Will you reply when you receive a group of New Year's messages?

Originally, we should be reunited with our families and relax during the Spring Festival, but many people are so tired on New Year's Eve. Just replying to the New Year message sent by others, my hand cramps.

If you receive this extremely obvious group message, do you want to reply?

You said, "It's not easy, don't go back!"

Maybe you are also holding a posture of "no reply to all the mass New Year messages", but is it that simple?

If you think from the perspective of the sender of short messages, there are also reasons for sending short messages in groups.

First, pass on happiness.

Some people don't think that the message of New Year's greetings must be directed at someone. He just celebrated the arrival of the festival in such a way, making it auspicious, making the atmosphere of this festival more intense, and purely expressing personal happiness, joy and excitement.

Sometimes, it may be that I can't help but share the information that is transmitted by heat with my friends when I see it is very interesting (for example, splicing pictures), so I turn it out in the form of mass, so that others can have fun.

Second, brush the sense of existence.

It is not ruled out that some people send messages to celebrate the New Year in groups, just to take a bubble and shine, just like a long-term latent underwater suddenly sticking its head out of the water and then sneaking back.

This message is like saying, "Hey! Brothers and sisters, I still miss you very much. I am here. Please call me if you have anything! " Or: "I still have your mobile phone number or WeChat. Come and have a chat when you are free! "

Third, don't be special.

Others, because of the mass-mailing atmosphere around them, just send text messages to each other, holding the mentality that "if others do it anyway, it's right to follow suit" and "I can't stay behind and not do anything special", so I also make fun of this.

As a result, some friends joked that they met many people's real names on WeChat this Spring Festival, because the messages sent by the other party were all real names XXX and greetings.

Of course, among the people who send messages to individuals in the group, a large number of boss-level figures are not excluded. Because there are too many people in charge, I didn't send a message, fearing that my subordinates would say, "This old guy usually lets me work, but he doesn't come to the spiritual condolences at critical times"; Send a message, if you don't send it in groups, you may press the phone button to rot, so you can only "form is more important than content."

This is also quite difficult, just like at a dinner party, the person who toasts doesn't have to respect, and the person who picks up the wine doesn't particularly want to pick it up, but in that atmosphere, in order to take part in accidental amusement, a wine scene of "dancing, bluffing and rhetoric" can be collided.

Finally, I benefited from the middle platform for sending these messages, earning a lot of money and smiling.

But the bitter thing is that our friends have accepted the mass New Year greetings. Anyway, at this time, I am hesitant and depressed. Hand fatigue is the second, and heart fatigue is the real entanglement.

Go back, maybe you are just a small fish in a big net, and the other party doesn't take you seriously. It doesn't matter if you can't reply to the message, but your reply includes your time cost (sorry, I am very serious about time ~).

If you don't go back, I'm afraid someone will break their fingers and calculate who didn't go back to settle accounts. Needless to say, I have really encountered such a situation.

I'm sure you can also feel that sending New Year messages in groups may be more of a festive atmosphere, but it doesn't touch the recipient's heart.

During the Spring Festival this year, I also saw a humor in the WeChat circle of friends: I put a comparison picture of the correct New Year greeting posture, with group messages on the left and red envelopes on the right. From this, we can also see the humor and hidden feelings of everyone's mass New Year greetings.

If it is expressed by popular words in the soft world, it may be the sender's "self-satisfaction" behavior, which only cares about his own happiness and ignores the receiver's mood.

If we judge by the "experience" valued by the current business community, we will only touch ourselves but not each other. It is difficult to reach the passing line.

Of course, when I say this, I don't mean to resolutely oppose mass news, but to put an end to mass news. Instead, I feel that as a big festival like the Spring Festival, Kyushu has fun, the whole world is celebrating, most people are on vacation, and the atmosphere is pleasant. The other party will exchange information with you more patiently. Can we make the New Year message more valuable, meaningful and memorable?

Whether to reply to the mass New Year message depends on your own idea, or you can choose to reply to an ordinary message in order to "reciprocate". Is it like the feeling that students are coping with their homework? Because of this, please don't blame me if I don't reply to the mass New Year greetings. Because it's really soft.