How to coax your girlfriend into a headache?

Girlfriend is the most lovely creature in the world, and of course it is also the most difficult to serve in the world. When she said "headache", she couldn't comfort her in the way that girls liked, but she tripped over many men. So how can my girlfriend comfort her when she says she has a headache? The following small series will teach you to be a man with high emotional intelligence.

First, why does the girlfriend say that she has a headache?

Generally speaking, a girlfriend's "headache" is nothing more than these situations:

1, maybe I didn't sleep well or stayed up late last night, which caused my headache.

2. During the physiological period, girls will feel uncomfortable, leading to headaches.

3. I am in a bad mood and want you to feel sorry for her and comfort her.

Whether girls say that their headaches are due to physical discomfort or bad mood, they are actually sharing their emotions and feelings. Said she had a headache, just to tell you this information. But men will regard it as a need and subconsciously think about how to solve it. Often the result is that girls don't buy it and label it as "straight man".

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Second, how can my girlfriend comfort me when she says she has a headache?

Many times, girls complain of headaches, and boys know that the other party wants to comfort themselves. When comforting, they will say something like "I know, I understand, I understand". Even if you really understand, you have to understand that girls say "headache" because they want to spit, talk, listen to you and then vent. Comfort is only the last step.

1, listen to the girls first.

First of all, you should accept girls' spit and talk, talk about girls' emotions, let girls finish their sentences, and don't rush to comfort them, for example:

Baby, why do you have a headache?

Baby, do you have a headache?

Are you okay? Honey.

It is the key to guide a girl to tell her why she has a headache.

2, echo the words of girls, and guide girls to vent their emotions.

After listening to the girl's words, many boys think it's time to comfort her and tell her some experiences similar to those of girls. At present, you may make her feel in the same boat, such as:

I had a headache before, and it was as bad as you, but I watched a movie by myself and had a good sleep.

But then she will find that you don't understand her emotions, you just see a very shallow level of emotions, and your analogy will be interpreted by her as a piece of cake.

The correct way is to echo girls' words and guide them to vent their emotions, such as:

Headache is really uncomfortable. Are you better now?

Headache is really uncomfortable. Do you still have a headache?

3. Distract girls' attention

After echoing the girl's words and guiding the girl to vent her emotions, in fact, at this time, the girl's state has improved. At this time, don't always focus on the topic of headache, try to divert your girlfriend's attention and let her stop obsessing about the headache. For example:

I was sad when you were sick, baby. Do you want something to eat?

Honey, do you miss my headache? I miss you very much.

4. Give girls the feeling of being loved (overbearing president has a sense of sight)

Comfort, as the last step, is actually the finishing touch. Generally, girls' emotions are basically stable at this time. At this time, you can do this:

Step one: blame her. First, you blame her for not taking care of herself, and then you worry about getting sick (pay attention to your tone, it hurts).

Step two: blame yourself. The little fool is ill. It's really my fault that I didn't take good care of you.

Step three: appear in front of her. No matter how many words, it is better to appear in front of her. This is the best comfort. Of course, if you are in a different place, you can send some small gifts to girls.