure to choose the road instead of the path; At the same time, try to ask drivers to walk on roads with good lighting visibility and many pedestrians and vehicles.

(2) Take a taxi late at night, and be sure to find someone to accompany you. Try to take a regular taxi and get off to ask for an invoice. Taxis are equipped with global positioning system.

(3) Call your family or friends before getting on the bus, take screenshots and forward the information content of the network car, and clarify the information such as the model of the network car, the license plate number of the network car, and the location of getting on and off. At the same time, you can keep in touch with your family at any time in the car, and don't turn off your phone.

(4) It is best not to have an argument with the driver after getting on the bus to avoid accidents. When you are angry about trifles in the car, take a step back. You can complain through various channels after getting off the bus.

(5) Try to get on the bus behind the driver in the back row and try not to take the co-pilot position; Start to check the use of car locks and windows, be familiar with how to open the car door, and lower one-third of the window when the weather permits, so as to call for help.

(6) Always pay attention to the driving route, and don't always play with your mobile phone or sleep. Observe the outside situation more, and raise it to the driver in time when it is found that it is inconsistent with your destination, so as to prevent accidents.

(7) Don't carpool with strangers, lest you meet criminals or drivers who set up a game in partnership with criminals.

(8) In self-defense, the articles in the car can be used as weapons, such as seat headrest and portable key. The headrest on the co-pilot side should be removed first; Self-defense with a key is to wrap the key with a fist, then expose the sharp corner of the key in the gap of the fist and attack soft targets, such as eyes and throat.

It is a common phenomenon for girls to go out with bags. It is recommended to put artifacts such as anti-wolf spray and pepper water in the bag in case of emergency.

(9) If something is wrong, you should immediately call the police or ask for help.

Third, travel at night.

1, female body Whether you are a student or a white-collar worker, whether you go out late at night for work or pleasure, it is recommended that you do not go out alone after 1 1. Now the society is complex and people's hearts are sinister. If you don't make a dike, you will be easily injured.

If it is inevitable to walk at night, you'd better take something for self-defense, such as electric batons, just in case. At the same time, don't cut corners, hurry, take a remote path, it's dangerous at night.

3. How do women get rid of bad people?

If a woman travels at night and finds someone behind her, but when you notice him, he drives more unnatural; He leaves when you leave, and stops when you stop. At this time, he is probably being followed by the bad guys. Faced with this situation, what can be done to get rid of the bad guys?

(1) When there are few pedestrians, don't panic, be calm, quickly observe the environment, see the road clearly, and run to the main road, pedestrians or residents' homes. If someone really follows and can't get rid of it, you can pat the car parked on the side of the road while walking and trigger the alarm on the car to attract attention. In case of emergency, dial "1 10" with your mobile phone.

(2) When there are other pedestrians, you can look at each other positively and ask, "What are you doing?" If the other person doesn't go away, you can shout loudly to attract pedestrians. If the bad guys don't run, you have to run at once.

(3) If the bad guy asks you for a wallet or wallet, don't give it to him, but throw it away. Bad guys are probably more interested in property than you are. He will get his wallet or wallet, and this is your chance to escape. Run hard in the opposite direction.

(4) If you are entangled in the bad guys, immediately shout, resist, hit the key parts or scratch your face, and try to break free and run away quickly.

Fourth, party entertainment.

Holidays often have classmates' parties, company parties, or friends' invitations. As a single woman, it is best not to drink at parties. Drunkenness not only harms the body, but also reduces women's awareness of self-safety and poses a safety hazard to themselves.

What's wrong with party entertainment?

(1) drugs. It is not credible to say that the newly synthesized drugs have the functions of "losing weight" and "relieving pain" or are not addictive. Drug abuse can make people thin or tall, but this "shaping" and "pleasure" is at the expense of destroying human immunity and nervous system, and the harm or overdraft of drugs to human body is irreversible. Dependence is the basic feature of drugs, and drug abuse is addictive.

(2) Other synthetic drugs "milk tea". Powdered drugs are often covered with milk tea, coffee and tea bags. , is instant drink. After brewing, it gives off the fragrance of milk tea, but it is extremely addictive and toxic when mixed with ice and K powder.

3 Arabic tea. "Arabic tea" is very similar to amaranth when it is fresh, but unlike amaranth, its stems are all red and its leaves are slightly longer than amaranth. "Arabic tea" looks like tea leaves after drying, which is easy to be confused, but it tastes bitter.

(4) Pop rock. Drugs packaged in the form of candy have a strong stamina, and the brain will be excited within two days after ingestion.

(5) No.0 capsule. After using this capsule, it will cause harm to human function, leading to ADHD, auditory hallucination and hallucination.

(6) red ice. "Red Ice" uses new technology to purify ice, and its power is at least two or three times that of ordinary ice. Once drug addicts are infected, they are deeply addicted to drugs, and the dosage is increasing, so it is difficult to give up drug addiction. Drug addicts say that people infected with "red ice" will not live long!

(7) bath salt. It is reported that after taking this medicine called "bath salt", people will completely fall into hallucination, lose their minds, imagine themselves as superman and attack others. "Bath salt" is a powerful medicine at present.

(8) Pistachio nuts. "Pistachio" is not a snack, but a synthetic drug that is more powerful than ecstasy, and its toxicity and harm are even worse than "ecstasy".

(9) "yellow skin". "Huangpi" is primary heroin, a derivative of heroin, which is no different from heroin in chemical composition. People who smoke yellow skin ("material") have certain regional characteristics.

Note: These synthetic drugs are very confusing, and their efficacy lasts for a long time, which is very attractive to drug addicts. Therefore, when attending parties and entertainment, especially in nightclubs and other places, we must pay attention to the above matters.

Five, driving alone

(1) Check the vehicle-mounted documents before going out.

Before going out for a long trip, carefully check the vehicle to ensure that it is in good condition, and carry the driving license, driver's license and spare key. Spare keys should be carried with you and don't leave your body; Copies of important documents such as ID cards are required. These documents are necessary if you need to report a case in a different place.

(2) When a stranger asks questions, the window only rolls down 1/4.

When encountering traffic jams, drivers' intersections and other red lights, one person knocks on the window and points to the rear of the car or tires to attract female drivers to get off, and then another person takes the opportunity to open the car door and steal the money from the seat.

Don't open all the windows when a woman is driving or parking alone on a slow road. If it is necessary to ventilate the car, just roll down the window by a quarter. This can prevent thieves and sudden violence. Although the window may be broken by violence, it is important that this kind of breaking also gives us enough time to go from surprise to reflection.

In addition, never open the door to strangers while parking or driving. Similarly, if a stranger is talking to you outside the car, try not to open the window too wide and leave a gap to ensure that you can hear the other person clearly.

(3) Observe the environment before getting on and off.

Most criminals will rob female car owners alone at night or in secluded places, ranging from robbing money to killing people, especially female car owners who park their cars in remote sections or unattended parking lots. When getting on and off the bus, they must pay attention to their surroundings. If you find suspicious people, you must be prepared to call the police or escape at any time to prevent accidents.

(4) Lock all the doors after getting on the bus.

Some women don't have the habit of locking the car door when driving, which has great security risks. First, in the event of an accident, it is more prone to danger; Secondly, it is easy for criminals to open the car door and commit robbery.

Therefore, female friends must develop the good habit of locking the door when they get on the bus. Whether parked on the side of the road or driving, as long as someone gets on the bus, the first thing to do is to leave the central locking. In this way, even in an emergency, it is difficult for gangsters to pose a threat to the occupants in the car.

(5) Choose a safe driving route when driving.

If female friends drive for a long time, try to take the expressway. If there is no highway, she should choose to drive on the national highway or provincial highway. Some secluded roads, if sparsely populated and unfamiliar, are best not to choose.

If you must pass, you'd better keep a certain vigilance, close the windows, lock the central control inside the car, and don't stop at will. When driving alone at night, you'd better close the window.

Because the window is attached to the solar film, and the night is dim, it is difficult for gangsters to understand the situation inside the car and dare not rashly start. When refueling, you should choose the gas stations of Sinopec and PetroChina, and try to avoid refueling at roadside gas stations on rural roads.

(6) Try to stop in a bright place.

It is best to choose a regular or supervised parking lot when parking in a strange town, and choose a place with good sight or bright light. Before stopping, be sure to observe the surrounding situation. If there are many idle people, don't put out the fire and stop, let alone get off. Drive away if necessary.

If you need to stop temporarily, leave one person in the car and lock the door. In the common underground garage parking lot, it is also necessary to pay attention to safety and try to park in a place with monitoring and lighting. If the parking space is remote, it is best to observe the surrounding situation first, and then get off the bus not late.

After getting off the bus, leave the vehicle as soon as possible, and don't stay here for too long. When returning to the vehicle, try to observe the situation around the vehicle (including whether there are people hiding around the vehicle, whether there are people following, and whether there are people hiding in the back seat), and then get on the vehicle quickly and lock it.

(7) Call the police in case of fraud.

Nowadays, all kinds of fraud activities against car owners are endless. Fraud gangs like to find women who drive alone, such as suddenly falling down in front of the car and touching porcelain and asking for directions to steal. In this case, female friends should not panic, do not easily open doors and windows, take the initiative to call the police and find the police to solve the problem.

(8) valuables should be put away.

Some women are used to putting their bags, laptops or other important items in the passenger seat and their mobile phones on the center console. This is convenient, but it also makes them prey for criminals. So these valuables should be put in a hidden place, taken away when parking, and not put in the car or trunk.

(9) Standing self-defense articles.

At the same time of prevention, we can also prepare some measures in advance. For example, female car owners can buy spray-type self-defense pepper water. If attacked by a mobster, it can be sprayed on mobster's eyes in time, leaving enough time for escape or alarm, and at the same time reducing your own injury.

(10) Other details preparing for the critical moment may also be very helpful. For example, write a short message for help, or use GPS to let the police know where you are.

Six, take the elevator safety

(1) When taking an elevator alone with a strange man, the most cautious thing to do is for a woman to go out and take the next elevator.

(2) If you choose to take the elevator alone with strangers, you should stand by and watch the button. First, you can always see the appearance of people coming in from the outside; Second, it is easy to escape from the door or control the elevator button in time in an emergency.

(3) When a strange man comes in, keep a distance from him, stand facing him, don't lower your head to play with your mobile phone, and pay attention to his movements.

(4) You can consciously cover your chest with a bag, book or coat.

(5) If you observe some abnormal behaviors of the opposite man, you may wish to hold the key you carry with you in your hand first and put the sharpest part of the key between your fingers, which can be used as an effective defensive weapon in times of crisis and protect yourself when necessary.

(6) When an accident happens, tap all the buttons quickly from top to bottom with your palm, so that the elevator will stop at each floor and you can have more opportunities for help.

(7) If there is a tear or scuffle with the gangster, try to make the gangster's face face face the camera placed in the elevator, so as to provide favorable clues for catching the gangster as soon as possible in the future.

(8) Of course, women should not only guard against strangers when taking the elevator, but also pay attention to the elevator safety itself, especially the recent elevator "cannibalism" incident. So, what should I pay attention to before taking the elevator? How to save yourself if you have problems? Details >>

Seven, alone at home

Most people think that the safest and most comfortable place is their home, but they don't know that the most dangerous place is this safest place. In life, we often encounter similar situations. Parents go to work, leaving the girl alone at home; Or there are only old people or children left at home. This provides a good opportunity for criminal suspects to commit burglary.

Women, the elderly and children should be taught how to deal with strangers when they are alone at home. Let them have certain safety awareness and accident prevention measures when they are alone at home.

(1) When a woman is alone at home; Don't let people know that you are alone at home or alone. When a woman comes home, she should turn on the lights in every room to let outsiders think that you don't live alone. Don't answer any suspicious calls when asking for directions; If an outsider knocks at the door and asks to borrow it, he should immediately refuse to call. Don't receive unfamiliar friends of the opposite sex at home alone. Never give the key to a friend of the opposite sex. Do a good job in neighborhood relations at ordinary times and help each other.

(2) If someone rings the doorbell, tell them it's your friend, relative or colleague. When you can't determine the identity of the visitor by listening to the voice, first use the apartment walkie-talkie and electric eye to filter the visitor. After the visitor arrives at the door, use the visiting hole on the door to confirm before opening the door. I'd rather have a little trouble. Safety is the most important thing.

(3) After going to the corridor, turn around before entering the door to prevent strangers from following. Note: Be careful when you meet strangers between upstairs and downstairs, at the entrance of stairs or at the entrance of residential compound. Be vigilant when you find strangers, especially when you enter the house. If a stranger enters the corridor with you, you can directly ask him who he is looking for to prevent the other person from suddenly attacking.

(4) When a woman is alone at home, if there is a delivery man and you don't know him, you have to leave to get the money. You can tell him: I'm sorry, I'm afraid the puppy will run out. I'll close the door and put the puppy in its nest first.

(5) When women are alone at home, they should be more alert and less unlucky. Always remember: "The passbook must be far away from the certificate" and "The password should not be the same as the number and birthday on the certificate". Don't take home those who don't know the details. Remember your home address, specific work unit, telephone number, etc. Don't tell strangers casually.

(6) When women are alone at home, they must first check whether the security doors and windows are closed, so as to prevent robbers from forcibly entering the house from the security doors and windows. Don't be lucky that you don't have to close the security door and windows since someone is at home. This concept is very wrong. By doing so, you are providing good conditions for the bad guys to enter your house easily.

(7) When a woman is alone at home, if someone knocks at the door with the security door closed, the first thing to see is that the person seems to have come in from the visiting hole of the security door. Sometimes she may not see clearly, so she can ask who the caller is and what she is doing through the door chain lock. One: Ask to see his papers. The general certificate will have the name, name and photo of the organization he represents. It is completely justified to ask for an appraisal, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Two: Call the other party's unit or home to confirm the identity of the caller. Note that it is very dangerous to open the door without knowing clearly.

(8) When a woman is alone at home, if the person who comes claims to check the electricity meter, water meter, gas meter, property and house maintenance, electrical appliance maintenance and loan, or check and repair household appliances, tell the other party that "an appointment must be made by phone" because I can't let you in without an appointment. When making an appointment, you must make an appointment for a family member to be at home.

(9) If the other person claims to be a gift and you don't know him, for the sake of politeness, you can ask him to come back another day when the main family members are at home. Or let the other person leave the gift outside the door and wait until you really leave and people come and go in the corridor. You must make sure that there are acquaintances in the corridor; Prevent the bad guys from being suddenly attacked without really leaving.

(10) When a person is at home, if there are strange visitors, representatives of charitable organizations; Polls, advertisements, newspapers and periodicals, or gas tables. Tell the other party that it is not convenient for you to open the door; Don't open the door at will and let it in. If you treat the goods to be promoted, simply answer that you don't need this kind of goods; For those who make a questionnaire survey, explain that they are not interested in this survey and let the other person leave.

(1 1) Don't open the door when monks and nuns come to the door. Some bad guys pretend to be monks and nuns to dispel people's preventive psychology; It is said that social support and sponsorship are needed in order to build temples and nuns; In fact, their purpose is; Cheat money first with a two-pronged approach; Then grab it. You can tell him clearly: "I have no money." Note: You really need to raise money. There will be social charities, units and neighborhood committees to organize. Don't give the donated money to individuals.

(12) Remember: "When you meet a stranger, ask before opening the door". If someone claims to be a classmate, colleague or friend of your family, tell him "I don't know you, call him" and turn him away. Bad guys will soon be exposed; Because he doesn't have your family number. Call home to confirm the identity of the visitor and prove that the other party is indeed an acquaintance at home; Or people brought home by their families; Get the door.

(13) Women should strengthen their self-protection ability when they are alone at home; It is necessary to form the habit of closing the door behind you, so that criminals will not have an opportunity. Calmly handle special situations; Don't care too much about money, calmly deal with suspicious situations; Ensure personal safety. If there is a suspicious object, don't call blindly to avoid being killed if you can't guarantee that your call can be assisted by your neighbors.

(14) When a person is at home, be sure to put the emergency phone number at hand "on the receiver, beside the phone and on the wall". When are people around? Tell your family not to turn off their cell phones. Don't forget the phone numbers of grocery stores and fruit stalls in the alley, and you can make an emergency when you don't order. Of course, 1 10 is the first emergency number.

Extended data:

What should I do if I am in danger by car?

The humanized function of the network car is more and more complete, and now there is a hidden emergency rescue function. In case of emergency, as long as the passenger presses the "Emergency Help" button, the system will send a short message to the emergency contact person set by the user in advance. The platform will also start recording at the first time and transmit the data to the travel safety platform.

If the criminals really want to take measures, on the one hand, they can consider threatening to say "call the police, settle accounts, and recognize you", but it depends on the situation, and don't provoke the other party too much. In addition, when asking for help, you should know how to defend yourself and attack the weak parts of your body continuously by surprise (eyes and crotch are the weakest parts of your body), which may win you the chance to escape.

If danger really comes, you must remember that your life is the most important thing. Be sure to keep your life safe and then call the police for help.