About love and marriage, we are all primary school classmates. We are all introverted and slow to heat. Although they are primary school classmates, there are already more than a dozen.

1. Is she interested or fond of you? I think judging from her cold attitude, she is not very interested in you, but she is not exclusive. Maybe she doesn't have a special affection for you, and when she communicates with you, she feels dull and can't find the same topic, but she may still be confused and can't see your future clearly, so she keeps in touch, but she is not active and enthusiastic.

You told him a lot without reservation. I want to know what you said. If your past experience can get her approval, then there is no problem. If what you say is inappropriate, it may make her have a bad impression on you.

There is nothing wrong with your idea of waiting for a stable job for two years before getting married. Look at the girl you said is very frugal, and it is estimated that she is not a greedy girl. However, your thoughts belong to your thoughts, and your own conditions are not so good. It's just that planning is too pragmatic, which will make girls lose hope and future. It doesn't matter if you have no money. The important thing is that you have a fiery heart and the courage to create the future for her and give her happiness. If you can't even give it to her, even if you have no money and can't even give her hope and future, how can she love you?

Her reply to you is tasteless, except what you are doing or telling you that you are eating. You hardly have the same topic. Are you too serious and lack the ability of humor to create happiness for people? For example, when you send text messages to girls, you are always methodical. What are you doing? Then if you are so serious, I can only reply seriously. I'm eating. On the contrary, if you add a nickname "dear" or "baby" to the message, tell her that I miss you very much. Baby, what are you doing? Express your love and affection for her. Girls will naturally feel happy when they know that you like her and love her very much. But since you don't confess, just ask if you have eaten, I can only answer yes. Do you still want me to answer that I like you and I miss you?

Apart from meeting him two or three times, it seems that there is only one phone call and there are few topics. That means you can't find a place to sing with her. What is * * * means that you have the same hobbies, beliefs and interests. Do you know what kind of men girls like? If you have a successful career and are rich, many girls will throw themselves at you, but that love may love money, but it may not necessarily yield true love. But if you can still reap true love without money, you must have some personality charm. What is charisma is kindness. It seems that I have only heard that men like women's goodness, but women also like men's goodness. Because a good man will protect women and not hurt them. So I want to know if you have these personality charms in your human nature. For example, a boy who is ugly and has no money, but is kind and sunny, generous and enthusiastic, ready to help others and release small animals. His positive energy infects everyone, but such a small move will make people feel the positive energy in him. Many girls like him very much. And tolerance. For example, when you are dealing with others, you should be less concerned and more tolerant. For example, there are some small moves. A boy went to the market to buy food. He saw an old lady selling some side dishes, and the dishes were all stale. But the boy bought them all at once. His girlfriend said you were stupid. You didn't buy fresh food, but you bought such a big stall. The boy said, this order is worthless, but I can't bear to let the old lady who is guarding this stall sell this little dish. I can't bear to buy it all, so I can collect it and go home early. My girlfriend was greatly moved. Although she is a beautiful woman and the boy has no money to buy at home, she decided to marry him because she likes this man's kindness, integrity and fraternity. In addition, speaking the same language requires a person's inner knowledge and insight, that is, his understanding of human nature. A man doesn't need Gao Fushuai, but a girl will like a smart, educated, mature and steady man. These personality charms can never be disguised. So this requires self-cultivation. Read more books in peacetime. Only by reading more books can you improve your spirituality and make you different. Only when you stand taller than your girlfriend and have a high level of life can you lead her. For example, a boy once liked a girl very much, but he was afraid to confess. But once a boy accidentally read Lu Yao's book while reading, and a girl asked you if you liked Lu Yao's book, too. It turns out that the girl also read Lu Yao's book "Ordinary World" and was moved by the master palace in the story. They believe that people who like reading such books must be kind-hearted, they have the same hobbies and interests, and their hearts can produce * * * songs. Therefore, you should read more books at ordinary times to improve your life accomplishment and realm. If the heart is empty, how can there be the same topic? Even if a girl is educated, she can't have the same topic with someone who doesn't sing with her.

If you want to get to know each other better, don't wait for the other person to take the initiative. The other party is a girl, and girls should be reserved. Men should take the initiative, not back down. Have the courage to make a bold confession. Girls are actually very easy to coax. In fact, for most girls, what they care about is not how handsome and rich you are, but how much you love her. If you can't express your love and affection for her, how can you expect her to have affection for you? For example, she needs some details. For example, invite your girlfriend to take a walk in the park, buy her some gifts, and don't be too stingy with your money. If you are petty when you are in love, your girlfriend will not like you if she thinks you are stingy. Of course, these premises are based on the fact that your girlfriend won't give up on you first. As long as she keeps refusing to contact you, you have a chance. Don't be afraid of setbacks. If she refuses, you can show her your love and firmness. Men should also have a spirit of giving up, and pay their sincerity, enthusiasm and courage to the woman they like, just like pursuing career success. If Nuo Nuo is the only one who can't stand such setbacks, how can his career have a future and hope? Of course, men should be able to afford it. Although they can pursue and pay sincerity and enthusiasm for love, they will not be trapped by love and can't stand a little blow. Love should also have dignity. If the other person doesn't like your type at all, you should put it down smartly and sincerely bless each other. In short, you need to have positive energy. With positive energy, we have the ability to give love and give happiness to each other.

As a man, you should use your inner charm to attract the girl you love. Your inner temperament, knowledge and wisdom determine how you will attract the girl who matches you. If you don't have that inner personality charm, you won't like you no matter how much you chase each other. Your internal cause, your behavior is Tao, it is just to help you. Never put the plow before the oxen. Therefore, there is no need to take pains to chase girls. Emotion is the tacit understanding and attraction of the soul, not maintained by external forms. How do you chase a girl just to show her your love? Whether she can accept falling in love with you depends on your inner self. So don't pursue how to catch up with girls too much. You should understand that when a man has mature, steady, kind, tolerant and intelligent knowledge, girls will like him from the heart, and feelings will naturally arise.

Everything on the table is natural, there is no need to force it. I feel that you are young. It can be said that boys who were too young and naive at that time thought it was true love and pursued girls, but once they got married, they would meet girls they liked better in the future, and they would often be disappointed with their marriage, thus cheating and divorcing, which was harmful to people and themselves. It is generally believed that men's feelings mature later. Only men in their thirties really understand what they want, so when they are young, their feelings will just go with the flow, and if they really hit it off, they will cherish it. If you don't meet someone who is very congenial, or the other person doesn't like you very much, don't avoid being strong. Pay attention to the pursuit of career and the promotion of self-personality charm. When you have more knowledge and material conditions, you may despise your current girlfriend at that time, so it is better not to hurt her. And you will suffer for it yourself. Unless you are sure, no matter how much money you have, you like her very much and will never regret your decision to chase her again.

Chasing a girl is not as difficult as you think. For example, after you go on a business trip, send her a text message every day to wake up the baby, and send a text message at night to tell her that dear, good night, I miss you. Although the language is simple, it can bring us closer. If you send it every day, you will feel close to your heart. Slowly let girls feel that it is a habit. Give her a call once in a while, tell her what you have seen and heard, and express your concern for her. Don't forget to give her a surprise gift when you go home. Taking him to the park to see a movie can bring us closer. Finally, I sincerely wish you happiness. I also hope you can be careful. I don't like it now After seven or eight years or ten years, you will fall in love with a younger girl again. You think she's not good enough for you, and then move on. In that case, you might as well consider the advice I give you now, and then fall in love after 30. Besides, after thirty, you are more mature and steady. You can also find a girl ten years younger than you. You also have more financial resources to protect women. At the same time, you can be sure that the woman you loved at the age of 30 will make you love and like more than the girl you like now. Remember, you must be responsible for yourself and others. Please don't hurt her if you are uncertain all your life. Don't say you don't love her then. I have advised you now. If you say you don't love at that time, it's selfish. When I have no money and no career, I will be buried with a girl's youth. When she is old and wilted, you will say that you don't love her and dislike her. That's bad for her!