Is Ying Cai'er's character really "straightforward" or really "ferocious"?

Ying Cai'er's character is not only really straightforward, but also one with high emotional intelligence. She is straightforward and strong on the surface, but she knows how to advance and retreat very well.

In addition to the classic image of "Pheasant Brother", Jordan Chan also appeared in the 1998 version of "The Deer and the Cauldron" as Wei Xiaobao, while Ying Caier played A Ke in the mainland version of "The Deer and the Cauldron". However, compared to Wei Xiaobao and A Ke, the relationship between the two off-screen can be said to be quite smooth. Whether it is marriage or career, Cai'er Ying's ability to go smoothly is naturally closely related to her high emotional intelligence.

The bohemian Pheasant in the movie series "Young and Dangerous" can be said to be a well-known screen image, and Jordan Chan himself seems to be quite "naturally bad-tempered and not easy to mess with." In variety shows , he even personally proved this to the majority of netizens. However, such a hot-tempered Chen Xiaochun, when he mentioned his wife Ying Cai'er, the helplessness on his face was full of tenderness and doting.

He said bluntly: She is my girlfriend. She is very savage, talks very loudly to me, and makes direct demands on me, but I am eaten to death by her.

There is a very good saying: similar people are suitable for playing together, and people who complement each other are suitable for growing old together. Cai'er Ying has a fiery personality in her daily life, but this does not mean that she is truly "fierce" and tough. Her straightforwardness and frankness are kept within a safe range. In other words, she clearly knows where the other person's bottom line is, knows how to lose her temper to put pressure on the other half, and run away after flirting, instead of "fiercely" with unlimited frankness. Only in this way can Chen Xiaochun be "sucked to death by her".

It can make Chen Xiaochun, who is not good at words, restrain his temper, carefully prepare surprises and romances, take him around to travel, and prepare surprises. These are not "rude, bad character, too irritable or too fierce" ” small achievements that women can achieve in marriage.

An important detail that makes this couple regarded as a model couple by netizens should be that at a concert, Cai Er wore a pink bow headband and interacted with Jordan Chan who was singing on the stage. The sweetness was so sweet that they were praised. It is the real-life version of "she is laughing when you are making trouble".

Jordan Chan once described his wife like this: I don’t laugh very often and don’t talk that much. She talks too much and smiles very hopefully. Standing behind her, she keeps laughing and laughing...

Cherrie Ying once talked about Brother Pheasant, a model husband, in an interview. She also said bluntly: He talks less, has fewer opinions, and is more boring. I am more noisy, talk more, and have more opinions. In fact, if we get married with complementary personalities, Yes, that is true love. She will openly complain about her husband's black face and bad temper in front of others, but she will also not hesitate to praise her. When it comes to Jordan Chan, Cai'er Ying will also turn into a fangirl. Her words are full of praise for her husband. She will especially proudly praise Jordan Chan, "Sings beautifully. Acting is great." It can be said that it is Ying Caier's straightforward character that brings vitality to this marriage.

Ying Cai'er grew up in a relatively Western-style environment. Her parents are Taiwanese but know a lot about family education. Such families often pay great attention to cultivating children's personality, and this education method is also well extended. to the next generation. Although when asked why Jasper had such a good temper, Ying Cai'er laughed generously: Can he survive to this day if he has a bad temper? But Jasper's polite, gentle and patient performance in the show is definitely not something that can be taught by parents with bad manners and bad character.

Extending from marriage to life, whether in "Mars Intelligence Agency" or the recently popular "Wife's Travel", Ying Cai'er is known for being "frank and dare to speak". She will tease Wei Daxun for "scandals are all over the place". If you don’t, it’s not popular.” However, when Yinger kept mentioning that Wei Daxun was not handsome in the past and Wei Daxun’s face was full of embarrassment, she would also come to the rescue and change the topic.

Although Cai'er Ying's character is straightforward and strong, and very controlling, at the same time, she is able to carefully take care of the feelings of those around her and grasp the sense of proportion with her high emotional intelligence. This is a very rare thing.