How to seduce a boy you like?

How to seduce a boy you like? Many girls have told me such a difficult problem: what should I do if I secretly love a boy? I often read some emotional books and WeChat official accounts, saying that girls should not be too active, because being too active will be very embarrassing. But if you don't take the initiative, boys won't take the initiative to flirt, especially girls whose conditions are not super good. Why miss it for nothing? Does everyone have to take it lightly? In fact, as far as the temptation of using value and men's love psychology are concerned, it is 99% impossible for a girl to meet a boy she likes without flirting, and there will be opportunities when flirting. Then how can I attract the handsome guy I like and guide him to chase you actively?

1. Keep a proper distance.

Many women, once they like a man, will become very clingy, ask him out as soon as they have time, and keep calling and sending messages when they can't see him.

However, we must understand that men have a strong desire to conquer, and they are often more keen on hunting some difficult prey. Once it is too easy to get, it will inevitably make men feel unchallenged and lose interest.

With the man you like, a woman should know how to play hard to get. Although you want to express your admiration and affection for him, don't make it clear, but learn to keep his appetite, so that he can't get it and can't stop.

When getting along with the opposite sex, no matter how much a woman likes a man, she should not love too much. Love more every day, and you will make men love you more.

2. Give him a special feeling

In fact, men are vain and like to be treated specially by the opposite sex to show their uniqueness and charm.

A woman likes a man, but she wants him to confess, so what you need is not to wait, but to know how to hint.

For example, you are cold and sharp in front of other men, but gentle and pleasant in front of him; You are indifferent to other men, but you are very enthusiastic about him; You despise other men, but you worship him. ...

When you give him a feeling that you are the most special in my heart, then men can not only understand your mind, but also be very useful. Slowly, I will naturally have a good impression on you and like you.

Don't chat with him every day.

In love, most women will make the same mistake, that is, they will keep in touch with someone after they like him.

However, people get used to it easily. When he is used to your initiative, he will be too lazy to pay, and after a long time, he will even find you annoying.

A woman, if she likes a man, can send him a message, but not every day or at a fixed point. Every now and then, every few days, take the initiative to chat with him. Only in this way, every time you chat with him, he will feel flattered and your efforts will be better rewarded.

Step 4 take the initiative to confess

Many women always go to two extremes, one is too active and the other is too reserved. In fact, in both cases, it is easy to miss the man you like.

It's not that women can't express themselves, but it depends on the situation. If a man is shy or particularly excellent, there are not a few women who like him.

Then don't hesitate at this time, take the initiative.

After all, as long as a woman pursues a man, as long as he has a little affection for you, then your initiative can often make a man irresistible.

Emotionally, women are always used to being swayed by considerations of gain and loss. I like him. What if he doesn't like me? What if I confess that I can't even be friends?

Actually, you don't have to be in such a hurry. If you like it, be brave to tease it.

It doesn't matter if you don't have friends to do it. After all, what you lack is a lover, not an ordinary friend.