Why do many people hate sending short messages in groups now?

Why don't I like sending text messages in groups? I believe many people will feel the same way and can also cause * * *. Sometimes it is unnecessary for a person to hate something. That kind of hatred comes from the deep heart, and the rational brain can't analyze the reason. It may also be just a performance art that shows personality. Like it or not, just for entertainment, not serious about things or people themselves. I often get lost in all kinds of annoying reasons, list them like a paranoid, and convince myself that annoying is rational enough, not whimsical, not an overwhelming prelude. Then try to make it clear why it is annoying!

First, sending messages in groups seems insincere.

The Spring Festival is a good time for family and friends to get together. Usually, they are disjointed, intimate and distant, familiar and unfamiliar. Some years, this rope is twisted together, and they can't help getting close to each other. They made an appointment to greet each other and catch up. The atmosphere is a vast world and an idle time. Everyone has no pressure and chats naturally. But for those who can't meet each other, they can only realize the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities, such as calling New Year's greetings, online video, SMS and emerging WeChat. Telephone and video are undoubtedly time-consuming, not economical and fast enough, and it is impossible to spread to all relatives and friends unless they are particularly close. Short message is a popular form of communication, which is fast and convenient enough. It has been popular for more than ten years, but it still occupies the first channel of Spring Festival greetings, only short message operators happen from time to time.

Second, mass messaging makes friendship or affection lose its sense of reality. The maintenance of feelings lies in the management and efforts of both parties. Affection and friendship are two different feelings. We tend to treat each other separately and maintain sincere and long-lasting feelings with different attitudes and methods. The greetings during the Spring Festival, however, have brought the two feelings together and merged into one. During the Chinese New Year, friends and relatives can't tell each other clearly, and they don't want to be so clear. Anyway, it's the New Year, just for happiness and luck, the rule that family and friendship can agree with each other is simply a pot of stew. The disadvantage of mass texting is what kind of mentality is behind those emotionless words. The compilation of blessing information is not a mass mailing, and the true meaning of the text may not be recognized by the sender. Maybe many senders don't know all the information at all and send it out at will. The meaning itself is not important, but the sender cares about the sending itself. Let the other person think about it and see if I haven't forgotten you! Even if the same short message is sent to all the names in the address book that can be stored in the address book, how many are real friends? Not all of them, but quite a few of them may be working partners who have met once or have never met before. These people can't be mentioned in the same breath as their relatives and friends, but they don't have this choice in transmitting information. Family friendship has lost its sense of reality here.