My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship. What should I do if I have nothing to talk about recently?

Nowadays, many couples are in a state of long-distance love. But have you ever found that people in long-distance relationships will gradually have no topic, don't know what to talk about with each other, and have no common circle with each other? And there is no intersection in life. Then some people will ask, what should I do in such a situation?

2. High-quality chat, providing emotional value

Simple ways to provide emotional value for each other in chat are: praise each other more, and provide emotional value in a slightly advanced way is push-pull method. In order to better control the chat atmosphere, the principle is to use "active communication" instead of "uncertain communication" and convey important information.

Try not to deny each other in conversation. If you don't agree with the other person's point of view, you should also affirm the other person before putting forward your own point of view. Flirting is for sexual arousal. Another person said, "I have an ulcer in my mouth." "Are you angry because I haven't kissed you for a long time?" "You are a bad person." This is flirting and pushing and pulling.

2. Increase the intersection and cultivate common interests

If you are relatively not too busy, you can play mobile games together. Keep pets, cats, dogs, rabbits, fish and turtles together. Set a common goal and supervise each other. Progress together, the best love is not looking at each other, but looking at the same direction. Make a long-term plan, such as reading 52 books a year, writing a review after reading the same book, and then exchanging views, exchanging ideas and talking about books and authors, so as to achieve more positive energy, self-improvement and falling in love.

3. Make some changes to make life more interesting.

If you have been in contact with each other through WeChat, in addition to chatting in words, you can also make each other's photos into words. Share your life with each other at any time and take some photos and send them to each other. Record some songs, some small videos and so on for her with the full name K song. Send a love letter to each other, communicate with live broadcast software and so on.

In fact, in real life, why do so many couples break up in long-distance love? It is because two people gradually have no topic that they are drifting away. So in life, we should keep each other fresh and give each other more possibilities.