How to chat with ex-girlfriend

1. Tell me about two people's past hobbies.

Chatting with ex-girlfriends may be awkward at first, because they used to know each other very well and had many hobbies, but they had to break up for some reasons. So when you chat with your ex-girlfriend, you can talk about places they have been to, movies they have seen, and so on.

This will not only avoid embarrassment between two people, but also allow more people to talk about the same topic. Therefore, when meeting an ex-girlfriend, boys should not be too entangled and embarrassed. They can find some common interests of two people to expand, so that the content of the chat will certainly become richer and richer, and the unnatural feeling between them will gradually disappear. Therefore, chatting about hobbies is very useful, which can make ex-girlfriends put down their guard and make chatting more enjoyable.

2. Tell an interesting story.

Some interesting social stories and entertainment news are suitable for chatting, because talking more about such news will make each other relax and slowly forget their embarrassing relationship. Even if the ex-girlfriend was in a bad mood at that time, she could tell more interesting things and slowly let her forget the uncomfortable things, so that the whole person would feel more comfortable and happier.

So when you meet your ex-girlfriend, don't worry too much. Get used to each other's rhythm and talk about some interesting topics, which will make you feel more familiar and get to know each other gradually.

3. Talk about the future development plan.

For a couple who have broken up, it is no longer appropriate to talk about some emotional problems. You can talk about work topics after meeting your ex-girlfriend, such as what your future development plan is and what your work plan is in recent years. In this way, the two people will slowly put down their guard and blend into each other's topics, which will also make people feel that time passes quickly, and perhaps they will reach some kind of tacit understanding and help each other at work.

4. Open topics

Finally, reduce closed conversations and try to make everyone's chat topics closely around each other. Closed question-and-answer is more like interrogation than chatting, and no one likes this kind of speech. It is a stronger method to use open topic discussion to let each other express their opinions.

Communication is not one-sided, and high-quality conversations must cooperate with each other. So, if the other person's topic discussion is boring, try to jump out of this boring social circle and start a new topic discussion. To put it simply, it is easy to talk about the topic without explicitly asking whether it is true or not. Clearly put forward multiple-choice questions, or let the other party clearly put forward the selected topic for discussion. Open topic discussion is.

5. Chat opportunities

When you create a connection, you should quickly pull in the connection between you, so talk to each other if you have nothing to do. First, give them an impression that chatting is very interesting, so that chatting can generate hope, but he is not allowed to understand the regularity. We can find that the frequency of small talk will be lower and lower, because just beginning to cherish purposefully will help reduce the cycle time for you to promote association.