How to dispel the negative emotions brought by parents who are urging marriage?

Marriage is urged on holidays, and now the contradiction of the concept of marriage and love has become the main contradiction of the family. Many young people are upset when they are urged to get married by their parents. Parents who are worried about their children's lifelong events also have their own concerns, and both sides are deeply involved. If not handled properly, it will easily lead to serious contradictions within the family, which is not conducive to family harmony.

If the pressure of urging marriage is not handled properly or relieved, it will affect the high-level feelings and family values among members. In addition to being unfavorable to the process of taking off the bill, it is also easy to cause contradictions between some big families and others.

In the face of children who are getting farther and farther away from their own life circles, parents know little about their children's lives if they lack the necessary communication. In addition, parents are older. Their physical and psychological conditions further aggravate their anxiety about their children. Parents want their children to get married, and some people accompany Xu's son to get married, which is essentially the parents' insecurity. If you want to alleviate the vitality of parents' urging marriage, instead of being passively urged to get married and not trying, take the initiative to share your life with your parents, spend more time with your parents, chat more and share your work plan. Life is small. If you have a plan for marriage and love, but haven't found a suitable candidate, you can take the initiative to share it with your parents. In this way, parents' worries will be greatly reduced. I only know that you are single at present, but you are not rejecting marriage and love, you are looking for fate. In short, take the initiative to attack, take the initiative to share, and eliminate parents' insecurity. Give your parents a chance to get to know you.

The reason why releasing one's negative emotions and being urged to get married will become a hot social topic among young people is not only the parents' pressing, but also the negative emotions that children can't solve in time.

Third, we should maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, not only urging marriage, but also facing various pressures in life. Expressing your feelings to your parents often not only tells them that life is good at the moment, but also helps to alleviate this anxiety about not getting married. At the same time, you not only show a positive and optimistic mood and attitude towards life, but they will also be unconsciously influenced by this positive and optimistic attitude.