How to face parents' forced marriage?

1, first of all, keep your mind straight. I really realize that I am still young and there is no need to get married early. I said this a few years ago, and ordinary parents will understand that youth is career-oriented.

2. Give parents a reassurance. Tell your parents your requirements for finding a partner and your plans for getting married in the future. It's best to tell your parents the exact age before you get married, so that your parents won't be too anxious about your marriage.

If you really don't plan to get married in the near future, you can tell your parents that you have a warm-hearted person and show that you don't want to get married rashly. I believe that every parent wants their children to be happy and will not let them get married hastily.

4. Respond positively and have a good attitude. You should know that parents are also concerned, and their hearts are good. Maybe we don't necessarily like the way of communication, but it is what we should do to understand them and deal with them with a positive and good attitude, and we can also avoid unnecessary escalation. On the contrary, if they refuse to communicate or even respond with negative and irritable emotions, they will be more worried and bring more trouble.

5. Communicate your feelings with your parents. Blindly urging marriage mostly stems from the ignorance and control of the current situation of things. Letting them know your thoughts can not only relieve unnecessary anxiety, but also strengthen communication with parents, and they can also give us some good suggestions. More importantly, this way of doing things will make parents feel that you are grown up, sensible and can handle your own affairs independently.

6. For the blind date arranged by parents, you can go to see it first. If there is a suitable one, everyone is satisfied. Even if there is no suitable one, make more friends, as long as it doesn't affect your normal life.

7. Of course, many parents may be too "unreasonable". If conflict is unavoidable, moving out is a good choice. Even if they urge you to find someone to marry, you won't hear similar complaints every day.

8. Use busy work as an excuse to shirk. In the face of parents urging marriage, they have an excuse to use their own work as an excuse to show that they are new employees and need to make more efforts to develop as soon as possible. Because of busy work, they have no leisure time to fall in love and make friends. Presumably this is also a reason why parents can accept it for the time being. All the above methods are expedient measures. The real problem is how to get married without a house and money. At least save some money for the down payment. Therefore, if you are not married, you can consider solving the problem of the house first, and it is understandable to consider your married parents after solving it. After all, you can't afford the down payment. Of course, even if you have no house or money, the woman is willing to work with you. You should also take responsibility, make progress in your work, find a better position as soon as possible, settle down for her, and let her parents respect you.