Why do people's feelings fade in the age of information development?

With the more and more extensive use of mobile phones, the disadvantages of mobile phones are exposed to us more and more. Th

Why do people's feelings fade in the age of information development?

With the more and more extensive use of mobile phones, the disadvantages of mobile phones are exposed to us more and more. The most important thing is that mobile phones have become more and more alienated from us.

First of all, what is the definition of distance? Distance refers to the length of separation, including time separation, space separation, interpersonal separation and ideological and emotional separation. The distance between time and space cannot be changed by a mobile phone, otherwise it is not a mobile phone, but a time machine! So what we are going to discuss today is the influence of mobile phones on interpersonal relationships and thoughts and feelings. The positive debate just now was eloquent, just to show you the speed and convenience of mobile phone in information exchange, just to prove to you that mobile phone is the embodiment of high efficiency. However, as we all know, the so-called closeness and alienation mainly refers to the closeness of interpersonal relationships and thoughts and feelings, rather than an efficiency issue. Efficiency means nothing to feelings. If an efficient "I love you" can explain everything, why do lovers still need Qian Qian's sweet words? ! You know, it is these inefficient and repetitive love words that sublimate feelings!

Secondly, the communication mode of mobile phone is single, while our human feelings are rich, complex and three-dimensional. Obviously, mobile phone, a single communication method, is far from meeting the communication needs of human beings. For example, when you are physically and mentally exhausted, a simple hug or just quiet company from friends and relatives can also relieve your stress. But mobile phones can't meet this requirement. On the contrary, a phone call and a text message may make people more disappointed and lonely at that moment! For example, lovers often sing a song: "As long as your eyes are positive, my love is meaningful ..." I would like to ask the other debater, in this case, how can I make my love meaningful just by sending out a series of lifeless and calorie-free radio signals with my mobile phone? !

Third, Marx put it well: the criticism of weapons cannot replace the weapon of criticism. Mobile phone is just a tool invented by human beings, which really facilitates long-distance communication, but we can't rely on it because of this, thinking that with it, we can get a panacea that makes people close! You know, judging from the influence of mobile phones on people in recent years, it has not only narrowed the distance between people, but alienated us. Now, the emergence of more and more mobile phone dependent patients and thumb families just proves this point. For example, Mr. Sun of Xi used to meet his good friends every few days. He has seldom seen each other since he got a mobile phone. If anything happens, he will go and make a phone call. Over time, he only meets his friends a few times a year, and even alienates them. Mr. Sun doesn't understand. Does the mobile phone bring people closer or alienate them? Moreover, SMS is too modular. One SMS can be forwarded to many people, but can emotions be copied and forwarded like SMS? !

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To sum up, I reiterate our view that mobile phones will alienate us.