The girl doesn't like you and doesn't accept the gift you gave her. What should I do? Do you want to take the rejected gift home?

Boys may think that it is normal to give gifts to girls they like, and they also hope that girls can give gifts to themselves, indicating that girls accept their wishes. But for a girl, she will not accept a gift from a boy casually. What is the psychology of girls not accepting gifts? Does she feel stressed?

First, girls are not casual people.

Girls don't accept gifts from boys casually, which shows that she is not a very casual person. Maybe many girls will naturally spend boys' money and ask for all kinds of expensive or inexpensive gifts, and call this true love. However, for girls who are not casual, they owe a favor when they receive a gift, and sensible girls should know that the owed favor will be paid back sooner or later. Your relationship will deepen as soon as you pay back the money. There are several possibilities for her not to accept gifts: she doesn't like your gifts, she can't afford your gifts, and she doesn't want to deepen the relationship between you at all.

Second, girls are rejecting you.

If you are not boyfriend and girlfriend with a girl, but you are pursuing a girl, and this girl doesn't accept birthday gifts and doesn't want you to spend money for her, it is actually a euphemism to refuse you.

If you don't pursue a girl, but you still give her a gift, then she is rejecting an ambiguous relationship.

If you and the girl are already boyfriends, if the girl doesn't want to accept gifts and the boy doesn't want to spend money, I don't know why, because if it were me, I would still be happy to receive gifts from my boyfriend. Maybe girls think you need to save money in your current economic situation, so plan for the future!

Third, the gift you sent is too expensive.

Maybe a girl feels that any relationship wants to be based on equality and mutual respect, is unwilling to show weakness easily, and wants to live in this world in a way she likes. If you give a girl a small gift, you will give her a gift, but the gift you gave her is too expensive and the other party can't afford the same price, so don't accept your gift.

Fourth, girls are afraid of trouble.

There are not many festivals now, such as Qixi, Valentine's Day, Birthday, Memorial Day, Girls' Day, 520 Barabara ... In these festivals, boys will also struggle with what gifts to give, and once they get used to boys giving gifts, they will definitely have ideas and feel uncomfortable if they don't give them on a certain festival. So I won't have any thoughts after I didn't give it to me. After all, whether a boyfriend is willing to spend money on himself is not only reflected by giving gifts. Moreover, it is not good for boys to send gifts to girls, and it is not good for girls not to return them, and the gifts they send cannot be repeated every time. You have a headache when you think about it yourself. It's best not to receive or give gifts!

In fact, whether you love a person or not is not based on whether you give a gift, so boys should not speculate too much about the psychology of girls not accepting gifts, talk to girls more and ask them out. This kind of practical contact is better than giving gifts at will, and girls will not feel any pressure.