I eloped with my boyfriend at the age of 20 and wrote a letter to my parents so that they didn't have to worry about how to write it.

For 20 years, regardless of my parents' feelings, I think it's better not to write this letter. A selfish person like you, it's best not to affect other people's lives. Without you, your parents may have a good life. They have forgotten your existence. If you are writing a letter or making a phone call, saying that you are still alive, you are disturbing their peaceful life! I don't know. I thought you went back to divide your parents' property when they were old.

Of course, there are only children who abandon their parents, and there are no parents who don't have children. Your parents may still miss you. However, your abrupt reply to the message will definitely make them very excited. Maybe after knowing your news, high blood pressure went up, which is very dangerous for the elderly.

What letter are you writing now? Just say you're fine, don't worry.