What do you mean, you keep sending messages to girls and she won't return them?

In love, the farthest distance is that I am here with my mobile phone, anxiously waiting for your reply. And you are over there, playing with others. In a long relationship, what two people pay is more or less affection. Men, in particular, often pay a lot unilaterally. Therefore, when a boy has fallen in love with a girl, the girl just has a good impression on the boy. When two people's feelings for love are out of sync, men will have some misunderstandings. For example, he will think that girls never send him messages because they don't like him. Why don't girls take the initiative?

In fact, many girls are slow to heat. Even if she has a good impression on you, she will not show an active attitude, and will gradually adapt to each other's way of getting along, so that the feelings between you will slowly heat up. In this case, even if the girl doesn't take the initiative, she is willing to reply to your message, which is also a good result. Moreover, we all have a point: "In love, girls are too active and boys will not cherish you." "This view is correct in a sense. During my years of emotional counseling in Dabai, I met many active girls. At the beginning, the two were still relatively loving. But not long after, the man became fearless, and began to dislike girls, thinking that girls were all kinds of bad, and wanted to break up with her.

Of course, Dabai is not here to belittle men's love for the new and dislike the old. In fact, women are the same. In love, too active behavior will only make you mean. But it is precisely because of this concept that many girls will choose to be reserved and will not choose to take the initiative and wait for boys. However, when a woman can still choose to be reserved, it shows that she is not devoted enough to this relationship and does not love you so much. If she really likes you, she must be afraid of losing you, so she won't be reserved for too long and will respond to you actively soon. How to judge whether a woman is not active or doesn't like you? Many people care about the speed of girls' reply, but speed is not the standard to test whether girls like you or not. After all, the focus of our life is on study and work, and few people can always hold their mobile phones, chat with you and reply to your messages. So it is normal for girls to reply slowly. But this "slowness" also has a time limit, usually a few hours. If a girl doesn't return your message for a day or two, it only means that she doesn't like you. Even if the girl replies quickly, it's all perfunctory like "uh-huh, oh-oh", so she doesn't like you either. She just replies to you out of courtesy and wants to end your chat as soon as possible. The woman you like will reply to your message seriously and actively lead to another topic, because she wants to chat with you for a while. In another case, when a girl sees your news, she doesn't know how to reply, so she will put it down temporarily, and when she is busy with other things, she may forget to reply to you.

Of course, girls who like you will often open your chat box to see if you have sent her a message. When she replies to your message very late, she will usually explain the reason to you, instead of waiting for your next chat to find out that she forgot to reply to your message before. How do boys face the situation that girls don't reply to information? If you have a good chat with girls at ordinary times, don't think too much when girls don't reply to messages, let alone repeatedly send messages or even call girls. This kind of eager behavior will only arouse the girl's disgust, especially when she is busy dealing with some important things. You need to think. You didn't do anything to make her angry For example, you had a fight before, and the girl didn't reply to the message. Maybe she was angry with you. At this time, you need to have the cheek to ask her questions and ask her forgiveness, instead of choosing cold treatment to calm girls down. This kind of behavior will only reduce your goodwill in the hearts of girls. A man with high emotional intelligence needs to know the reasons why girls don't return information and treat this situation calmly. He will grasp the initiative, learn to slow down, become "reserved" and let girls take the initiative.

Because boys pay too much blindly, all they get is the disrespect and disgust of girls. Of course, if there is no dispute between you, you don't make the girl angry, but she often doesn't reply to your messages, or replies to sentences like "Uh-huh, oh-oh", which only shows that she doesn't like it. I hope you will back down. In this case, no matter how a man responds emotionally, it is difficult to win the love of a girl, so you can turn around and leave and keep your dignity. Women can not take the initiative, but they need to respond positively to men. If you really don't like her and think it's impossible to have sex with him, turn him down cruelly and don't let him have any illusions.